Rudra uses Ananya as a doormat - Page 4

Originally posted by: .SSSS.

Ananaya is not wrong if she thinks that Rudra is wrong and wanted her space for sometime before forgiving him or else never wanted to forgive and all.. but the way she taunts him and the way she expects him to prioritize her over his wife or else the kind of says things like that he only cares about his wife and all.. this and comes across like she is still demanding her place.. though she is saying that it's all over between them , she still expects him to not give importance to his wife. Thats kind of makes her look so shallow.

Rudra did a mistake by leaving the altar . At the time of marriage if he has married her too could have been a mistake. But here it could have been more wrong if he has married her than breaking the marriage at that time. Not saying here she has to forget everything and forgive him easily but she doesn't need to expect him to be guilty for marrying Maya and expects him to not talk about his wife before her.

Ananya has EVERY RIGHT to taunt Rudra. He behaved like a total na-mard with her. He used her as a Guinea pig like myviewprem said.

For Anu, Maya is that cunning bi*ch who stole her husband. Ananya is still very civil, I would punch him in the face if he sang praises of M-m-m-maya before me (if I was in her place). 😆

Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Beg to differ... Apart from the wedding fiasco Rudra has never ever misused his friendship with Ananya...

She on the contrary behaves like a scorned in love woman all the time...

We get the pain but move on na... but she being the insufferable MJ ki dewani comes back at the drop of a hat...

You have pelted out enough anger,stop playing the victim.because darling you never were one.

Where did all her CID giri go when Rudra proposed to her for marriage out of the blue? Sense did not prevail then and certainly is on a world tour even now..

She's not a victim? Really? Rudra basically cheated on her by going behind her back to meet Maya, and then escaped at the last minute. She was left all alone to be humiliated by the world.

And you say she's not a victim. SMH.

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

She's not a victim? Really? Rudra basically cheated on her by going behind her back to meet Maya, and then escaped at the last minute. She was left all alone to be humiliated by the world.

And you say she's not a victim. SMH.

Arre yaar.... I understand that Ananya was left at the altar... she was super hurt and is right on being upset with Rudra... afterall it was his stupid idea to get married...

But tell me one thing,would it have been better that Rudra got married to her and then cheated upon her... That would have been vicious...

Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Arre yaar.... I understand that Ananya was left at the altar... she was super hurt and is right on being upset with Rudra... afterall it was his stupid idea to get married...

But tell me one thing,would it have been better that Rudra got married to her and then cheated upon her... That would have been vicious...

But that doesn't mean she should be happy and dancing around Rudra. She has every reason to blast him and taunt him. Any flesh and blood human being would do that.

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

But that doesn't mean she should be happy and dancing around Rudra. She has every reason to blast him and taunt him. Any flesh and blood human being would do that.

But I feel that she is dancing around Rudra... be it on insistence from MJ.

She loved him and will always love him... she was wronged she was hurt...

But be the better person ,mudslinging is only going to get her more pain. The sooner she accepts the truth the sooner her heart will be at peace...

Afterall she is in for a bigger dhamaka courtesy her dad and father like figure MJ.

I would say what Rudra did to ananya was very similar to what MJ did to manvi

Both betrayed the women after showing promise of marriage

But MJ did to bigger extent but Rudra to lesser extent

But both was betrayal of trust only to the women they promised to spend full life with

Both lied to the women whom they promised to stay with for life

Only thing MJ exceeded and had physical relationship and baby

Rudra had only platonic relationship

But betrayal is betrayal be it at altar or no altar

So we do not know what pain ananya must be feeling for what Rudra did to her

In india if a man leaves woman at altar and runs off society will think something wrong with bride only not with groom

So its not like ananya will not face consequence of Rudras betrayal

We all know many famous actress had been promised love and marraige by actors and than left before reaching altar than they had to marry divorced men. You do not easily get good men or unmarried men after your boy friend betrays you. Aishwarya Rai was only lucky actress who got a bachelor husband after her break up with boy friend. Rest be it Shilpa Shetty, raveena, karishma etc everyone knows what happened with them. Their professional life was also finished after break up. So lets not assume ananya is rich educated etc so Rudra leaving her at altar and running off on marriage day will not impact her personal or professional life. Its not that simple in indian and asian society for a woman. Men can have many affairs and girl friends yet get a unmarried woman as wife but a woman cannot expect same treatment by society usually exceptions are there. but thats all luck.

Life is unfair especially for women in society lets not close eyes to that fact and say ananya is lucky she would have loveless life with rudra, rrudra would cheat her if he married etc

80% marriages in india are arranged marriages out of that atleast 10-20% the boy or girl wants to marry someone else but parents force to marry their choice. So do all those 10-20% have loveless lives or husbands start affairs with ex. Hardly 2-3% will do that, rest 95% will accept fate and go about their married life. Forget todays gen what about 20-40 years back did all marry willingly no, but they adjusted majority accepted their spouses with time and life went on. Very few will start extra marital affair with ex girl friend or lover after marriage. So lets not assume ananya would be unhappy in her marriage or rudra would start an affair with maya outside marraige etc. MJ is exception 2-3% case. He will start affair even if he married his lover his such man. Rudra may have turned out loyal to ananya if they had married who knows? Maya knew that once rudra marries anu he will turn loyal to anu and not her, thats why she tried her best to break his marriage at any cost even risking sending her mother to MJ house.

