Rudra uses Ananya as a doormat - Page 2

Originally posted by: Psurapaneni

@ soulfuldream wonderful analysis on Ananya . She is playing victim card . She her self reduced her image to a doormat . No one did it , Rudra absolutely not . He always gave her the independence in the relation ship and always told her he does not love her as a life partner but loves her as a best friend . She her self created an illusion around her self that she want to be Mrs Rudra Roy . She is jealous of Maya being Rudras wife . She comes around Rudras office and house trying to hurt Maya and indirectly Rudra . She is Antara 2.0 . Hope she moves on and become independent in thinking .

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I would kind of differ here. There have been a lot of arguments regarding this where some blamed Ananya for accepting Rudra's proposal, some blamed her for being Saanjh part 2 and what not. She knew Rudra didn't love her but did she know he loved Maya? An onlooker could say Rudra was drawn to Maya but just from a 3rd person's perspective it was hard to conclude MayRa would end up sharing the kind of bond they have now, back then. Also Ananya knew Rudra didn't love her and Rudra was also honest when he proposed to her. She accepted his proposal happily as she felt her love for Rudra was sufficient for both of them and their future. Not all marriages are based on love unlike the popular opinion that love is what makes a marriage work. Mutual respect, trust and understanding outweigh love any day and that was there in RuAn relationship in the past. So no. Ananya was not wrong here. But after promising to never break her trust, Rudra backs off on the day of the wedding. And no matter what MayRa fans (me included) have to say, one cannot deny Ananya was humiliated on the day of her wedding before the world. Only a blind fan will expect Ananya to forgive Rudra and move on happily. Its not possible. Rudra too in his defense took a right decision, though at a horrible time and at a horrible price. Had he married Ananya knowing he loved Maya he would have ruined Ananya's life. That marriage would have been nothing but a sham. He saved her from a heartbreak but gave her another. Yes Ananya was spared a loveless marriage but what about her dreams that were brutally shattered before the world and the poor girl could not even shed tears (talking about the time when she douses the havan kund and calls off the wedding). So anyone calling her names, please keep urselves in her place and think. Would u forgive ur best friend after this? Rudra is not wrong in wanting Ananya back in his life. He knows he has hurt her but he doesn't want to loose his best friend. But what he needs to understand is that Ananya needs her space to get over the heartbreak he caused. He has to give her her space so that she can decide if she wants to forgive him or not and resume their friendship. Rudra has lost that right on Ananya and its upto Ananya if she decides to give that right to Rudra or not. Ananya is not wrong in any way for me. Not till now at least. And though I admit Rudra broke her heart he did not use her as a doormat. He valued her friendship in the past and he does that now as well.

Nice! U have pointed it well..

I love the Ananya not getting to Rudra again and she handles herself better 👏

Originally posted by: Mimato

yeah! Remember that episode where she said something like that.. "Bachpan se mera sapna tha Mrs. Rudra Roy banne ka"

And that's not a crime 😆 She loved Rudra and unlike Saanjh who never confessed her feelings to Arjun but assumed Arjun would marry her, Ananya was open about it. She told him countless times (very much to Rudra's discomfort 😆) she loved him but she also asserted that she knows he doesn't reciprocate to her feelings. She never made him feel obliged. Yes she dreamt of becoming Mrs Rudra Roy but it was Rudra who gave her dreams wings when he proposed to her in the heat of the moment. So how is she at fault? One may have a lot of dreams and not all will be fulfilled. But when that dream promises the prospect of reality and then shatters, its hard for anyone to gather the broken pieces and move on.

Originally posted by: Tiaraa

I completely understand she is hurt. Her only dream is being shattered. And seeing maya living her dream as reality right before her eyes is making her jealous. I understand and i dont feel there is anything wrong here.

Initially, Rudra didnt let Anu let out her anger on him. He escaped or maya stood before him so anu didn't get a chance. She also said once "ab to tujhpe gussa krne ka haq bhi nahi raha na mera"

So collecting all the poison in her..all negative feelings inside her made her bitter.

But she is old anu when maya is not involved otherwise she gets into victim mode and blames Rudra for destroying her happily married dream

Yaha tak i completely agree with her...

Ab!!

Like mj uses Rudra , antara..and half dozen of publiv for his own interest. He has manipulated Ananya too to stay back.

Since she cares about mj like her own father..actually more than her own father..she accepts it.

If she had left that day in lift wala scene..i would have respected her more...

But she chose to come back and jhelofy all the mayra thing before her eyes and burn like tandoori!!! ..this ruined her character for me..

I know she is not going anywherr until sudhir chap is closed but she coming back to ruan is is total rubbish!!!!

