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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl


Wow you just reflected my thoughts. I was too apprehensive to post the same opinion. What virat did is wrong in throwing her away. Period . You can’t throw your wife in any circumstances,


but what if a man who gave so much to his marriage can’t tolerate his wife not trusting him. ?! How can he explain his pain that he trusted her so much and expected her to atleast consider him as his family member. I agree he knows only half the truth but what is wrong if he feels he doesn’t want a marriage where there is no trust? Can’t he have an opinion on what he wants from a marriage? If we do role reversal will we be able to explain with same assertion that what virat feels is wrong?


love is not enough to sustain a marriage. He loves sai. Period. But if he doesn’t get the trust from her will he be able to continue in this relationship? His pain is so real!

Also I mentioned earlier also. Virat is above KJs promise when it come to his relationship with sai. She is his wife for him now and not just responsibility so the hurt is even more!

Disclaimer: I am for sairat! They are two pieces of puzzle when come together make a beautiful art. I love sai. But just can’t undermine virat’s pain.


@Bold Well said!! You have read my mind. Seeing your disclaimer I realize I need to add it to my post as well 😊
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM

This neighborhood drama is such a low point of this character, I don't get how people enjoy something like this, If she wasn't going to return then it would be somewhat understandable but it just feels spitting and licking


This insult of Chauhan family would have been greater if police had come to arrest them for kidnapping Chomu but why would Sai Joshi, daughter of a policeman report a crime, she'd rather hide it because she doesn't want to hurt her husband. Justice? Who cares? She'd rather help criminals


Of course, she didn't hurt him with this drama and questioning his character, that doesn't hurt him


Sai's character is caricature at best, it doesn't empower anyone as her actions be it marriage of DevKit when the right method would have been getting Devi Tai the correct medical attention and report a crime when you know about it

This neighborhood drama serves no purpose whatsoever

You said it all. The purpose of the drama was just plain revenge and to achieve that she stooped to Chavan's level. I agree the best humiliation would have been Chavan's getting arrested not the gossip session in the morning.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

@Bold Well said!! You have read my mind. Seeing your disclaimer I realize I need to add it to my post as well 😊

both are perfect characters with some minor flaws . I like to see their progression in their relationship as to how they mould themselves to be perfect for each other. That makes this story interesting.

But with current mood it is good to put a disclaimer. 😂


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

Sai taunting virat is more of her insecurity. I don’t think she means it. She wants to hear from his mouth that it is only her he loves :) typical female expectation. But yes she should not raise in front of neighbors. That’s her character trait to do what she pleases. She kind of taken him for granted, her way of trusting him.


but yeah this separation is needed for them to show this. For virat he will understand you just can’t cut ties if your wife makes a unintentional mistake (what if pulkit is indeed a crook ). Sai will understand to not take him for granted and do things that hurts him. It is give and take.

we as audience know these things but virat and sai are in each other’s blindspot. They know they are in love but can’t see each other’s love for them.


If she had this done in their room then I understand she is trying to get a reaction from him but when she does in front of all the meaning changes and it comes across as character assassination.


I am hoping by end of the track both realize their shortcomings but if they go by KD I don't think Sai would realize the importance of trust

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree, even I don't support her insulting virat before neighbors... Saying virat trowed her out of house and she sat there whole night.... To be frank he throw her at midnight which is wrong but he didn't expect her or make her sit there whole night... She mentioned go to pulkit house... I would have enjoyed it if sai is only insulting Kaku Sena but dragging virat , I don't know I couldn't njoy it... As 404_not found mentioned two wrongs can't make right....he stood by her Everytime...she shouldn't have dragged him.... From starting onwards I wished she don't drag virat but she did... Virat have long way to apologise but even Sai have some pending sorry

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree with your post. I didn't enjoy the neighbourhood drama. It goes against Sai's basic character. Like throwing her out goes against Virat's basic nature.

It was clear the neighbours were gossip mongers. She egged them on too. The chawan family also has Aai, Shivani, Mohit who have always supported her.


Honestly I'm tired of finding excuses for both characters.

Lets finish this track and move on already😡. I wish the makers would put in some extra work and tweak these scenes to make it more palatable.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

both are perfect characters with some minor flaws . I like to see their progression in their relationship as to how they mould themselves to be perfect for each other. That makes this story interesting.

But with current mood it is good to put a disclaimer. 😂


Both are flawed but sometimes they cross their limit. Their usual taunting session was understandable but in this track, some grave mistakes have been committed. Oh yes disclaimer is needed 😊.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

I agree, even I don't support her insulting virat before neighbors... Saying virat trowed her out of house and she sat there whole night.... To be frank he throw her at midnight which is wrong but he didn't expect her or make her sit there whole night... She mentioned go to pulkit house... I would have enjoyed it if sai is only insulting Kaku Sena but dragging virat , I don't know I couldn't njoy it... As 404_not found mentioned two wrongs can't make right....he stood by her Everytime...she shouldn't have dragged him.... From starting onwards I wished she don't drag virat but she did... Virat have long way to apologise but even Sai have some pending sorry

Exactly. She only shared stuff that would get her sympathy. She didn't share what she did. A smart move I never knew she had this quality in her.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

If she had this done in their room then I understand she is trying to get a reaction from him but when she does in front of all the meaning changes and it comes across as character assassination.


I am hoping by end of the track both realize their shortcomings but if they go by KD I don't think Sai would realize the importance of trust

that’s the conflict point in the story I guess. I read KD plot in wiki and see that she will have trust issues throughout . That will be a constant conflict in their marriage. I guess. But that’s the beauty of the story right. How she overcomes that ?! No marriage is perfect after all. I m fully prepared to enjoy the ride . 👍

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: scarlett22

I agree with your post. I didn't enjoy the neighbourhood drama. It goes against Sai's basic character. Like throwing her out goes against Virat's basic nature.

It was clear the neighbours were gossip mongers. She egged them on too. The chawan family also has Aai, Shivani, Mohit who have always supported her.


Honestly I'm tired of finding excuses for both characters.

Lets finish this track and move on already😡. I wish the makers would put in some extra work and tweak these scenes to make it more palatable.

I wish they don't drag this till tomorrow. I am seriously done with this crap. They could have avoided the throwing out and neighbors' drama.

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