Would you marry a guy like Kabir Singh? - Page 9

I want a sequel of the movie where the girl suffers a miscarriage and would want to see Kabir reaction to it. Normally guys like him kill their wives for something like that. I remember there was a Gumraah episode in which they showed an overtly possessive guy who used to beat his girl every now and then and then used to apologize until a moment where he almost killed someone close to her

Hell to the No! I have one precious life, not wasting on some A-hole. This world contains a lot of good guys, why settle for a shitty life partner? I have self respect and would never treat myself so cheaply.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I must confess, during my teens and even my early twenties, I would have thought Kabir Singh was a desirable romantic. He is both handsome and brilliant. There is something magnetic about someone with that much intensity. There is something special about a fierce grizzly bear who can turn into a teddy bear just for you.

As I have grown older, I have come to learn that these notions are not romantic but highly problematic. I have come to realize that we women tend to be misguided to believe that saving bad boys is an accomplishment. That women need intensely protective men who will do anything for them.

Sadly, these are the men who end up trapping women in toxic and abusive relationships. Protectiveness without boundaries becomes smothering. Protectiveness without concern for the other ends up in overbearing relationships where the man controls where the wife goes, what she does, and whom she hangs out with. Marriage material means finding someone who is trusting of your choices. Someone who will let you make your own choices, fight your own battles, and step in only when you want them too.

Wild animals become friendly when you offer something life food or protection. Ultimately, they are still wild animals and you never know when they will get triggered and maul you. Its the same with violent men. They may soften for a woman who gives love, attention, and sex. But the second they don't get what they want, when they want, they become violent. Marriage material means finding someone who is respectful of all people equally.

Finally, marriages are not sunshine and rainbows. There will be arguments and disagreements. There will be many times you don't see eye to eye and go in the opposite directions. And every human has those moments when they blow up or get mad. But in general, you want someone who is even keel and stable. The last thing you want is someone who gets drunk or coked up the second you have some sort of marital strife.

I so resonate with this because when I was younger I too had these notions that I would love an possessive man etc. Been through a relationship where first I was jealous, then he was jealous we both became such unattractive people I swear, it is not fun or cute or anything remotely nice. Nothing like KS but even a mild version of possessiveness when you're a social functioning human being is disruptive AF.

That being said, in the west 'alpha men' are romanticized ALL the time, read their romance novels and they are as bad if not worse than KS.

Ok to girls here. Am i gud enough for girls? I was like this only but my ex cheated on me with my ex bestie. I feel i was a cool bf but too much cool i guess. Here are some points regarding me

I am not possessive at all. One call a day is enough for me. Hangout with your male friends not an issue but i hate it when i have to explain my friendship with other women.

Wear whatever u want. I dont have an issue. Ofcourse if u say u wanna wear bikini infront of parents and relatives, that surely gonna cause fight. Dress up to ocassion. That is what are my expectations. I dont like women in indian dresses expect the backless ehangas in weddings. Like them in modern dressup only😆

Our parents should be treated equally. Will never treat secondary compared to my parents. Expect the same from your side😳

Pls be hygenic and stylish. I try to take 3 showers a day. And brush 3 times a day. So pls dont stink. Its a big turn off for me. And have some sense of style

Also keep your things in series. I like things in even. Mismanagement of things is big turn off especially in odd

Good investor. Money is something which should go to investment not to useless things pls. Lets invest smartly which benefits us both.

No ego. You can earn 10 times more than me i have no issue. In the end it is our money which matters lol.

Equally divide household chores. I am a great cook after i spend my time in room during college cooking for myself. Learnt many dishes from hotel management friend. I also keep my washroom clean. But i hate dishes n clothes washing. So we can divide there. Though maid is there to help.

Drinking big no for me. Alcohol repels me. Though dont mind smoking ocassionaly

I am not the one who asks wife to go to trip along with me. Hangout with your friends on trips. I have no issues but expect the same from u when i plan solo trips or with friends bcoz i need my space too

No expectation of kids. So far they repel me too. I dont wanna get chained with them like my parents did and suffered. Dont expect the same unless i get a change of heart in 30s.

I am not the loser who expect u to be virgin like many indian guys do. I am not a saint either. But want full loyalty if we commit. I am loya to people i love,.

I get hurt emotionally but i dont express in real. I will cut off emotionally. hope u understand. I dont talk or make the mess.

I might fight online but in real i avoid it bcoz in heat of moment i can say things which hurts. Also dont abuse my family bcoz i will never abuse urs.

I also love pron. My ex didn't like it. Kinda join me or if u dont wanna, dont ask me to stop watching it bcoz it is my fave time pass. Respect my privacy .. I will do the same

Adventurous sports lovers. I recently did bungee jumping and i try to do one adventure sports every years. So i hope u r one of those

Ok guys i m not perfect but i have these expectations.. So forum females can tell me if i m wrong somewhere. Which i can improve

Err...no thank you. I don’t romanticize abusive relationships. I’m protective of my independence and individuality and I would never compromise any of that to be a possession of someone as volatile and hot-headed as the Kabir Singh types.

This kinda love is really fun, who wants a boring relationship where people talk about global warming and high tea. Nobody wants that

Originally posted by: Shaitan-Haiwan

This kinda love is really fun, who wants a boring relationship where people talk about global warming and high tea. Nobody wants that

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Yeah just to give him a taste of his own medicine and show him his place😂 I’m no Preeti so it would be fun,would keep the first aid boxes handy for him obviously.

The Kabir Singh types only seek out the Preeti's of society. Strong and independent women are a threat to their ego and fragile masculinity. They feed off the control and domination of being in the driver's seat in the relationship and throw tantrums when their puppet partner doesn't dance to their tunes.