Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#74|Rishita Cha Gayi (YELLOW ALERT) - Page 79

Originally posted by: mpks1

I prefer a clear monologue from Raavi. Thought would get a reflection of today’s events of Pandya Niwas, instead we got her chatting in SM😕

You need to start asking for something different 😆 maybe Raavi breakdown or Shivi separation...tab shayad you'll get a Raavi monologue 😆

I know we are frustrated with raavi's characterisation.we want her to realise her feelings, be clear on what she wants, but hasn't she always been an airhead?

The girl doesn't get people's feelings for her.thats the bitter truth.she was under the misconception that Dev loves her since childhood just because he was nice to her.how can she understand the insecurities,hurt and feelings of a layered, deep loner, contemplative character like shiva? ,When she couldn't understand the crystal clear indifference of Dev towards her.

she was right when she said that he is like the most difficult maths problem for her.

Shiva was mean, but he was right when he said ki woh bachpan se aisi hai.she forms opinions on people based on superficial things.

She is innocent, pure hearted, forgiving,kind but she is dumb.

She has always been.

No doubt everyone calls her dobii.

As for now, she just wants shiva to behave cordiality with her. Wants companionship.she has surely not thought about the intimate intricacies of marriage.shiva will be nice to her, bring gifts for her and she will be happy.but shiva ko to shiddat wala pyarrr chahiye.

We are in for a veryy sloww realisation.

She will come around gradually, slowly.

Originally posted by: Transference

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1. Dhara Bechari with Suman Anita-TRP aunties going gaga over bhar bhar ke beizzati

2. Gaumbi-Jai Sri Ram ideal Pati- Beizzati sehne Wali bahuyein dream about him

3. Rishita-Logical Gen Z hustlers and aggressors

4. Shivi-Typical Mills and Boons Gul khanesque angry hero naive heroine trope-💪 Baccha party swoons

5. Krishna comedy

6. Dev-can’t place him. Dude finance should be the top most priority for every family. Raaste pe bheekh nahi mang sakte na!

Jeb mein nahi Dane, Amma chali Bhunane

🤣🤣🤣

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#1 and #2 ARE MY FAVS

But what's with Shiva? This comparison is not done. He isn't gray / layered character. I can't figure out his reason to treat raavi like this..childhood till date. Why is he mad on her ? Baaki sabke saath toh normal hai. If it's a copy paste of Gk heros it's a poor one. Zabardasti ki angst hai aur zabardasti ka gussa hai. I can take flawed heros..sabki personality hoti hai with flaws and layers.. Shiva ki mujhe samajh nai aati.

Aise hi dev ki samajh nai aati..andhbhakti unlimited. "Rishita tum.jo keh rahi ho practical hai, par is mein emotion nahi hai"🤣

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

I am taking tips from you❤️

Just that I need to find a guy😆

🍩 worry you'll find an amazinggg guy 🥺❤️

& he'll make you the happiest you've ever been, just like you'd make him :))

I think we all know that Raavi has serious abandonment issues. Even pre wedding we see her trying to get Shiva's acceptance in any way and form possible. Case in point, her mehendi. Now that he is her husband I think all she is ready for at this point is the comfort of having someone for her, in any form. Shiva is pretty clear that he won't think of her as his wife initially, so she suggests being strangers, then upon him disagreeing, friends.

Raavi, despite what she believes about herself, seems to trust actions over words. Pre wedding Dev never professed his love for her, but his actions were misleading, they show acceptance of Raavi's love for him and that he cares for her, not confusion and disbelief as it should have been to deter her. At the wedding, when he his actions scream indifference for her, she finally sees that he never loved her.

