Member Topic: How many of you had an arranged marriage? - Page 15

Originally posted by: Flame.

Bumpy ride! Wish you all the luck in the world.

thank you ❤️

Yet to get married😆 btw to all arranged married people..did you guys went with kundali matching process and married to a person according to kundali or did the opposite of what kundali matching outcome came😃

KJo isn't married and I am single too. Connect the dots.

Any marriage that works is the best one, be it love, arranged or you marry against your parents wishes or marry running away from parents...It must work after marriage, then it's the best.. Its about pure luck..

Originally posted by: VintageWine

If she decided it's you😛 within 10 days, she definitely is something. Wild indeed 😆.

Im thinking about making a documentary on my life 😆

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

So these kinds of frauds are pretty common then..what was the ethnicity of the couple?

I know of a couple who got married just to get their parents off their backs. Guy is gay and the girl came from a super conservative family. She knew that her parents would make her marry into another regressive family (probably in a village) and the guy knew there was no way his truth will ever b 'accepted' in his family. They were friends for long so they decided to marry each other and moved to another country. Not sure what will happen in the future once he or she decide to settle down with someone else but right now it's actually the best of both worlds for them.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Well he is pakistani born and brought up (including passport) and I am Indian brought up in dubai also holding an indian passport (this is important because geographically it poses a challenge). We met in our university library (in the uk for context) actually, were friends for a year and I avoided liking him because I knew this was going to be a major struggle. We come from broken homes, countries we both cannot even visit and religions, I was like this is gonna end badlyy. But we couldn't help it and started dating in my final year of uni. I left to Dubai after graduation, he was unsure if he wanted to study further and went to Pak. Lots of tears at airport, because we legit were like we aren't seeing each other ever again logically but we still tried long distance and it was a disaster. We were way too young and couldn't handle the distance plus that time pressure of career.

After 6 months of our break up, he surprised me in Dubai, we reconciled. He left a good job back home with his dad's business and got a really bad one in Dubai and struggled for a year when his mom also passed away. Finally he settled in and then fast forward 6 years, I was like tell your father now, he went back home for a holiday bearing bribes and gifts, his dad instantly was like what have you done? When he told his dad, his jaw dropped he was like you both are nuts.

Finally after a year of convincing his father and stepmother came here. He and my mom are super close anyway as I introduced them very soon after he moved. His dad met me liked me alot and liked my mom but ofcourse they were like this is too hard and you guys will never see each others families, we wont see our grandkids lalala. My dad hasn't accepted him because he is super conservative and extremely rigid. In the end they accepted our relationship and told us go ahead and get engaged which we did privately without an official ceremony as of yet.

I applied for my canadian residency and he procrastinated, when I got mine, his tubelight came on and he applied and then bam covid hit and his application is stranded so we may have to go down the spousal route lets see. He met with a major accident this time in March when he went on vacation, so now hes stuck in Pak with physio etc. Nothing ever comes easy.

To be continued when and if this works out🤣

Bapre.. So many twists . I’ve got to hand it to you both for believing in your love . Truly a strong one .

Also, YRF and Dharma might make movies .

Sell your story and make money off of it. 😂

Im not married but my best friend got married at a young age. She wasn't doing much career or education wise so her parents decided to marry her off. Her parents are rich but from a small town. The guy lived in the city and was also from a rich family. She met him and agreed because he was good looking and the family was also nice.

One month after marriage they went on a honeymoon to Greece and that's were she found out he was gay and he came to Greece to meet up with a guy.

After coming back she told her parents that he was gay but they didn't believe her and told her that stuff like that doesn't exist and she should work it out or take him to a Dr etc. After almost a year of mental torture she threatened her parents that she will kill herself if they dont bring her back home. So they finally did.

She's got a divorce and the guy immediately married someone else.

she's okay but doesn't have the same relationship with her parents. Their betrayal and lack of support really scarred her.

Originally posted by: GrumpyTheCat

Bapre.. So many twists . I’ve got to hand it to you both for believing in your love . Truly a strong one .

Also, YRF and Dharma might make movies .

Sell your story and make money off of it. 😂

Lol first the story has to have an ending, right now story is stuck, shaadi abhi tak baaki hai, till then god knows what can happen knowing my luck these days 🤬

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Lol first the story has to have an ending, right now story is stuck, shaadi abhi tak baaki hai, till then god knows what can happen knowing my luck these days 🤬

Ideally in BW everything works out so you have your ending right there.

In your script you can end it with you narrating to your kids “ And that kids is how I met your father” 😂