Now she feels like rudra is scratching her wounds and the more days are passed..the more she will hate maya and rudra because Rudra actually doesn't need anu..he is lying to everyone...

That friendship place is void now...the day maya fills even that .anu ke pass...phutne! Ke alawa..koi option nahi hoga

Conclusion!

Anu .. Charcter failed!

Even I wish she had just walked out holding her head high than stick around and burn everytime she saw MayRa together. Would have appreciated that better. But Rudra too should let go of her. Making her feel obliged to stay back in RuAn is not right either.

Ananya is not a doormat or Antara 2.0 as she showed courage to go away from Rudra, her reactions are completely normal at least for me, she was jilted and Rudra didn't even care to call off the wedding, she had to go and inform everyone that Rudra has left. A different man, a good human being, I am not even going to long history of friendship between them, anyone would at least have taken the responsibility of breaking this marriage and saving Ananya from the humiliation, Rudra couldn't even do that for her. Ananya was left alone to face everyone, her family and her friends, colleagues from RuAn who attended their wedding ceremony.

Rudra didn't love her, but she never expected love, Rudra promised a good marriage life to Ananya, he promised respect and fidelity, Love was never a base of this marriage that's how most Indians get married and they have a successful marriage based on trust and respect. It was Rudra who asked Ananya to marry him. I liked Rudra and Ananya's friendship before Rudra asked her to marry him because his reasons to marry Ananya was clearly using her love for him, he knew Ananya won't say no to him, he had kissed Maya and was afraid of loving and breaking Maya, instead he decided to break Ananya, Friendship?

In this, Rudra is happily married to love of his life, the only one hurt here is Ananya, she has every right to hurt Rudra as he is the reason for her pain, that's how human react, people don't go back to being friends like this.

Ananya was leaving, Rudra's father asked her to stay, she doesn't visit their home, Ananya has stayed in office only where Rudra was insensitive enough to boast about his happy married life in front of the woman whom he left at the alter, in front of people who were probably invited to their wedding. Any woman would feel humiliated in this condition as she was rejected on her wedding day.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I would kind of differ here. There have been a lot of arguments regarding this where some blamed Ananya for accepting Rudra's proposal, some blamed her for being Saanjh part 2 and what not. She knew Rudra didn't love her but did she know he loved Maya? An onlooker could say Rudra was drawn to Maya but just from a 3rd person's perspective it was hard to conclude MayRa would end up sharing the kind of bond they have now, back then. Also Ananya knew Rudra didn't love her and Rudra was also honest when he proposed to her. She accepted his proposal happily as she felt her love for Rudra was sufficient for both of them and their future. Not all marriages are based on love unlike the popular opinion that love is what makes a marriage work. Mutual respect, trust and understanding outweigh love any day and that was there in RuAn relationship in the past. So no. Ananya was not wrong here. But after promising to never break her trust, Rudra backs off on the day of the wedding. And no matter what MayRa fans (me included) have to say, one cannot deny Ananya was humiliated on the day of her wedding before the world. Only a blind fan will expect Ananya to forgive Rudra and move on happily. Its not possible. Rudra too in his defense took a right decision, though at a horrible time and at a horrible price. Had he married Ananya knowing he loved Maya he would have ruined Ananya's life. That marriage would have been nothing but a sham. He saved her from a heartbreak but gave her another. Yes Ananya was spared a loveless marriage but what about her dreams that were brutally shattered before the world and the poor girl could not even shed tears (talking about the time when she douses the havan kund and calls off the wedding). So anyone calling her names, please keep urselves in her place and think. Would u forgive ur best friend after this? Rudra is not wrong in wanting Ananya back in his life. He knows he has hurt her but he doesn't want to loose his best friend. But what he needs to understand is that Ananya needs her space to get over the heartbreak he caused. He has to give her her space so that she can decide if she wants to forgive him or not and resume their friendship. Rudra has lost that right on Ananya and its upto Ananya if she decides to give that right to Rudra or not. Ananya is not wrong in any way for me. Not till now at least. And though I admit Rudra broke her heart he did not use her as a doormat. He valued her friendship in the past and he does that now as well.

Ananaya is not wrong if she thinks that Rudra is wrong and wanted her space for sometime before forgiving him or else never wanted to forgive and all.. but the way she taunts him and the way she expects him to prioritize her over his wife or else the kind of says things like that he only cares about his wife and all.. this and comes across like she is still demanding her place.. though she is saying that it's all over between them , she still expects him to not give importance to his wife. Thats kind of makes her look so shallow.

