More than baby making machine

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Posted: 6 years ago
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This show and reaction of audience along with it has surprised me to say the least, I always thought that the woman herself is more important than the child she gives birth to, as in a wife is more important than mother of a man's child... I guess that's not the case when it comes to this show...

Everyone says that Mauli was wrong when she heeded to Kunal's accuses, when she had had enough and decided that she doesn't need him in her life, I don't understand why people expect her to accept Kunal back in her life when he was accusing her of lying? Understand that he didn't accuse her because she had history of lying but because he wanted to live with his girlfriend, in this situation who will accept him back?

So Kunal wouldn't have left her if she had told him about the child, but after all he did, don't you think Mauli would not have accepted him? That's what she did...

Anyway, the point is that kunal can leave Mauli but not when she is pregnant with his child, so the woman herself doesn't matter, her womb is of importance rest of her is not? And this makes him a good father and also a good human?
Isn't Kunal like those men who chose their kids when asked to save one between wife and child? How's that a good human?


I watched Zero the movie, in this Baua (SRK) cheats on Afia (Anushka) leaves her on their wedding day, he lived with Babita (Katrina) for more than a year, after a while he realized that he loves Afia, when he came to Afia, he got to know that he has a daughter with her, Afia didn't tell him about the child, when he comes back to her later, she says that he has come back for his daughter. Baua tells her that daughter does not mean more than her, he didn't even know about his daughter, he came back for her

In this situation was more or less similar, of course Baua wasn't whitewashed, his regret and remorse reflected in his actions, he was No. 1 ka kameena types, unapologetic in everything he did, but you love him because he doesn't wear this fake garb of goodness, there are not women around him telling him that he is the best, his actions do that for him...

Again coming to the point, shouldn't Mauli or any other woman be more important than the child she gave birth to?

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FruitToasty thumbnail
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I just so hate that the narrative has been set and Kunal is not blamed for EMA or accusing Mauli anymore, ab bhagwan kaha galat ho sakte hai, mai ye janti hu par manti nahi
Even Mishti blamed Mauli that she kept her away from her father, I just want Mauli to leave these selfish people each one of them, bc she gives and gives, gets insults and accusations in return
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I just so hate that the narrative has been set and Kunal is not blamed for EMA or accusing Mauli anymore, ab bhagwan kaha galat ho sakte hai, mai ye janti hu par manti nahi

Even Mishti blamed Mauli that she kept her away from her father, I just want Mauli to leave these selfish people each one of them, bc she gives and gives, gets insults and accusations in return

Atleast mishti is mature enough to understand who truly loves her and respects her presence and chose her popsy..
When she knows a little truth about her father, that he left her when she was young. What ever the reason is, mishti appreciates the one who loves her.
Where as when mauli saw kunal to be good with kids , she felt bad for keeping the truth from him, she totally forgot the reason why she had hidden the pregnancy from him, not cos he was gonna be a bad father but cos he was unhappy with the pregnancy news.
Mauli atleast stick to the decisions you make.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli regretted the decision of lying about pregnancy and how Kunal would have been a good father and things would be normal b/w them. She herself doesn't respect the decision she took.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I am talking about Pre Leap Mauli
Post leap Mauli is a paint brush, her head is dipped in "Kunal is best father" brand ka white colors, then she paints Kunal with it...

It's not Ishaan vs Kunal, I know you are Ishaan supporters, this is not about him, this is about a fundamental problem where in Balika Vadhu, Gajra Kotari showed that people who choose child over mother (Jayga's uncle) are wrong but in SBRK this is shown as not only right but this makes Kunal a good father and also a good human
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think the show or audiences ever acted like women were baby making machine.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan

I don't think the show or audiences ever acted like women were baby making machine.


Didn't they show that Kunal would have accepted Mauli for the baby? So the baby is more important than the woman herself, what does it mean?
The only reason Kunal could ever consider living with Mauli was her child and people here supported this saying he would have lived with her but she lied
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Posted: 6 years ago
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viewers except a few everyone supported mauli hiding pregnancy from Kunal n letting him go out of her life in the pre-leap but writers are the ones sending a regressive message in the post leap how women should tolerate husband's infidelity just coz they can be good fathers by making mauli herself feel guilty of what she did...but today mishti blamed mauli only coz her mom is separating her from her popsie also, before she hated Kunal for leaving them n not mauli for hiding truth *all these are too complicated for a child to understand n decide who is right n wrong but these fictional kids behave more matured than adults*
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


Didn't they show that Kunal would have accepted Mauli for the baby? So the baby is more important than the woman herself, what does it mean?
The only reason Kunal could ever consider living with Mauli was her child and people here supported this saying he would have lived with her but she lied


fruity i would like to give explanation for myself not for others..

i loved mauli when she wanted him back that time.. as i felt that it wasnt solely bcz of the baby but she wanted it for them back then.
it wss for kunal too.
i always wondered what if he had left her and then came back after sometime regretting his decision.. ? would it be easy for mauli to accept him back ?? i were mauli i would have never forgiven him then..

she tried to make him understand that his staying back is not only for her but for him too. her dailogues " hum mil kar sab theek kr dege. ab is rishte mein kuch galat nhi hone dege. sb pehle jaisa ho jaega"

i always saw her wanting him back like this only, for herself and for him..

so i supported her that time and that is a different thing i always knew he will not stay back..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't believe that children can keep a marriage together ...a couple can't stay together just because of their children if they don't love each other . Children add to the happiness of a marriage of a couple who love each other ...children make a marriage deeper and stronger when the couple are already in love and happy. Children require a lot of care and support..so if a marriage is weak because the couple already have problems and don't love each other then children are just going to add to the burden of that marriage and that marriage is highly unlikely to succeed . Therefore I think realistically speaking if Kunal stayed with Mauli just for the baby...but he still loved and wanted nandu...they would have still eventually got divorced. Couples who have children still get divorced all the time ..their children don't prevent them from getting divorced ...

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