That is some heavy stuff man....

I mean I can't fathom how Rudra and MJ the pig are the same...

I think he is paying the price of being truthful to Anu...albeit too late..he should have married her... after confessing his love for Maya to Ananya

..

I guess living a lie would be a befitting punishment for his impulsive behavior...

And when Anu would have divorced him once her obsession with being Mrs Roy since childhood would fade,he would be bashed up again...for not being faithful...

So basically he had no escape... with or without Ananya...

Atleast he is happy with Maya...

Rudra my boy take some more taunts from Anu darling... this is nothing compared to the goriness that lies ahead....

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I would say what Rudra did to ananya was very similar to what MJ did to manvi

Both betrayed the women after showing promise of marriage

But MJ did to bigger extent but Rudra to lesser extent

But both was betrayal of trust only to the women they promised to spend full life with

Both lied to the women whom they promised to stay with for life

Only thing MJ exceeded and had physical relationship and baby

Rudra had only platonic relationship

But betrayal is betrayal be it at altar or no altar

So we do not know what pain ananya must be feeling for what Rudra did to her

In india if a man leaves woman at altar and runs off society will think something wrong with bride only not with groom

So its not like ananya will not face consequence of Rudras betrayal

We all know many famous actress had been promised love and marraige by actors and than left before reaching altar than they had to marry divorced men. You do not easily get good men or unmarried men after your boy friend betrays you. Aishwarya Rai was only lucky actress who got a bachelor husband after her break up with boy friend. Rest be it Shilpa Shetty, raveena, karishma etc everyone knows what happened with them. Their professional life was also finished after break up. So lets not assume ananya is rich educated etc so Rudra leaving her at altar and running off on marriage day will not impact her personal or professional life. Its not that simple in indian and asian society for a woman. Men can have many affairs and girl friends yet get a unmarried woman as wife but a woman cannot expect same treatment by society usually exceptions are there. but thats all luck.

Life is unfair especially for women in society lets not close eyes to that fact and say ananya is lucky she would have loveless life with rudra, rrudra would cheat her if he married etc

80% marriages in india are arranged marriages out of that atleast 10-20% the boy or girl wants to marry someone else but parents force to marry their choice. So do all those 10-20% have loveless lives or husbands start affairs with ex. Hardly 2-3% will do that, rest 95% will accept fate and go about their married life. Forget todays gen what about 20-40 years back did all marry willingly no, but they adjusted majority accepted their spouses with time and life went on. Very few will start extra marital affair with ex girl friend or lover after marriage. So lets not assume ananya would be unhappy in her marriage or rudra would start an affair with maya outside marraige etc. MJ is exception 2-3% case. He will start affair even if he married his lover his such man. Rudra may have turned out loyal to ananya if they had married who knows? Maya knew that once rudra marries anu he will turn loyal to anu and not her, thats why she tried her best to break his marriage at any cost even risking sending her mother to MJ house.

I think before we start writing such heavy stuff, it is important to remember that this is a show. things are shown only for the sake of drama, without giving much thought to real life implications. I refuse to overthink about reality because this only fiction.

Rudra would be loyal towards ananya, but even before marriage he was emotionally cheating on her. so are you sure he won't be emotionally cheating on her while being married? or only physical cheating counts in this regard? being in a loveless marriage of convenience is possible but it becomes a burden when your husband/best friend is so deeply interwoven with another woman. sometimes, marriages like Ananya and Rudra's work , but does that apply when one party is already in love with someone else? Rudra may not have cheated, but he would be miserable and same with ananya unless she distracted herself with the title of mrs. roy like antara. why would anyone settle for a marriage of convenience when there is another woman who you are hopelessly in love with?

We are in 2020 right now, a new decade where people are more aware, independent and open minded. so why should we still abide or listen to misconceptions that existed 20-40 years ago? back then, marriage was seen as a necessity after a certain age. People married because that is what was expected, especially for women. Now, we have more freedom to think, to live and to fall in love. you should not get married just to settle but because you WANT to get married to someone you truly connect with. Maybe the newer generation is still doing that, but that is not how it should be. Let's not try to set the clock back to 1984, we need to be progressive no matter how regressive our society is.

I hate getting so deep into reality because Beyhadh is only a show. so when we think and discuss, it should be within the parameters of a fictional show and its characters. if we look at it contextually, Maya and rudra's relationship was written and developed in such a way that rudra and ananya would not have worked. There are hundreds of television shows on ITV about a marriage of convenience that turned into true love, because that is the story writers wanted to write. which is not the case with beyhadh. It is very easy to move past lust but rudra feels more than lust for maya. In her, he found someone who sparks his soul, that is how writers developed their story. We can write essays about what happens in real life but the thing is, this is not real life.

