Aurat ki Agnipariksha-Kab Tak

Aurat Ki Agnipariskha Kab Tak

Precap: Akshat Jindal needs to learn to control his anger, take anger management class. How dare he say those words? There was another way of saying, handling and dealing with situations! https://www.instagram.com/p/BxNLmiTB3Us/

It wasnt necessary to expose his relationship with his wife Guddan Akshat Jindal in front of hyenas & vultures in his family and saying the truth.

Instead AJ could had said “Sorry Guddan was sick & its a false alarm.”

What he did?

He exposed his delicate, innocent wife in front of Orthodox Vulture gave pleasure to Hyenas Bahu Chorni & Dayan.

Akshat Jindal similar to MS breaking Kand, AJ broke the MS in fit of Anger because he thought his wife broken his trust and betrayed him. In front of his family he took away his Wife’s dignity, humiliated her exposed her in front of Society & leech where his realtionship was question.

Tomorrow he is repeating his actions again. His anger & outburst was not justified. He paved ways for another form of his wife dignity to be taken away.

From the precap it looks like AJ was not present, he went away in anger when Bua was firing and questioning Guddan about her not being a Good Patni! It looks like Guddan is going to through Modern Day Agnipariksha!

Why was only Guddan question as Patni? Why wasnt AJ questioned?

Does being a Patni only mean statifiying husband physically and bearing his Children? What about understanding them mentally and being there pillar of strength!

Who gave Bua the right to tell Guddan she is not Guddan Jindal but Guddan Gupta! This matter should only be between Husband n wife,Its like telling a married woman to wear white saree.

I understand Akshan didn’t have normal courtship they are in learning phase but they need to discuss their future, especially regarding their future kids at the appropriate time. Because both Bua & Dadi expect Akshan to have their own children!

Bitter Facts

Days turn to weeks, weeks turn to months, months turn into year. Years become a decade, decades become Centuries. A Yug are passed. Satya Yuga, Treta Yuga, Dwapar Yuga, and Kali Yuga.

For 10 months Devi Sita stayed under the tree in Ashoka Vatika but she gave Agnipariksha (I know the real Sita was with Agnidev)

Devi Sati jumped into the Yagna because she couldn’t bear her father’s Dakash humiliating her husband Lord Shiva.

From outer appearance we only adapt and adjust to Badlav technologies, driving, balancing house, family & work! But why does the mind remain the same? When will the thinking of Indian Society change? Kab tak only Girls & Woman reminded of being in their Maryada whether its United States of America, India, London, Australia, Fiji or anywhere its all the same. Even

God created us equally but even today we are not treated equally in all society its different in Rural and Urban

From childhood girls are told Tum Ladki Ho, Yeh Mat Kar Voh Mat Kar, Ek Ladka Hai He is Azaad to this

If Girls raise their Voice for their Rights & Defense- You are considered Badtmeez, Zuban Chalthi Hai- this is what your parents taught you?

Girls wear makeup, skirts, shorts, dresses, no Sanskar & No Cultural Value, Arre Yaar Kya Mal Hai & Inappropriate Remarks are passed on by Young & Even Old Men. She deserves to be sexually harassed & raped.

Young Girl always remember that your Dad’s Surname is attached to your name! With their name Girls are taught to carry their Parents Izzat- keep your Dignity & Izzat intact.

Unmarried Girls: pass marriageable age, who will marry you? No man will want you? After 30 you cant have kids!

Married Woman: Pati Ke Izzat, Saasural Ke , Bahu aur Patni Ke Maryada mein Ro. When will you have kids? I want Ladka for my Warris! Even now Girls & Boys are treated differently by some grandparents! When woman refuse to have kids, they are told they are incomplete and are called Barren!

Even today, although woman are qualified & educated, have job they are still unqualified in the eyes of society. No matter how a woman dresses or looks, full clothed Salwar Kameez Behnji, Saree ya Short Clothing they come under the vulture eyes of Cunning & Chichora Men, who take advantage of their Majboori, & Innocent for their benefits.

