Member topic: Have you ever regretted any of your love interests? - Page 3

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

I think some people find it extremely hard to be friends with someone they once had feelings for.. in case the feelings come back. It's especially hard to be friends with someone you still have feelings for since you can't be with them romantically.

He doesn’t talk to me much for me to even know what was going on in his mind. He replies to my mails in single sentences and most of the times doesn’t respond. I tried my best to make him speak out but other than saying that he is happy for me and will always be there for me he didn’t say much. He changed his phone no. and didn’t share the new number with me. Other than an occasional mail here and there, we don’t even communicate much anymore. :(

Originally posted by: cutejodikangal

He doesn’t talk to me much for me to even know what was going on in his mind. He replies to my mails in single sentences and most of the times doesn’t respond. I tried my best to make him speak out but other than saying that he is happy for me and will always be there for me he didn’t say much. He changed his phone no. and didn’t share the new number with me. Other than an occasional mail here and there, we don’t even communicate much anymore. :(

I'm sorry. It's hard when someone special to you becomes distant. 😔

Not regretted but definitely made me skeptical. I was a hopeless romantic before, now I am so guarded. It took me 4 years to get over him, now I can't even think of another heartbreak. But, on the flip side, it kind of paved a path for me to go to law school, and focus on myself. I became a tough cookie which I am actually grateful for. The only regret I have is I wasted a lot of my time, and lost my optimism somewhere along the way.

Originally posted by: mintyblue

You loved someone who didn't love you back, and you regret loving that person now?

Maybe, but you know I am someone who treasures my experiences and feelings, even if they might not be good ones.

I just regret getting the wrong signals, like I was being delusional the whole time, I thought things were mutual.

Originally posted by: Chasm

Maybe, but you know I am someone who treasures my experiences and feelings, I just regret getting the wrong signals, like I was being delusional the whole time.

It happens, especially when the other person leads you on.

Happened to me a couple of times as well.

Originally posted by: mintyblue

It happens, especially when the other person leads you on.

Happened to me a couple of times as well.

Did you find the right person? Or the search's still on.

Like if you wanna share.

Been reading your replies and to everyone who went through heartbreak, masssssive hugs to you 🤗 Shit happens but your heart remains beautiful. Scars on your heart do not make you incapable of love. Don't ever give up on your ability to love. If you're someone who gave your all to someone who did not respect or value it, that does not define you. It is your love that made that person special. You are the wholesome being who is capable of so much of love! ❤️ You probably are on your guards a little more now, to protect your heart but please don't choke it :)

OT, no. I feel like my experiences have taught me a lot and have shaped me into the person that I am - as in I'm not saying that I'm perfect at all but I fully embrace this version of me, as I will throughout my evolution as a person. Yes, there are moments when you think about 'what if's but if you don't have the power to change anything, you can't hang on to ghost versions of alternate situations forever. My personal experiences have opened doors that I didn't know existed in me, both good and bad, but I don't feel any regrets because at the end of the day, I was authentic. I cherish and value my feelings and memories.

The only regret that I have is that personally, there has been a painful experience of right person, wrong time. I don't regret loving the person but I just feel sad when I think about the timing. And sometimes one's mind becomes one's greatest enemy. Without wanting to sound cheesy, I strongly believe that that person was one of my soulmates, but I had to let go for reasons.

Haan ek gadhe se paala padha tha. But saved myself before slipping into it. Mann toh karta tha ki joota utha k usko aur apne aap ko dono ko lagau. Kya bewakoof thi main😆

May Allah blessed the soul of all the guys who survived the girls who posted in this thread. 🤲

Yea but I got over it like real quick it was more like accha hua jaan chuti .