No way. Someone very close to me has a husband like that, and itās hell kind of relationship there. Heās extremely controlling, possessive, jealous, and mentally and emotionally abusive. He even put cameras all over the house, then put a gps tracker on the wifeās phone to see where she goes exactly and so many other things he has done. Whenever we catch him and find whatever heās using to control and destroy that, he comes with a new way. And you may think okay I. D.o.n.t want my man to put cameras on me, but the guy I am talking about didnāt start with that either. He was normal before and only just mild possessive and loved the girl. Wasnāt controlling, abusive or anything else. Had a normal and happy childhood too. But he started becoming that way after marriage. So you see just because you may think a guy is just a bit possessive and thatās okay, but he most likely has controlling and warning signs which will make him worse and worse as the time passes
You are very naive if you think controlling, jealous, and possessive men are okay and thatās being protective. When I was in my teenage years, I thought possessive and jealous men are okay. I definitely didnāt want controlling and abusive men though. Now I know better.
Now I hope you grow up. But if you donāt, then thatās your life. If you want to destroy your life, then destroy it. In the end, only you can decide for yourself and only you can help yourself. Good luck!
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