Would you marry a guy like Kabir Singh? - Page 2

I could because I don't see him as possessive and forcing his wish on Preeti like others here. The only reason I would have against him is that I can't tolerate physical violence, don't wanna do it, don't want it done to me. And also, I have the same anger and aggression issues, albeit a bit dormant than his. Maybe someone more mild will gel better with someone like him and someone like me.

I already have my dog for protection purpose 😂😂 I want a equal partner in a guy with respectful n rational mind. The only bad boys I'll ever want in my life r Flynn rider or Mr Darcy

No. Nor would I befriend someone like him. But I have no problem watching movies or reading books on such characters. It is entertainment for me. I find a lot of bizarre and disturbing things interesting and entertaining. But even if I did not, I would not march down the road to restrict creative freedom just because a few idiots mistake reel for real life. Who decides what is worse? A few people thought Veere de wedding was horrible because an actress masterbated on the screen. They thought it was a huge insult to desi culture and they were actually all up in arms about that film too. I found nothing wrong with it. Who decides what’s to be shown and what’s not? There would be no end to this. As far as I am concerned, as long as a film is given a proper rating, people should be able to watch what they want. I would be protesting if this film was given a G rating or pg-13 rating. But it’s not so I don’t see any issue.

Having said that, it is a good thing that this film started conversations on bullying and misogyny just like Tanushree Dutta stared the whole #metoo movement in India. It is always important to have open dialogues on issues that afflict the general populace. Just don’t take it to extremes and restrict creative freedom.

Ewww🤢. I don't want a dude who wouldn't even ask for my consent before starting a relationship and would lay claim on me just like that. Guys like Kabir Singh don't value consent and expect women to be at their beck and call. This type of guys only look romantic in BW movies.

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

I already have my dog for protection purpose 😂😂 I want a equal partner in a guy with respectful n rational mind. The only bad boys I'll ever want in my life r Flynn rider or Mr Darcy

Lol. Same here. 3 huge dogs and new puppy 🐕 Dogs are such a blessing 💛 I feel bad for them that they are compared to the worst of men.

No!!!! I can’t even tolerate them in my vicinity, let alone a relationship with them...🤢

But I think I actually like to watch and read about such aggressive guys...😳

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Lol. Same here. 3 huge dogs and new puppy 🐕 Dogs are such a blessing 💛 I feel bad for them that they are compared to the worst of men.

Originally posted by: Phenomenal_One

Serving some garama gram chai 😆 aah I see reverse bashing lol

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Hmm..most likely not. But IDK the various dimensions to his personality, so I can't say..

But based on what I got from the film, I'd say no because he has anger issues, I can deal with anything but blinding volatile temper and physical violence (either at me or others).. And his anger is the type that unnecessarily destroys peace not just within him but all around him - even in situations where he could use common sense or some tact or a simple sense of humor (ability to laugh at self and situations) or just by letting things be/slide. It's a movie that's why we don't see the complete and very risky consequences of his type of anger :p

I'll end up like Raveena Tandon in Shool if I marry him :p ..even if I survive, I know I'll die from worries over his physical health (BP, etc - after hitting your 40s, anger causes damage to physical health, and I feel that life only gets harder the older you get) and in the inevitable emotional instability that comes from such anger problems..

If he was the type who was aware and sincerely wanted to work on his anger then, yes, anger wouldn't be a reason to say no. :)

But then, who can say right, you'll never know who you end up with, or who you fall in love with. You never know when the peaceful chill man who you fell in love with may turn into a raging terror 5 years after marrying.. life isn't that simple.. that is why relationships are actually scary if you think about it..

Just based on what I got from the film, and the lack of dimensions to his personality, no. :D