Now despite Shiva still fighting with her, his actions had begun to show acceptance for her, which is why the emotional distancing hurts her as opposed to enraging her. I think that now she knows that Shiva is insecure but is at a loss at how to help him. Raavi has tried to tell him, but he isn't seeing her, he isn't hearing her, and she doesn't know how to make him do that without annoying him. #dobi raavi

I think if Shiva keeps at this, and Raavi were to have a breakdown, it would be alone. I don't think it has to be a massive cryfest even, it would be enough for her to just go silent, it would be even more effective if you ask me. For someone as lively as Raavi being silent and simply completing the routine of her life mechanically would be the brightest red alert she could give others that she is now tired, is now broken.

And when she realises what has happened to her, in a real life scenario, another suicide attempt is very much possible. Relapses are real with any mental health issue and suicidal tendencies are no joke....

But, who am I kidding, this is PS and they're probably going to make Raavi be the aadarsh bahurani, jo sab kuch sehen karegi aur parivaar bhi sambhaalegi.

P. S, there is a popular dialogue, saying in tamil, kaaya patta singathin moochu adhan garjanaiyai vida bayangaramaanadhu. It's popular in other languages too and means that the breath of a wounded lion is much more fearsome than it's roar. This is what Shiva is to me right now. A wounded lion, and therefore much more dangerous to Raavi's wellbeing

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I know we are frustrated with raavi's characterisation.we want her to realise her feelings, be clear on what she wants, but hasn't she always been an airhead?

The girl doesn't get people's feelings for her.thats the bitter truth.she was under the misconception that Dev loves her since childhood just because he was nice to her.how can she understand the insecurities,hurt and feelings of a layered, deep loner, contemplative character like shiva? ,When she couldn't understand the crystal clear indifference of Dev towards her.

she was right when she said that he is like the most difficult maths problem for her.

Shiva was mean, but he was right when he said ki woh bachpan se aisi hai.she forms opinions on people based on superficial things.

She is innocent, pure hearted, forgiving,kind but she is dumb.

She has always been.

No doubt everyone calls her dobii.

As for now, she just wants shiva to behave cordiality with her. Wants companionship.she has surely not thought about the intimate intricacies of marriage.shiva will be nice to her, bring gifts for her and she will be happy.but shiva ko to shiddat wala pyarrr chahiye.

We are in for a veryy sloww realisation.

She will come around gradually, slowly.

@bold

That's totally fine. I actually do think that this "just existing" is very much her. Usse realization ke dohre bohot hi der se hote hai 😆 but kuch toh dikhaye ki kya soch rahi, especially when something major happens like the haath jatakna. 2 lines to Anita and then 2 minute crying session with other people talking me baad, sab bhul gaye

I think everyone's expected a slow burn. But what we're getting is a disjointed mix of scenes which again gets diluted with other randomness

Originally posted by: Pottermeow

I think we all know that Raavi has serious abandonment issues. Even pre wedding we see her trying to get Shiva's acceptance in any way and form possible. Case in point, her mehendi. Now that he is her husband I think all she is ready for at this point is the comfort of having someone for her, in any form. Shiva is pretty clear that he won't think of her as his wife initially, so she suggests being strangers, then upon him disagreeing, friends.

Raavi, despite what she believes about herself, seems to trust actions over words. Pre wedding Dev never professed his love for her, but his actions were misleading, they show acceptance of Raavi's love for him and that he cares for her, not confusion and disbelief as it should have been to deter her. At the wedding, when he his actions scream indifference for her, she finally sees that he never loved her.

Now despite Shiva still fighting with her, his actions had begun to show acceptance for her, which is why the emotional distancing hurts her as opposed to enraging her. I think that now she knows that Shiva is insecure but is at a loss at how to help him. Raavi has tried to tell him, but he isn't seeing her, he isn't hearing her, and she doesn't know how to make him do that without annoying him. #dobi raavi

I think if Shiva keeps at this, and Raavi were to have a breakdown, it would be alone. I don't think it has to be a massive cryfest even, it would be enough for her to just go silent, it would be even more effective if you ask me. For someone as lively as Raavi being silent and simply completing the routine of her life mechanically would be the brightest red alert she could give others that she is now tired, is now broken.

