Unpopular opinion - Page 9

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I agree with u yes d forum is definitely became toxic , sorry this forum don't sympathise with virat they always had bashed him mercilessly very few members like janki , u & some others never critised him without his fault, but other critised him many times without really his fault but gave free pass to Sai.calling her a teenager. Sorry teenager dont behave d way sai Joshi behave.

I will req u if u want to take break from d forum plz do take but do reconsider ur decision of leaving d forum coz forum really need unbiased members.

Thanks, but i have a problem with both their behaviours. She is impulsive and at point rude as well. He is supposed to be the matured one but behaves like a kid at times.

I am around, but will connect with people who know the difference of opinion can also be there.

Originally posted by: Roch

Thanks, but i have a problem with both their behaviours. She is impulsive and at point rude as well. He is supposed to be the matured one but behaves like a kid at times.

I am around, but will connect with people who know the difference of opinion can also be there.

Even I have, before this track happened, I kept on saying that everytime she is proven right at the ends because of being a female lead and that makes her think she knows everything and she is always right. She needs to know and face the repercussions of her impulse decisions.. to realise how being impulsive is not always the right thing..

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am sharing something which many here might not agree with but for my sanity, I need to vent about today’s episode. I am disappointed with the neighbors' drama and nothing justifies Sai’s behavior for me. Before I say further, I want to make one thing clear, I don't support Virat throwing Sai out no matter how hurt he was and he needs to realize the grave mistake he committed , and similarly, I don't approve of Sai’s behavior for few reasons

Yes, I agree nothing justifies her behavior. Especially when she knows that those kakus(the way she was asking them) are so interested in gossips, what can they do to Chavans? Even I want to see Kaku's face after this, but I am more concerned about Ashwini! Why should she go through all of this? I so feel for her😭

1. Two wrongs never make a right: I don't think I need to say anything more.

Exactly! I think multiple wrongs here!!

2. Provocation is not a valid justification: Many might say Virat provoked her to take this step. If this is a valid reason to act this way, are we saying Virat was also right in throwing her out because he was betrayed, lied, and was kept in dark about the whole issue? We have discussed enough of Sai’s mistake in Devkit's marriage so I am keeping it as short as possible. Either both acts have to be right or both have to be condemned. Sai claims to speak only the truth then why didn't the entire truth was revealed about how Virat supported her for this marriage but the fake letter changed his perception and how he agreed for reinvestigation but she took a decision without informing him and how she has hidden the kidnapping drama from him and he found out everything when he caught her red-handed in the shaadi mantap.

Both have to be condemned, I agree! Sai did lie when she went to save Pulkit and informed Aai and Virat that she was in UM's room. I have this problem with FLs. Why whatever the female lead does is glorified, irrespective of if it's right or wrong? Again, I am back to Aai. In this whole fiasco, neither of them respected her enough! Nothing can change this for me.

3. Gratitude: Virat’s gratitude to KJ gets questioned every time he makes a mistake then can we question Sai about the same. Did she think of a man who stood by her in the times when everyone deserted her? Despite being a deal marriage, he went out of his way to make her feel special and did more than their deal terms. I need to clarify again it doesn't justify Virat’s mistakes.

True! Don't tell me whatever he did is part of their deal, it isn't! Also, aai loved Sai as her daughter, fought for her. I want Sai to apologize to aai as well.

4. Character assignation : I agree what Virat did was borderline domestic violence. Can we say everytime she hints about Virat Pakhi EMA in front of all is a kind of character assassination. Until now Virat hasn't crossed his limits in her presence nor in her absence so what makes her feel he will have a “good time” with Pakhi. I haven't seen him having a “ good time “ with Pakhi after his marriage. I agree Pakhi crosses her limits but why accuse Virat why not talk about Pakhi alone . She was told about his commitment before the marriage. If she found it disgusting she shouldn't have married him . Nothing was hidden from her. If she can get Devkit married against everyone’s wishes then I am sure she could have stopped her wedding as well. I have zero sympathies for Pakhi but Virat hasn't done anything to be accused. If she believes he is having an affair with Pakhi then why was she romancing him in the Holi party ? Isn't it equally disgusting to romance a man who had an affair behind your back?

I have always said that Virat needs to give clarity to Sai about his vaada and Pakhi. But that doesn't mean she can accuse him like this. Many might not agree with me here, but I was fine till she talked about Pakhi. Why to mention about have a good time and all to Virat? This is such a mess right now! When will these two have a proper communication? High time, they should address this!

Role reversal : Are we more sensitive to women's pain than men. If there was a role reversal and if Virat had done this would will we still, applaud him?

This!👏👏👏 I have many male friends, who doesn't want to talk about their pain just because of this. I have always heard people saying, mard ho, itna bhi nahi seh sakta? Tch tch tch. This needs to stop!

