No way. Someone very close to me has a husband like that, and it’s hell kind of relationship there. He’s extremely controlling, possessive, jealous, and mentally and emotionally abusive. He even put cameras all over the house, then put a gps tracker on the wife’s phone to see where she goes exactly and so many other things he has done. Whenever we catch him and find whatever he’s using to control and destroy that, he comes with a new way. And you may think okay I. D.o.n.t want my man to put cameras on me, but the guy I am talking about didn’t start with that either. He was normal before and only just mild possessive and loved the girl. Wasn’t controlling, abusive or anything else. Had a normal and happy childhood too. But he started becoming that way after marriage. So you see just because you may think a guy is just a bit possessive and that’s okay, but he most likely has controlling and warning signs which will make him worse and worse as the time passes
You are very naive if you think controlling, jealous, and possessive men are okay and that’s being protective. When I was in my teenage years, I thought possessive and jealous men are okay. I definitely didn’t want controlling and abusive men though. Now I know better.
Now I hope you grow up. But if you don’t, then that’s your life. If you want to destroy your life, then destroy it. In the end, only you can decide for yourself and only you can help yourself. Good luck!
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