My Questions

Why are Men not told to be in their Maryada? Why do people forget that she is someone daughter, wife, sister, mother? Why do men forget that their Mother & Sister are also woman?

What can we do to change the perspective of our society and its thinking?

Before grilling and roasting why do woman like Bua, Lomri, Chorni & Dayan forget that they are woman? Why doesnt a woman understand another woman pain?

Why doesnt our society question Man and the actions they do or make? Why are they given freedom and not woman?

I apologize for ranting, after seeing todays Precap for tomorrow my blood went sky rocket. I was frustrated

Borrowing and quoting Captain “Lanat hai Durga Jindal aur Sarawasti Jindal teri Wajood par”

bang on post piku 🤗

society wahi ka wahi sirf 20 percent changed over years .

no offense meant when maryada ram was not questioned yet he is worshipped till now for putting sita in a bay and making her life hell and asked her to give Agnipariksha after having kids also

this is kalyug....

were all rules are to be followed by women ..

from childhood ya its the same case ..

parents ---they teach girls how to be because one day they to sasural ...

girls are given secondary treatment being a girl ...kya karegi shadhi to hogi nah ...

the preference they give to male child they are partial to them than us..

after marriage ---same old treatment ur bahu so be responsible ..

give heir otherwise ur going back to ur house ..(being a women saas and nanad try to prove u have a problem)

even if kid arrives if its a girl gone all blame bahu.(my co-sisters taunted till now having girl child)...simple logic they forget its not women who give result male/female main thing comes from male ..

kids --if they do well good job if they don't blame mother ..

age--if family is intact good otherwise blame women she broke the family .

from childhood till death she has to be in raider good or bad she needs to prove her worth ...

this society forgets simple logic "without women there won't be world"

forget society our own gender treat us like shit were will we go and complain ..

its up to us as women who should take the power of strength no one gives us....

coming to the show guddan should take power on her own and give ultimatum to aj bohat hogaye..

u need me own me or else set me free..

he always goes away when guddan needs the most ..

always he ends up putting her in a bay ..

m.s was not enough now this hope guddan gives him a shock were he will not take her for a ride..

if he wants to be in antara world be it ..don't ride on both past and present

for guddan i have a solution for her dont ever put urself in a position were ppl can ride on u easily whether it is ur family sasural or ur mayaka be independent be a fighter not a surrender .

don't even allow aj to rule be a ruler ....he is ur mentor so follow what he preached....move on ...come out from ur weakness

Copying my post here from other thread:

I guess we'll know the full story in tomorrow's episode, but I can't believe that after the MS fiasco, AJ exposed the truth of their relationship in public again in a fit of anger and then left them both, especially Guddan, vulnerable to third-party interference, something he vowed never to do. It's a good thing she hasn't fallen in love with him or doesn't know if she has yet, or she would be heartbroken at his outburst. Every time he lets "cracks" in their relationship show to the outside world, they take advantage of it to disrespect Guddan.

Even though we as the audience think they are doing just fine going through various phases in their lives, and that this is not a crack but a phase in their journey together, people like Bua will never understand. She doesn't get the concept of dosti in the first place, so she won't get how that can be the basis of a relationship between a married couple. I will hold back my comments about AJ's behavior until tomorrow - I am trying hard not to be mad at him after those grand vows.

If this is leading to the "getting over the guilt regarding Antra" track, then fine. Otherwise, I don't want him to be cold towards Guddan like he was last time and hurt her feelings again. Can't take that. Love or not, he had better miss her presence in his life, in his room, and miss her words every second.

On one hand he can't live without her and can't even imagine her being taken away from him, on the other hand he blasts people for assuming what is typically expected of a couple. The point is not whether they are interested in being intimate with each other or not, the point is, it's none of anyone else's business how they define their relationship.