And when she realises what has happened to her, in a real life scenario, another suicide attempt is very much possible. Relapses are real with any mental health issue and suicidal tendencies are no joke....

But, who am I kidding, this is PS and they're probably going to make Raavi be the aadarsh bahurani, jo sab kuch sehen karegi aur parivaar bhi sambhaalegi.

P. S, there is a popular dialogue, saying in tamil, kaaya patta singathin moochu adhan garjanaiyai vida bayangaramaanadhu. It's popular in other languages too and means that the breath of a wounded lion is much more fearsome than it's roar. This is what Shiva is to me right now. A wounded lion, and therefore much more dangerous to Raavi's wellbeing

@bold 1 - this is such an interesting perspective ❤️

@bold 2 - I can definitely see her as withdrawing into herself. She did this during the haveli and kangan drama tracks to some extent. But I don't know if she'll be shown suicidal again.🤔 Also, seeing how the writers have made a mockery of suicide, I really don't think they're capable of writing another emotional suicide track.

Yep, I'm not expecting them to show her as suicidal again either. Making a joke out of it once was enough. I do think they can still make her give the silent treatment although they might end up making her look like a child throwing a tantrum as opposed to what we're talking about here.

Originally posted by: Pottermeow

I think we all know that Raavi has serious abandonment issues. Even pre wedding we see her trying to get Shiva's acceptance in any way and form possible. Case in point, her mehendi. Now that he is her husband I think all she is ready for at this point is the comfort of having someone for her, in any form. Shiva is pretty clear that he won't think of her as his wife initially, so she suggests being strangers, then upon him disagreeing, friends.

Raavi, despite what she believes about herself, seems to trust actions over words. Pre wedding Dev never professed his love for her, but his actions were misleading, they show acceptance of Raavi's love for him and that he cares for her, not confusion and disbelief as it should have been to deter her. At the wedding, when he his actions scream indifference for her, she finally sees that he never loved her.

Now despite Shiva still fighting with her, his actions had begun to show acceptance for her, which is why the emotional distancing hurts her as opposed to enraging her. I think that now she knows that Shiva is insecure but is at a loss at how to help him. Raavi has tried to tell him, but he isn't seeing her, he isn't hearing her, and she doesn't know how to make him do that without annoying him. #dobi raavi

I think if Shiva keeps at this, and Raavi were to have a breakdown, it would be alone. I don't think it has to be a massive cryfest even, it would be enough for her to just go silent, it would be even more effective if you ask me. For someone as lively as Raavi being silent and simply completing the routine of her life mechanically would be the brightest red alert she could give others that she is now tired, is now broken.

And when she realises what has happened to her, in a real life scenario, another suicide attempt is very much possible. Relapses are real with any mental health issue and suicidal tendencies are no joke....

But, who am I kidding, this is PS and they're probably going to make Raavi be the aadarsh bahurani, jo sab kuch sehen karegi aur parivaar bhi sambhaalegi.

P. S, there is a popular dialogue, saying in tamil, kaaya patta singathin moochu adhan garjanaiyai vida bayangaramaanadhu. It's popular in other languages too and means that the breath of a wounded lion is much more fearsome than it's roar. This is what Shiva is to me right now. A wounded lion, and therefore much more dangerous to Raavi's wellbeing

Hello this is so well written- may I know your name?

First paragraph- completely agreed; for her they have to start over else it can never work out since neither of them is willing to accept the other.

Bold1- never thought about it that way but makes sense

Bold 2 that is what I want- a complete surrender from her that no I cannot go along this way. I will complete my duties but do not expect more if you don't even care about my efforts

Bold 3- that would have been a beautiful track- painful yet realistic but I don't want the makers to go that route because they have zero idea on how to handle sensitive issues like mental health and suicide. They have proved that already with numerous suicide attempts. That being said I would love to read this track- do write it when you have time

Originally posted by: Hun95018

Shiva titagram par nahi hai or maybe raavi never followed him back 😂😂

But still he looked at the picture 😂😂😂 He has terrible control power