Why always a girl is termed wrong ?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

We claim to be people with progressive thoughts , but in such cases the typical conventional and regressive mentality dominates over progressive .

Sad that females are against females.

We dont need males against us.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thank you for this! Blaming Pallavi for allowing Mandhaar to touch her is smiley11. This is coming from full grown adults btw, who are at least 18+ and several are also married and have kids. Just because someone is married is it ok to blame them for freezing when they are harassed? Or does being molested seem like cheating? I'm not a Pallu fan but this thought process has made me way too mad, not just for Pallu but for several people out there. Thanks for addressing. I must be younger than many of these people but I know better than this.

(copied this part from another thread)

Secondly, right now Pallavi has to pretend to be in love with Mandhaar to save her aai's life. Other stupidity of her and Raghav aside, the current situation is this and it is hard to change it. She simply cannot afford to show her discomfort because that would blow her cover and she would either end up being locked or Aai injured. Would she really risk her Aai's life and little freedom? Pallavi is a victim right now and blaming her is very wrong.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

well said 👏

I told in another post.. it’s easy to oppose unknown people rather than known people ..I totally understand pallavi ..she was shocked scared everything today .. lesson today is for everyone ..


Pallavi was tortured mentally and emotionally and today she understood M can be physical too .. and Raghav also saw it ..

People can say Raghav was childish but he was not aware M can stoop down so much .. he will for surly react now ..

Tks for the tag dear ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Well said. Post is the need of the day.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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THANK YOU! I was so disappointed with some of threads on this forum today. People claim that it's 2021, we have modern soch and criticize stereotypical, old-school methods on ITV yet they're the first to victim-blame especially when the victim is a woman.


The most ridiculous post I saw was someone who said a wife should recognize the touch of a husband and how Pallu had bad characterization because she couldn't recognize Raghav. Like that is the most unrealistic thing in real life and yet the person was bashing Pallavi because their cliche scene didn't happen. Some even went as far as saying that Pallavi can recognize Mandar's touch and not Raghav's. It's clear what they're insinuating. At this point, I don't even bother interacting with such threads but I'm glad you shared your thought because it's nice to see someone voicing a logical opinion :)

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nooriex

THANK YOU! I was so disappointed with some of threads on this forum today. People claim that it's 2021, we have modern soch and criticize stereotypical, old-school methods on ITV yet they're the first to victim-blame especially when the victim is a woman.


The most ridiculous post I saw was someone who said a wife should recognize the touch of a husband and how Pallu had bad characterization because she couldn't recognize Raghav. Like that is the most unrealistic thing in real life and yet the person was bashing Pallavi because their cliche scene didn't happen. Some even went as far as saying that Pallavi can recognize Mandar's touch and not Raghav's. It's clear what they're insinuating. At this point, I don't even bother interacting with such threads but I'm glad you shared your thought because it's nice to see someone voicing a logical opinion :)

The language some people used in forum today was more shocking than mandaar physical abuse ..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nooriex

THANK YOU! I was so disappointed with some of threads on this forum today. People claim that it's 2021, we have modern soch and criticize stereotypical, old-school methods on ITV yet they're the first to victim-blame especially when the victim is a woman.


The most ridiculous post I saw was someone who said a wife should recognize the touch of a husband and how Pallu had bad characterization because she couldn't recognize Raghav. Like that is the most unrealistic thing in real life and yet the person was bashing Pallavi because their cliche scene didn't happen. Some even went as far as saying that Pallavi can recognize Mandar's touch and not Raghav's. It's clear what they're insinuating. At this point, I don't even bother interacting with such threads but I'm glad you shared your thought because it's nice to see someone voicing a logical opinion :)

Thank you! Thank you! I did try to argue in these thread too but being unmarried my words obviously had zero value and apparently every single married person can do all these otherwise they never loved their husband🤔

But today, I'm extremely annoyed. I might work myself up to tears. Not because of Pallu but because of the unnecessary expectation we have from people and if I may women. And if they don't fit into our criteria they are wrong. If anyone was in Pallu's place today, Keerthi, Mansi, Sulochana I would have still said the same things.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MHRW99

well said 👏

I told in another post.. it’s easy to oppose unknown people rather than known people ..I totally understand pallavi ..she was shocked scared everything today .. lesson today is for everyone ..


Pallavi was tortured mentally and emotionally and today she understood M can be physical too .. and Raghav also saw it ..

People can say Raghav was childish but he was not aware M can stoop down so much .. he will for surly react now ..

Tks for the tag dear ❤️

Exactly.. now Raghu has to buck up

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

Exactly.. now Raghu has to buck up

He will he will .. he has understood the depth and the seriousness .. Anna chodega nahi 😅

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