Or maybe this is another plan that both of them have hatched to teach Bua a lesson. Chances are low, but I can dream, can't I?

It is actually AJ's agnipariksha not Guddan's, to prove that he is true to his vows and his principles. Will he pass the test and protect his wife's honor as part of his pati dharam when Guddan needs his support the most, or will he leave her to face the evil women and their taunts all alone? If he doesn't pass this test, I want Guddan to give him a piece of her mind like she did last time in Goa regarding the MS. Tab jaake shaayad aqal thikane aaye AJ ki. Badi baatein kar raha tha Vardaan ko daant te waqt.

After tieying ms ..I didn’t expect these dialogues from aj!!😢precap give me shock🙄 last week during dance competition it was like aj is attracted towards guddan . Suddenly his character changed 🥺I think cv s are also confused😛😄

Sorry mods, I don't want to compare with other shows but this looks similar to what Yash did with Aarti in Punar Vivah when he started to get attracted to her despite believing he could only ever love his late wife. I really hope it doesn't go that way. Too painful to watch.

pata nahi eh naya soch kab badlega...

women have gone to space but ppl brain not at reached there ..

we see a difference yet there is many things to be seen as different .

equality is seen but boys needs to a lesson to be taught "tum thop nahi ho ur just a kid born by a women without a women ur nothing be it a mom /sis/wife/mil/dil...ur as equal as a girl is and shall me try to respect women before being a mard ...if u want to be stud show it by respecting ur women in ur house first "

every women being a mother needs to teach there son's treat a women like a queen like a human being like a flower ...

every women being a mother should teach her daughter to respect fellow woman saas/nanad treat her as a women as sister/mother as ur own blood because u share the same gender womanhood..

a women who has suffered in hands of saas/nanad should learn how to be a better saas /nanad ..

most important respect ur womanhood ..

forget the mannu sastra that idiot who wrote that needs to burnt in those ashes along with what he wrote about women is dhool of men(he forgot he came from that dhool so what he should be name a b**fool)

women is a lotus who being in a dirty water yet gives a pleasure to the eyes and nose yet untouched by the dirty water ...

son's should give it back to there mothers in the most witty way (saas blames us if there son's support us ...shadhi ke baad mera ladla badal gaya)my hubby and his brothers sarcastically gives it by saying we used to drink milk when kids now we drink tea/coffee made by wives only difference...my hubby even makes fun by calling her mom as ginger and me as jaggery when she says ur joru gulam tease her to the core were she shuts and gives up ...

thoda society change karo ..ghar se start karo ..

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

pata nahi eh naya soch kab badlega...

women have gone to space but ppl brain not at reached there ..

we see a difference yet there is many things to be seen as different .

equality is seen but boys needs to a lesson to be taught "tum thop nahi ho ur just a kid born by a women without a women ur nothing be it a mom /sis/wife/mil/dil...ur as equal as a girl is and shall me try to respect women before being a mard ...if u want to be stud show it by respecting ur women in ur house first "

every women being a mother needs to teach there son's treat a women like a queen like a human being like a flower ...

every women being a mother should teach her daughter to respect fellow woman saas/nanad treat her as a women as sister/mother as ur own blood because u share the same gender womanhood..

a women who has suffered in hands of saas/nanad should learn how to be a better saas /nanad ..

most important respect ur womanhood ..

forget the mannu sastra that idiot who wrote that needs to burnt in those ashes along with what he wrote about women is dhool of men(he forgot he came from that dhool so what he should be name a b**fool)

women is a lotus who being in a dirty water yet gives a pleasure to the eyes and nose yet untouched by the dirty water ...

son's should give it back to there mothers in the most witty way (saas blames us if there son's support us ...shadhi ke baad mera ladla badal gaya)my hubby and his brothers sarcastically gives it by saying we used to drink milk when kids now we drink tea/coffee made by wives only difference...my hubby even makes fun by calling her mom as ginger and me as jaggery when she says ur joru gulam tease her to the core were she shuts and gives up ...

thoda society change karo ..ghar se start karo ..

