Why always a girl is termed wrong ? - Page 6

Originally posted by: hapc

I agree that she needs to stand her ground with the Deshmukhs. Her behavior is some tracks, especially abortion tracks is proof of that. That being said I doubt this is about standing ground against the Deshmukhs, this is about feeling helpless when you are assaulted because your assaulter is at a position where they can cause more harm or maybe simply panicking under such a situation. As to the lion’s den…. I have repeatedly said just because a woman decided to go out at night, get drunk, wear short clothes or in this case do her pleats in the hallway in a house of creeps it doesn’t excuse her being assaulted. She isn’t the problem. Worst case you could call her stupid and ask her to take better care of herself but that doesn’t mean you blame her. And even if she is stupid the only person harmed by her actions is her so I don’t see how blaming her makes it better.

Originally posted by: Mysterie_girl

Sruthy

Thanks for this!!

Well, this is nothing new in forum TBH, if you have observed then since few days, for every single thing Pallavi is getting criticized, even if she is at fault or not

But today, it was limit...rightly said, a woman goes through so much in real life

Had Pallavi made out a scene out of this, this would have fed doubt in Mandar's mind, he was already skeptical about whose picture she had burnt...she is doing to all for family.

Being a victim, she is still at the receiving end of criticism -_-

She is mentally tired now...handling the whole family and on top of that a psycho person is a task to, and she badly needs support which Raghav will going to provide her (I am expecting tomorrow he will be out in open)

Originally posted by: Mysterie_girl

Sruthy

Thanks for this!!

Well, this is nothing new in forum TBH, if you have observed then since few days, for every single thing Pallavi is getting criticized, even if she is at fault or not

But today, it was limit...rightly said, a woman goes through so much in real life

Had Pallavi made out a scene out of this, this would have fed doubt in Mandar's mind, he was already skeptical about whose picture she had burnt...she is doing to all for family.

Being a victim, she is still at the receiving end of criticism -_-

She is mentally tired now...handling the whole family and on top of that a psycho person is a task to, and she badly needs support which Raghav will going to provide her (I am expecting tomorrow he will be out in open)

Thanks for understanding dear ... I also hope Raghav will tell the truth . Atleast she will be a bit relieved that yes Raghav is DER for her and with her ❤️..

Since a long time I wanted to write but today I lost it couldn't resist myself ..

Originally posted by: Cinderella100

this was never her family. She needed to understand that. She still puts D family above everything - even her marraiage. That is the only reason Pallavi gets bashed. When you married for 2nd time you cannot treat 1st husbands house like Maika & run there partaking in all their festivals especially when more than half that family doesnt want you there & at one stage you were thrown out of that house. She can always meet those she got on well with out of that house. Also now with Mandar back how does it define their present relationship with one another.

She didn't had a proper family before marrying in Deshmukh's...before Raghav's entry, she was daughter to them, if not for Sulochana and Amrutha (in starting), every other used to love her like their own

It is mayka for her...and one cannot deny it

She was thrown out, but didn't Aai supported her throughout, and so does Nikhil (even if he is not present now) and not to forgot Kaka

She made it clear during that thaal incident that if not VD, Sulochana or Manasi, she will always going to be there for Aai and Kaka

Plates of saree scene was not good. Pallvi is not weak. If she can show knife to Swapnil, why not oppose Mandar .

Originally posted by: Cinderella100

this was never her family. She needed to understand that. She still puts D family above everything - even her marraiage. That is the only reason Pallavi gets bashed. When you married for 2nd time you cannot treat 1st husbands house like Maika & run there partaking in all their festivals especially when more than half that family doesnt want you there & at one stage you were thrown out of that house. She can always meet those she got on well with out of that house. Also now with Mandar back how does it define their present relationship with one another.

🤗bang on ..

u wrote it perfectly when ur married ur hubby is ur priority

mayka too comes secondary now primary unless ur parents are ill ..

Originally posted by: Mysterie_girl

Sruthy

Thanks for this!!

Well, this is nothing new in forum TBH, if you have observed then since few days, for every single thing Pallavi is getting criticized, even if she is at fault or not

But today, it was limit...rightly said, a woman goes through so much in real life

Had Pallavi made out a scene out of this, this would have fed doubt in Mandar's mind, he was already skeptical about whose picture she had burnt...she is doing to all for family.

Being a victim, she is still at the receiving end of criticism -_-

She is mentally tired now...handling the whole family and on top of that a psycho person is a task to, and she badly needs support which Raghav will going to provide her (I am expecting tomorrow he will be out in open)

she is not victim

we know pallu is way too strong than this .

i dont agree

there was escape technic too pushing him to stumping his foot or calling anyone .

there was a way out ..

we expect her to counter mandy but sorry we cant tolerate this shit

even raghu is doing comedy shay so much dragging

what's her plan to crack down mandy no plans ..

what if one day he cross limits further do u think still she is victim

never seen her tucking saree outside bathroom before come on mens are around that house ..

ladies should be careful

makers are throwing shit and we cant take it

sorry boss the pallu now and before no match at all

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

IRL also this happens kare sab mard aur bhukte aurat!! Gandagi phailayagi mard le kin zimmedar banegi aurat!! 😡

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

It is so disappointing yaar ... The act was so disgusting .. but bashing is only of a girl ????

Mandu did all but pallu is blamed for it why why why?????

A woman goes through so much in real life .. those stares those disgusting touches but society will always blame a girl only !!! Oh she didn't wear her clothes properly oh she is roaming at night that's why it happened ! Oh her parents are to be blamed!! Why why why ??

Same thing here too. Isn't Raghav at fault by not disclosing his identity ??

And pallu not reacting like how will she react by slapping him???????? Like she in front of the whole family said she is happy with d fam and mandu . And suddenly she slapping mandu will it not create a doubt ?? Why is she staying in d house ? The answer is to protect her aai and to collect proof of crime ! Next question why can she call police ? She doesn't have proof .. without proof will the police take him will the family believe her ???

Then comes what pallu has done so far .. she has created a setup where mandu will not hurt anyone else too and most importantly Raghav too. Now she has to get her husband's help . And a person who is 24 / 7 behind you how will she do that alone ???

Don't we feel that pallu is a victim here. She is tortured daily both mentally and physically ???

Pls don’t take me wrong…it’s not about a women being blamed here at least not for me…it’s just the way Pallavi’s character is played out here…No Woman would let a Man touch her against her will without a Protest, not even to save her life…as a woman it’s completely unacceptable for me to see a man again and again trying to get physically close to her and she is just shown getting uncomfortable but never Protesting…they may show her physically weaker than him…but how can they show her emotionally weak to the point that she never ever Protested to his physical advances…it’s not once or twice it has happened multiple times now, they are showing this from day one of this track…he keeps touching her and she just gets uncomfortable..that’s it??? That’s all a woman would do when she is harassed again and again???what do these writers think..we are fools..

Just yesterday they showed her getting fierce with Swapnil and today she is frozen while a man is breaching her privacy…this is disturbing at multiple levels…the writers need to stop it now…

I sincerely feel bad for the character Pallavi because she is the only character in the show which is presented with so much duplicity…one day she is the Jhansi Ki Rani and the next day she is damsel in distress one day she is brandishing a knife at the man who touched her inappropriately and next day she is standing like a frozen queen while she going through the same thing…the writers need to figure it out for once what they want her to do…do they want us to see two contradicting personalities in one person…don’t they realize how hypocritical its getting…