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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pakhi didn't push Sai. It was an accident. So she is not wrong. But she didn't help, didn't want to get the first aid box and was even fighting with her. She came out as a selfish and inhuman person.

I think Virat wasn't really angry at Pakhi. But he went mad as soon as she showed her inhuman and insensitive side.

Virat holding her arm tight I didn't like it. It doesn't matter if she is positive or negative. If I didn't like it when he did with Sai then it's the same when he did with Pakhi.

I didn't mind the fact that Sai didn't intervene or tried to brush it under the carpet. But I didn't like how she forced her to attend the party.

All of them were both right and wrong at the same time. 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Although both Virat and Sai were wrong Pakhi nowhere seems close to be the victim. She deserves every bit of the insult hurled at her. And, for the first time I won't criticise Virat for manhandling her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Golmaal hai bhai sab golmaal hai 😃.

They have succeeded in what they wanted. It took quite sometime for me to even get rid of what I had watched in the first scene. I couldn’t even get myself to watch the episode. Thanks to my friend who could make see things from Sai’s perspective and it really makes sense. It is what Kumuda has also written.

Sai thought that she was pushed by Pakhi.

Sai didn’t face Pakhi to know that it was unintentional.

Pakhi didn’t rush to Sai to help her, this would only affirm Sai’s thoughts because if it was unintentional, people would feel sorry and rush to the person whom they have hurt but Pakhi didn’t budge.

Hence Sai’s first statement that it was a gift by Pakhi because she could now make sense out of everything. She could only now see that Pakhia actually hates her so much that she didn’t want to attend her party and headache was just an excuse. She could see that Pakhi didn’t care about her, pushed her and even then didn’t feel sorry. It was this shock, discovery of the reality and hurt that came out as her telling Virat that Pakhi gifted her this. She didn’t expect this since she genuinely cared about Pakhi’s headache, she genuinely wanted Pakhi to be part of the celebration but all she got was hostility as always. Hence even though Sai misunderstood it, it was the circumstances and Pakhi’s unapologetic behavior that made her think that Pakhi hurt her. She was hurt that she was concerned for Pakhi and went to call her but Pakhi has hurt her. That came out as sarcasm to Virat as soon as he saw her.

Added to that, Pakhi not just not felt sorry but also didn’t get the first aid that Virat asked her to get, she kept bad mouthing Sai even then. It was okay for Pakhi to defend herself but can that stop her from giving first aid to Sai? She should have first paid attention to Sai’s wound, should have rushed to her, should have apologised to her even if it was unintentional and then clarified what had happened or justified. Her anger saying Sai is telling lies can be right but didn’t she put herself into that situation by not rushing to Sai as soon as she pushed her, but not apologising to Sai immediately after she pushed her?

Sai had realised that Pakhi hated to attend her birthday party after all this. She had got carried away with her emotions and excitement that the whole house had organised a party for her that she failed to recognise that Pakhi was jealous and angry with her that she was given such a big party. It was this realisation that made Sai tell that she didn’t know that Pakhi had issues with her birthday party.

In front of the family, when Pakhi was trying to explain, one could see Sai trying to understand Pakhi’s explanations. It wasn’t guilt that was seen on Sai but it was a realisation that may be she misunderstood Pakhi, it was a look of her giving benefit of doubt to Pakhi. It was that benefit of doubt that immediately made her ask Pakhi to join the party and for them to resume the party.


Other than that, I would like to say that the manhandling and Virat’s dialogues all looks like an added creativity for them to garner sympathy for Pakhi. For a minute it looked to me that they were trying to show that Virat would act this way if Sai gets gets or to actually show Virat’s love for Sai through his anger. But no, all the sympathy that Pakhi has gained in just one episode and the fact that there has been a deviation from the original when they are experts in copy paste makes me wonder what their real motive is. Rono also felt bad for Emon and grew angry on RK, but they never showed him manhandling RK, then why here?

If Virat couldn’t bear to see Sai in hurt, there were many instances in the past that he would have reacted or responded to both Pakhi and his family, why only now? The Virat I know can grow angry, can lose his cool, can act irrationally, impulsively but I thought would shout at Pakhi but tend to Sai’s wounds and not go manhandling his bhabhi rather than tending to Sai’s wounds. Even during the confrontation, he rushed fo Sai to help her even when he was upset with her, then why would he indulge in these now? There has always been inconsistencies with the characters sketch but this is not one of those. This is a way to gain sympathy for Pakhi and I must give it to them to have achieved it. They have succeeded 👏.


Anyway, as for Pakhi, it was what you sow, so you reap. Even if she had gained sympathy from audience, she was misunderstood by many in the house and was called out for it.