I am not her hater but I can't overlook her mistakes and I am either a misogynistic nor a misandrist. I believe if we say Virat deserves this then it goes without saying that Sai deserves whatever he did. I need to clarify again, I don't support Chavan's and Pakhi for their behavior. I would support Sai if she files a case against Chavan's for kidnapping and walks out of the marriage if she is unable to stay with him. Doing drama in front of the neighbors and returning to the same family , accusing husband of EMA whenever she is angry and romancing the same man when she is happy is not a sign of empowerment.

I don't understand why, when people point out Sai's mistakes, they are either labelled as Virat's blind supporters or Sai's haters! and every time we need to come with a disclaimer stating that I don't support Virat for what he did. Of course he is wrong, doesn't mean we can I can neglect what Sai did.

I am not tagging anyone as I believe not many people will be interested in this. I need to vent for me to feel better.

Disclaimer: I am a Sairat fan and will always be. We seldom talk about Virat’s pain hence i am sharing my views

I agree with this and thanks for sharing your views!🤗

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Exactly. She only shared stuff that would get her sympathy. She didn't share what she did. A smart move I never knew she had this quality in her.

What did she exactly do? In a situation where she had seen that these people were willing to stoop as low as kidnapping, what could she do?

Virat is not an ideal investigator when it comes to his family : he was accusing Sai of colluding with Pulkit with ulterior motives. That she purposefully burnt the letter to save Pulkit. These are not the signs of balanced investigator. That's why people rarely get posted in their hometowns. Conflict of interests.

Again, Sai was impulsive, rash and wrong. But, this family is dangerous and people should be aware.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

This neighborhood drama is such a low point of this character, I don't get how people enjoy something like this, If she wasn't going to return then it would be somewhat understandable but it just feels spitting and licking

This insult of Chauhan family would have been greater if police had come to arrest them for kidnapping Chomu but why would Sai Joshi, daughter of a policeman report a crime, she'd rather hide it because she doesn't want to hurt her husband. Justice? Who cares? She'd rather help criminals

Of course, she didn't hurt him with this drama and questioning his character, that doesn't hurt him

Sai's character is caricature at best, it doesn't empower anyone as her actions be it marriage of DevKit when the right method would have been getting Devi Tai the correct medical attention and report a crime when you know about it

This neighborhood drama serves no purpose whatsoever

@bold- Just come to think of it, Sai knows about Devi's medicines. She has seen it and this can actually be a proof that what family is doing to Devi is wrong. This can be reported and there are enough proofs for it. So why the urgency to get her married(even before the kidnapping drama) rather than addressing it legally? Is it because it is Virat's family, love/respect towards them, what?

Even Virat, who always talks about being righteous, didn't want to look into what actually happened to his sister? Instead they just planned to get her married, why?

Also, why didn't Sai inform about the medicines to Virat? Lot of unanswered questions!

Originally posted by: scarlett22

The taunt about Pakhi I felt was not wrong. Pakhi has proved her right again and again. She does provoke people against Sai, now against Aai.

And Virat does give her much more space to justify herself and gives her a long rope.In fact even today, he could've stopped Pakhi when she made that comment about his mom. He had already warned her about it, why did he just glare?! Imagine the impact if he yells at her in front of kaku like he did yesterday!

Has Virat ever told Sai, PP is my brother's wife, nothing more? For Sai, that question remains unanswered. She can also think his closeness during Holi was because he was drunk.

That's what I mentioned Optimist_d's post. He might have stopped her talking about his Aai in the room(which has per me is too late already) .But why did she again do the same thing infront of the family. Because she knows, he will and he never says much when she misbehaves with his Aai infront of his family, because she knows he would not speak against Kaku, even when his mother is getting insulted.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am sharing something which many here might not agree with but for my sanity, I need to vent about today’s episode. I am disappointed with the neighbors' drama and nothing justifies Sai’s behavior for me. Before I say further, I want to make one thing clear, I don't support Virat throwing Sai out no matter how hurt he was and he needs to realize the grave mistake he committed , and similarly, I don't approve of Sai’s behavior for few reasons

1. Two wrongs never make a right: I don't think I need to say anything more.

2. Provocation is not a valid justification: Many might say Virat provoked her to take this step. If this is a valid reason to act this way, are we saying Virat was also right in throwing her out because he was betrayed, lied, and was kept in dark about the whole issue? We have discussed enough of Sai’s mistake in Devkit's marriage so I am keeping it as short as possible. Either both acts have to be right or both have to be condemned. Sai claims to speak only the truth then why didn't the entire truth was revealed about how Virat supported her for this marriage but the fake letter changed his perception and how he agreed for reinvestigation but she took a decision without informing him and how she has hidden the kidnapping drama from him and he found out everything when he caught her red-handed in the shaadi mantap.