Rudra did a mistake by leaving the altar . At the time of marriage if he has married her too could have been a mistake. But here it could have been more wrong if he has married her than breaking the marriage at that time. Not saying here she has to forget everything and forgive him easily but she doesn't need to expect him to be guilty for marrying Maya and expects him to not talk about his wife before her.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Ananya is not a doormat or Antara 2.0 as she showed courage to go away from Rudra, her reactions are completely normal at least for me, she was jilted and Rudra didn't even care to call off the wedding, she had to go and inform everyone that Rudra has left. A different man, a good human being, I am not even going to long history of friendship between them, anyone would at least have taken the responsibility of breaking this marriage and saving Ananya from the humiliation, Rudra couldn't even do that for her. Ananya was left alone to face everyone, her family and her friends, colleagues from RuAn who attended their wedding ceremony.

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Agree with you on this. He could have taken the responsibility at that time than leaving her all alone to go and break the news to family

Originally posted by: Psurapaneni

@ soulfuldream wonderful analysis on Ananya . She is playing victim card . She her self reduced her image to a doormat . No one did it , Rudra absolutely not . He always gave her the independence in the relation ship and always told her he does not love her as a life partner but loves her as a best friend . She her self created an illusion around her self that she want to be Mrs Rudra Roy . She is jealous of Maya being Rudras wife . She comes around Rudras office and house trying to hurt Maya and indirectly Rudra . She is Antara 2.0 . Hope she moves on and become independent in thinking .

Yeah even those days when Rudra was saying her that he only loves her like a friend she was saying like he will come back to he only. .. he can't go to anyone elses . She always was like he has to come back to her, love or no love. She telling him that if he leaves the altar at that time then everything will be over between them looked more like she was blackmailing him emotionally than asking him her space after breaking the marriage.

I agree Rudra uses annaya as doormat

Rudra never was a good friend of annaya from starting only. He cheated on her and used her innocence and love feelings to him to destroy her. Although others may say hes great friend and never told her loves her. But he said "i want to marry you" just to remove his guilt feeling on love towards Maya. So he used her as a bouncing board to experiement an guinea pig to test on his feelings. After proposing to marry annaya did he stay loyal to her, no he went and kept meeting Maya on silly pertex like Rishi died etc and played games with annayas feelings by hidding his feelings for Maya from her. I would say if you are going to marry a boy or a girl in few days if he or she meets her lover behind back and does all lovey dovey things is that cheating? or not?? Its cheating actually, its a crime too you are playing with another human life. Ananya trusted him enough but he betrayed her many times. Ananya was mad in love to let him play with her and should have broken the engagement only not waited for marriage. It is surprising that many people support rudra here and say ananya is wrong. If same thing a person does to you and many say its your fault how will you feel?

Even on marriage day look at that rudra ran off from back door did not go and tell people why he called of marriage etc. How clever selfish human he is? Left a girl at altar and ran off making her face world and its cruel questions. Luckily ananya is bold not innocent so drank her tears and humilations. Now MJ playing with her to help him save Rudra from Maya. Why should she? Ananya loves rudra too much now too so shes staying back. Rudra also doing emotional blackmail saying this is our dream etc.

Maya also playing games with ananya hates her and always ready to kill her as shes scared ananya knows her truth and may reveal it one day rishis death secret, but acts so goody goody in front of rudra.

If Maya deserves sympathy for what MJ did to her, does annaya not deserve sympathy for being betrayed by rudra and attacks by maya etc all playing games with her in MJ house?

Just because Maya is heroine whatever she does ok just because rudra hero all wrongs are ok but ananya wrong even if shes right? What logic is that? In eyes of society and law and God rudra is wrong for what he did to ananya. Maya is completely wrong playing games with a man engaged to others by calling him to pool and hrishikesh etc. I am not sure but society and law and God will sympathise with ananya not maya and Rudra thats the truth bitter but truth

As for taunting rudra any human in her place would do that, she has pain and anger in her hand.

If you see the man or women who betrayed you at altar will you hug and laugh and play with them? That too they were your childhood friends and they betrayed you so badly. Should ananya dance and sing with rudra? Further he keeps talking about maya in front of a woman whom he left at altar. Hes lucky other woman would have hit him black and blue. Hes a shameless insensitive man like MJ only. One character that hes got from genes i guess

ananya may be immature in love but what about rudras behaviour towards ananya? Whys he acting so immature?

Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Thank you...🤗But seriously she is one woman who can even make God feel guilty about sending Rudra on earth...

Sab aapne hi toh kiya... You created that girl jisne mere zindagi ko mujhse cheen liya.. She took away my Mrs roy tag... Tune sab kiya...