You're so right. It has to start at home. I don't think a man should have to choose between his wife and mom. They each have a different place in his heart and as long as there is respect and space between these boundaries things will be ok.

Men have always known that women are emotionally and mentally stronger so over the centuries they tried to subdue them with physical strength and never-ending rules and restrictions.

If women raise their sons to be respectful to women, they would also respect their own daughter in law and maintain their own dignity in their sons' lives. No need for tug of war.

bang on post piku!

i am not a active member but your post compel me to posting a statement.

i just saw the precap & i can say one thing & i have just one question

is akshat jindal biased?

i will say "yes" what about agar same situation bahus ke saath hoti.for ex:- Lakshami ke saath hoti & vardaan bhi yahi sab bolta definately he take stand for his bahu & give lecture to vardaan what are the duties of ideal husband?

sorry for that ranting.i like the character of akshat jindal very much.ofcouse he is best male lead of itv shows but some time i feel he is biased towards his wife.when he broke the ms of guddan i can understand his reaction before that he never accepted guddan as his wife.but now situation is different.now both share "friendship" bond & aj also accept guddan as his wife.so my question is for akshat jindal

kya hua unn vachanon ka jo usne guddan ko diya the?

keep dignity of her wife in front of family members is not come under vows of marraige?

whatever they sharing the bond whether friendship or something else akshat jindal should keep private between his & guddan.again i will say its a guddan mistake also whey she not questioning to akshat jindal about his acts.i am sure she will not tell anything against of akshat jindal doing.

baat rahi women ki agnipariksha ki...

then idk ye kab tak chalega

hamari society kitni bhi modern ho jaye but same mindset rahega.

sometime i too face that biased nature & judgements of people .& at that time my blood start boil.

idk when will society understand equality of both men & women in true sense?

Regarding AJ, its too early to say anything as of now.

About Akshan discussing regarding their future kids, yes that should definitely happen & will happen but I feel this isn't the time yet. 1st realization toh hone doh ! Phir aage badenge ek ek karke...

They just accepted themselves as each other's pati patni. So at the moment asking them for kids is a lot lot lot more annoying than asking a 2 day old newly married couple going for honeymoon, "khush khabri kab suna rahe ho ?" [Referring :- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9mvAqBAFsg]

Rather Bua should accept the fact that now a days, every couple don't have ghapa-ghap on their wedding night itself & that doesn't change status of a husband or wife given the fact they choose to successfully accomplish the other goals of the marriage 1st.

She should accept that, strong bond of relationship between husband & wife do exist even without physical intimacy. Right now this is an alien concept to her similar to convincing muggles like Dursleys to accept that magic is "normal". [referring the world of Harry Potter]

Now in real life people like Bua hardly change their thought process & die with the same. But in the show, it seems like Bua will accept it sooner or later.

About Dayan & chorni, they are nautanki dekhne wale. No nautanki, no tamasha makes them upset. Other's happiness makes them depressed. Seeing other facing trouble gives them pleasure & boosts their superiority complex. Only way to finish them is burn them which pervy will attempt. If only he had succeeded in putting Dayan on fire. 😔

But chalo Koi nahi, as Lanka dahan was done by Lord Hanuman so this shouldn't happen via a paapi like Pervy's hand 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Sorry mods, I don't want to compare with other shows but this looks similar to what Yash did with Aarti in Punar Vivah when he started to get attracted to her despite believing he could only ever love his late wife. I really hope it doesn't go that way. Too painful to watch.

I don't think that's happening cause, what Yash did was was disgusting considering how he completely distanced himself & became extremely rude with Aarti after consummating in drunken state while Aarti had no memory of that happening till she got pregnant & had to be reminded of that night by Ranbir Kapoor appearing as Barfi 😆

Here we know AJ will be consoling her inside cupboard. So no chance 😊