Please understand that aishwarya left salman because he abused her. even without marrying abhishek, she is lucky because she was able to stand up to salman khan. after that messy break up, she went on to date vivek oberoi who she allegedly used then dumped for bigger fish like AB Jr. you and I don't know what is happening in a celebrity's life, so it is very offensive of you to assume their bad break ups were the reason why they could not get bachelor husbands. A women's luck is defined by many things, not by whether their husband was a bachelor or not. secondly, shriya bhupal, fashion designer and grand daughter of GVK reddy called off her engagement with Nagarjuna's son, but she went to happily marry anindth reddy who, as far I know, was a bachelor.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

I think before we start writing such heavy stuff, it is important to remember that this is a show. things are shown only for the sake of drama, without giving much thought to real life implications. I refuse to overthink about reality because this only fiction.

Rudra would be loyal towards ananya, but even before marriage he was emotionally cheating on her. so are you sure he won't be emotionally cheating on her while being married? or only physical cheating counts in this regard? being in a loveless marriage of convenience is possible but it becomes a burden when your husband/best friend is so deeply interwoven with another woman. sometimes, marriages like Ananya and Rudra's work , but does that apply when one party is already in love with someone else? Rudra may not have cheated, but he would be miserable and same with ananya unless she distracted herself with the title of mrs. roy like antara. why would anyone settle for a marriage of convenience when there is another woman who you are hopelessly in love with?

We are in 2020 right now, a new decade where people are more aware, independent and open minded. so why should we still abide or listen to misconceptions that existed 20-40 years ago? back then, marriage was seen as a necessity after a certain age. People married because that is what was expected, especially for women. Now, we have more freedom to think, to live and to fall in love. you should not get married just to settle but because you WANT to get married to someone you truly connect with. Maybe the newer generation is still doing that, but that is not how it should be. Let's not try to set the clock back to 1984, we need to be progressive no matter how regressive our society is.

I hate getting so deep into reality because Beyhadh is only a show. so when we think and discuss, it should be within the parameters of a fictional show and its characters. if we look at it contextually, Maya and rudra's relationship was written and developed in such a way that rudra and ananya would not have worked. There are hundreds of television shows on ITV about a marriage of convenience that turned into true love, because that is the story writers wanted to write. which is not the case with beyhadh. It is very easy to move past lust but rudra feels more than lust for maya. In her, he found someone who sparks his soul, that is how writers developed their story. We can write essays about what happens in real life but the thing is, this is not real life.

Please understand that aishwarya left salman because he abused her. even without marrying abhishek, she is lucky because she was able to stand up to salman khan. after that messy break up, she went on to date vivek oberoi who she allegedly used then dumped for bigger fish like AB Jr. you and I don't know what is happening in a celebrity's life, so it is very offensive of you to assume their bad break ups were the reason why they could not get bachelor husbands. A women's luck is defined by many things, not by whether their husband was a bachelor or not. secondly, shriya bhupal, fashion designer and grand daughter of GVK reddy called off her engagement with Nagarjuna's son, but she went to happily marry anindth reddy who, as far I know, was a bachelor.

the thoughts in dark not my own, i had quoted articles i read prev.

OK i did not want to take any names just as a reference i took aishwarya name. I did not say that sshe left Salman its wrong or anything. I was just saying shes lucky to get abhishek but it does not always happen like that in real life. Also regarding raveena, shlipa etc i am not quoting my own imagination, i read articles that stated what i had said. I am just quoting from the article i read. I am not quoting my belief, anyone can marry anyone. Just google and you will get articles that quote what i had said previously. Its not my belief, its taken from articles that i had read. I just failed to mention that before. Nothing that i wrote is my own thoughts regarding actress its from articles prev read.

all i mean is in india a man can have many affairs yet get a young maiden girl as wife

girls will agree to marry a person with questionable character too if hes rich and famous or even otherwise

while a woman's choices in marraige will be limited if she crosses 30 years and has had boy friends in past who are in public knowledge

That is truth of society

calling off engagement is not a big thing, marrying a man and divorcing and marrying another man is very big thing in india

also it depends if girl comes from which strata of society, very rich and famous women have it easier to find grooms after divorce or engagement break or after 30s not the other strata of society's

regarding serial all i was saying is that in case girls are in ananya like situations such marraiges take place where a boy or girl loves some one else but forced by parents to marry another person. But not all such marraiges end up unhappy or in divorce. People do compromise in life especially in a conservative country like india.

Like you said things are changing but thats in big city not everywhere. Even in big city its tough for single girl to get house on rent etc its not a easy thing. People look at single women with suspicion, its not easy for divorced or single women to live in society. There is lot of discrimination on ground. Ananya may face those discriminations in life in future. It was best Rudra had not proposed to marry her when he was in love with Maya.