3. Gratitude: Virat’s gratitude to KJ gets questioned every time he makes a mistake then can we question Sai about the same. Did she think of a man who stood by her in the times when everyone deserted her? Despite being a deal marriage, he went out of his way to make her feel special and did more than their deal terms. I need to clarify again it doesn't justify Virat’s mistakes.

4. Character assignation : I agree what Virat did was borderline domestic violence. Can we say everytime she hints about Virat Pakhi EMA in front of all is a kind of character assassination. Until now Virat hasn't crossed his limits in her presence nor in her absence so what makes her feel he will have a “good time” with Pakhi. I haven't seen him having a “ good time “ with Pakhi after his marriage. I agree Pakhi crosses her limits but why accuse Virat why not talk about Pakhi alone . She was told about his commitment before the marriage. If she found it disgusting she shouldn't have married him . Nothing was hidden from her. If she can get Devkit married against everyone’s wishes then I am sure she could have stopped her wedding as well. I have zero sympathies for Pakhi but Virat hasn't done anything to be accused. If she believes he is having an affair with Pakhi then why was she romancing him in the Holi party ? Isn't it equally disgusting to romance a man who had an affair behind your back?

Role reversal : Are we more sensitive to women's pain than men. If there was a role reversal and if Virat had done this would will we still, applaud him?

I am not her hater but I can't overlook her mistakes and I am either a misogynistic nor a misandrist. I believe if we say Virat deserves this then it goes without saying that Sai deserves whatever he did. I need to clarify again, I don't support Chavan's and Pakhi for their behavior. I would support Sai if she files a case against Chavan's for kidnapping and walks out of the marriage if she is unable to stay with him. Doing drama in front of the neighbors and returning to the same family , accusing husband of EMA whenever she is angry and romancing the same man when she is happy is not a sign of empowerment.

I am not tagging anyone as I believe not many people will be interested in this. I need to vent for me to feel better.

Disclaimer: I am a Sairat fan and will always be. We seldom talk about Virat’s pain hence i am sharing my views

Excellent post. Don't worry, I'm there with you. I agree with everything that you have mentioned here. It's a fact. Uptil now Virat has always stood by Sayi no matter what, but the problem is one wrong move makes him so bad that we tend to overlook all his good deeds. But, Sayi she can shout, scream and even accuse him of having an extra marital affair with Pakhi. She takes him for granted and this too is accepted. But, if Virat had taken her for granted everyone would have ganged up against him. She accepts him to dance according to her tune and when he refuses it hurts her ego. But, she won't do the same thing. And, you're if it was Virat in Sayi's place noone would have accepted. But as I said Sayi has all the liberty to do whatever she according to her whim and fancy and noone will point a finger at her. Why? Because she's a woman? And, so it can be overlooked.

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

@bold- Just come to think of it, Sai knows about Devi's medicines. She has seen it and this can actually be a proof that what family is doing to Devi is wrong. This can be reported and there are enough proofs for it. So why the urgency to get her married(even before the kidnapping drama) rather than addressing it legally? Is it because it is Virat's family, love/respect towards them, what?

Even Virat, who always talks about being righteous, didn't want to look into what actually happened to his sister? Instead they just planned to get her married, why?

Also, why didn't Sai inform about the medicines to Virat? Lot of unanswered questions!

Why would she say? If she does then how will she become a super woman? She always wants to do everything on her own. That's her biggest problem.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

The taunt about Pakhi I felt was not wrong. Pakhi has proved her right again and again. She does provoke people against Sai, now against Aai.

And Virat does give her much more space to justify herself and gives her a long rope.In fact even today, he could've stopped Pakhi when she made that comment about his mom. He had already warned her about it, why did he just glare?! Imagine the impact if he yells at her in front of kaku like he did yesterday!

Has Virat ever told Sai, PP is my brother's wife, nothing more? For Sai, that question remains unanswered. She can also think his closeness during Holi was because he was drunk.

It's high time! Virat SHOULD support his aai in front of the family. When he can stand up for his vahini/best friend's rights or respect or whatever it is, why can't he do that for his aai? I'm really upset with him today for the way he let people question her. Like all other family members, even she can have her own opinion. Just because that is not in line with the family's opinions doesnt mean they can say anything to her. Also, it's Pakhi's actions which forces aai to taunt her. All of us know how sweet she is! If we remember, even after knowing the truth about Virat and pakhi, aai supported her in front of Mansi when she said that its because of the grehapravesh fiasco that Samrat went missing.

Doesnt he know about his aai? Cant he see how these people are behaving with her? Then what's stopping him?

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Why would she say? If she does then how will she become a super woman? She always wants to do everything on her own. That's her biggest problem.

I dont know when will the obsession to glorify itv FLs stop!