Originally posted by: zoinks
Jaise ek boond sperm ke liye you were crying women should not have the right to abort and do whatever she wants to her body.
I never spoke on the behalf of women in that argument, I never said what women should do or not do.
I was talking from a men's perspective, that a men also have a right to know about his kid. I never said, women don't have the right to abort or anything, it was people who interpretated like that. I said men has the right to know about the kid. People were making argument that women shouldn't even tell the father of the child about abortion, I just disagreed on that. But as usual what happens, people don't look at context, and mixed up Zeal's argument(who was against abortion) and my argument(who didn't agreed with men being kept at dark).
I think it is good, if sometimes we look at things in a dynamic spectrum, rather than keeping them white and black, because life, ideas, concepts and opinions aren't two binary or rigid. To say, I was trying to force my opinion on women is wrong, I didn't spearhead or made decisions for women with my argument, I was just putting a male's perspective that he has every right to know about the kid, and that argument mostly stem from close relationship like marriage, long time courtship or live ins, and I wasn't talking about one night stands or anything like that.
People forget that in that thread I was having two different arguments, in one place I was highlighting male perspective about knowledge of child/abortion existence, and on the other hand, I was trying to explain Zeal, that abortion is a women's personal right. So it is not as black and white as you seem to interpreted it, seems like my "one drop of sperm" expression had a patriarchal tone, which might have offended women in the forum, so they overlooked all points and got stuck just on that single phrase.
Edited by RegressiveThug - 5 years ago
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