Exactly what I have mentioned in other post. How does Sai get to know or feel that she was not pushed when the force was applied on her.. and it resulted in her falling down, with no remorse from the other woman, not even jumping to see if she is fine or not. The jerk was forceful enough to make the woman of almost the same weight or probably more, fall down and hurt herself. How does the woman who has fallen down understand if it was intentional or not. Because the same woman had applied a certain degree of force to remove the other woman's hand few days back with some force and it did not result in anyone falling. So one knows the difference.. The point is Patralekha put her hatred for Sai, all her frustrations towards her in that one push/jerk. And denied to even help her. That's inhuman. PERIOD!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Missed this since there were a lot of tags today and I got into discussion about Sairat scenes. I started to read this and got distracted with a tag 🤦‍♀️. Will finish reading it and comment on it. Thanks for sharing and for the post too.

Sai misunderstood Pakhi and audience misunderstood Sai 😀

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Tagging you guys. Not sure if I would post a separate analysis, so tagging you now. I might most probably post it since it needs to be brought to attention to all , so that characters don’t get misunderstood the way they have been misunderstood including me for a moment. You guys might or might not agree with me. Just wanted to share my perspective on it since we have a fair understanding of all 3 characters. I had written a bashing post for all 3 characters and is in my draft. Thanks to my friends that I could look at Sai’s position from a different perspective.


Thank you for the tag. Loved reading your take. I wrote a similar thing on many other posts after the episode. All I have to say at this point is that when are the makers going to learn to stop trying to victimize Pakhi?!!! I felt absolutely 0 sympathy for her during the episode.... mostly due to what you have already pointed out.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi


Thank you for the tag. Loved reading your take. I wrote a similar thing on many other posts after the episode. All I have to say at this point is that when are the makers going to learn to stop trying to victimize Pakhi?!!! I felt absolutely 0 sympathy for her during the episode.... mostly due to what you have already pointed out.

Actually, I was very very upset with Sai. Even though I doubt that makers want to gain sympathy for Virat, I am upset with him too.

There was just one thing I felt for Pakhi. She didn’t jerk away Virat’s hands which she should have. She should have shouted at him for doing that than defending herself or badmouthing Sai. This incident should knock some sense into her to stop pursuing Virat, but we all know that she wouldn’t.

Makers have to stop victimising Pakhi. What they have shown about her has been enough to know what she is capable of and who she is. I was so upset as soon as I saw the first scene that Virat had manhandled her, didn’t even hear her side of the explanation, he had even said that her hurt cannot be as big as Sai’s. I was also upset that Sai spoke Pakhi gifted her, never stopped Virat. My whole perception changed after my friends shared about Sai’s pov. I couldn’t help but think if makers wanted to get sympathy for Pakhi and if that was the reason for the creativity.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

Actually, I was very very upset with Sai. Even though I doubt that makers want to gain sympathy for Virat, I am upset with him too.

There was just one thing I felt for Pakhi. She didn’t jerk away Virat’s hands which she should have. She should have shouted at him for doing that than defending herself or badmouthing Sai. This incident should knock some sense into her to stop pursuing Virat, but we all know that she wouldn’t.

Makers have to stop victimising Pakhi. What they have shown about her has been enough to know what she is capable of and who she is. I was so upset as soon as I saw the first scene that Virat had manhandled her, didn’t even hear her side of the explanation, he had even said that her hurt cannot be as big as Sai’s. I was also upset that Sai spoke Pakhi gifted her, never stopped Virat. My whole perception changed after my friends shared about Sai’s pov. I couldn’t help but think if makers wanted to get sympathy for Pakhi and if that was the reason for the creativity.

I felt deeply for Sai yesterday. I don’t agree with those saying that she shouldn’t have said that Pakhi gave her a gift. How was Sai supposed to know that it was an accident? From her point of view, she fell, and Pakhi just stood there, refusing to help her up, apologize, or be anywhere close to a decent human being. Even before the accident happened, she had been bashing Sai from the very moment she entered her room. As Virat said yesterday, the main problem wasn’t even that she pushed Sai according to him. It was that he knows better than anyone that Pakhi doesn’t care about Sai. Pakhi could have easily ended the drama by getting the first aid box, but no. She kept going on and on trying to first victimize herself in front of Virat and then the entire family, having the audacity to call Sai a drama queen, when Sai was the one who was trying to end it in the first place. Sai said one dialogue to her husband about Pakhi giving her a gift, after being bashed by Pakhi since the day she entered this house. How much is she supposed to tolerate? From her perspective, of course Pakhi wants to hurt her on purpose- and yes, this time it was an accident, but her hurtful words that she was saying to Sai were anything but accidents.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It wouldn’t let me tag you in my post above!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree with what you have written about Sai. Actually, I was bored with today's episode because I thought it was drama for drama's sake. But realised it was such a complex episode when I read so many different, wonderful analysis from asmi, shrishthi, cheeku and Pooja. The poor direction did not do justice to the episode.

As for Virat, I did not like the fact that he help Pakhi's arm till it hurt. There were other ways to show his outrage - he could have been very forceful with his words. Even I thought his confrontation with Pakhi was merely to show love for his wife, but Asmi has given some more depth to this thought in her post.

My first reaction to the episode was that Pakhi's action was unintentional, but Sai misunderstood it as deliberate.

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