Member Topic: How many of you had an arranged marriage?

Additionally, which one do you think is a better bet for the longevity of marital life?

Arranged marriage...don't know which one is better..depends on the people involved..marriage is a gamble anyway

Well my marriage got arranged & later turned into love. 😊

Me! Have had a long lasting arranged marriage with procrastination, stress, self doubt and insomnia. Longevity matlab are baap re mast hai! 🤝

I nearly got married to a closeted gay few years. I had shed more tears with him than during my depressive phase. My parents broke of that alliance due to his gay weekends. He and his gay buddies have beard weddings. Their wives are even weirder.

My life got saved.

Originally posted by: colossial2015

I nearly got married to a closeted gay few years. I had shed more tears with him than during my depressive phase. My parents broke of that alliance due to his gay weekends. He and his gay buddies have beard weddings. Their wives are even weirder.

My life got saved.

I'm sorry thats rough.

If you dont mind me asking, was it arranged since your parents broke it off?

Originally posted by: colossial2015

I nearly got married to a closeted gay few years. I had shed more tears with him than during my depressive phase. My parents broke of that alliance due to his gay weekends. He and his gay buddies have beard weddings. Their wives are even weirder.

My life got saved.

Sorry to hear that.

May god bless u.

Meri love arrange dono hai 50 -50 🤣

Originally posted by: colossial2015

I nearly got married to a closeted gay few years. I had shed more tears with him than during my depressive phase. My parents broke of that alliance due to his gay weekends. He and his gay buddies have beard weddings. Their wives are even weirder.

My life got saved.

What were the red flags?.. don't disclose private information but tell some pointers..might help others

I don’t know where mine fits. Each others childhood crush, grew apart, moved on, got in touch again, planned when to send rishta, convincing my dad to say yes and now married.

Marriage however is beautiful, you have someone around whom or with whom you can be crazy, vulnerable, broken, happy everything basically.

I think age of a marriage depends on how long the individual living it would like to continue with it. What their equation is with each other and how well they understand each other. There should be no you and I in marriage. Its all about WE/US.