More than baby making machine - Page 2

Mishti just needs a father. When a child's father /mother is dead, it doesn't matter. We accept. But when a child tells the society /school/class mates that her father doesn't live with them...they all ask "why did he/she left? Don't they love you? Why ? Do you have any problem? What was your problem? So you are guilty that your mom/dad go separated...at the end she/he starts to think that it must be her/his fault." Divorced parent's child goes through lots of mental pressure that a normal parent's child will never understand. Just as you saw Mahek's reaction, "Mauli didn't teach her child properly" or Mauli is responsible for child's behavior. We all know how sweet was Mishti before Kunal's introduction. But Mahek made it in such a way as if Mauli is a "Murderer" "Pari" my best friend's last nishani". I just felt ke do thappad de doon . Mahek is an example of why a divorced woman can't move on or why Mishti is behaving this way. Mishti is 6years old. Poor thing. In this age she is suffering so much and she is fighting alone with the world. Mauli toh Bhagwan ke beti. She has the tolerance like koi "Mahatma". But she is a mature lady. Mishti is just 6year old. Whatever she accused Mauli is her anger that her mom never utter a word. If she saw her mom scolding Kunal or giving a reaction her life would look much better. She could think that she is in right hand. Whatever happens my mom is a sherni. Mauli's khamoshi is the reason why Mishti is getting restless. As now she thinks if Ishan leaves she will not have her shelter...who gave her this idea? Mauli herself. A guy whom you not going to marry why did you give him so much responsibility of your daughter? Now Mishti is possessed by Ishan. In this point I don't blame Mishti. Mauli is a mother , learn to act like "Maa Durga". When you are the only parent be the "Boss of your child. Mishti must know "Moma is the Boss".



Regarding why Mauli didn't tell Kunal, why she hid, he would stay with her if she told about her pregnancy...I completely agree with you. Thank God someone wrote something. I am also getting irritated with this concept. That guy came back from his ...house with a face of an owl. 🤢Accha kiya jo nehi boli. A man who doesn't give his attention to his wife...is not a man for that woman. It is better that he leaves. Uski manhoos shakal nehi chahiye. When Mauli replied all these I felt the first time respect for her. But after that I am not enjoying her. She is giving all her rights to other people. Even Mishti who is her daughter...she should not give her to Kunal or Ishan. No matter what she does in future...choose Ishan or choose Kunal. Mishti is Mauli's daughter. It was always her decision to give birth to Mishti. This is a high time for Mauli to tell this to Mishti. "Your father doesn't matter...because I myself is the mom-dad for you. As I took the decision to give birth to you."
But alas this is an Indian serial. I wonder can they show a "Mother India"? As everyday Mauli is turning in to a messed up chicken.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Didn't they show that Kunal would have accepted Mauli for the baby? So the baby is more important than the woman herself, what does it mean?

The only reason Kunal could ever consider living with Mauli was her child and people here supported this saying he would have lived with her but she lied

Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan

😕 So you are trying to say just because they showed Kunal staying for the baby the show and the audience believe women are baby making machine? I don't think I am understanding you right. Please feel free to explain. Just because they show something, for example, Rajdeep beating Nandini, doesn't mean the show is saying we approve of this decision. They also showed us Mauli standing up and saying she doesn't want to use her baby to hold on to Kunal and audience did love that.

As for Kunal Mauli and pregnancy situation I think most fans here have the hardest time understanding most things are a matter of perspective. Just because Mauli was right in her place doesn't mean she was right from all angles. As a woman I totally totally support Mauli for not telling scum Kunal she was pregnant. She deserved better and he didn't deserve to know. But if you switch the angles, let's switch it to Mishti's angle. From Mishti's side what Mauli did was wrong. It was Mauli who let Mishti live a fatherless life because whether Kunal wanted to be with her or not he would've loved Mishti and been there for her.

The title is "More than a baby making machine"

Love your meaningful posts dear. I am of the opinion that since the child is responsibility of both the mother and the father , that's the reason why womb is given importance ..Kunal may not have come back for mauli alone but he was ready to compromise for his unborn child because it was their collective responsibility and the child should not get affected like how she did. Whether or not they fulfill it properly is another issue .

Originally posted by: _charu_

Love your meaningful posts dear. I am of the opinion that since the child is responsibility of both the mother and the father , that's the reason why womb is given importance ..Kunal may not have come back for mauli alone but he was ready to compromise for his unborn child because it was their collective responsibility and the child should not get affected like how she did. Whether or not they fulfill it properly is another issue .

Lol. ..😆 Kunal didn't want to come and he gave a proposal to Nandini that without going back to Nandu he would still prove that he is a good father. He was more like holding Nandu's leg like a beggar. ..."mujhe nehi jana hai..." It was Nandu who kicked and kicked Kunal to go back to Mauli. "Tujge jaaanaa hi parega...tu jah Kunal ...jaaah" 😆

After coming back he made his face like a "dead body" even after knowing that Mauli is pregnant. I think you missed it or forgot. It was karwachaut. Mauli who was pregnant was starving for his "lambeee umar." She came to room and there was Kunal standing in front of wardrobe with a manhoos shakal. Didn't notice Mauli is there and trying to fix her hair...after a long time noticed her for a long time. Then after a long time he fixed her hair without looking at her face. If I was Mauli , forget about pregnancy, EMA etc. I was fasting for him...and he is with that face , ...I would kick him out only for making that face. 😆 I am starving here for you, and you are showing me attitude? 😡😡 .

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Lol. ..😆 Kunal didn't want to come and he gave a proposal to Nandini that without going back to Nandu he would still prove that he is a good father. He was more like holding Nandu's leg like a beggar. ..."mujhe nehi jana hai..." It was Nandu who kicked and kicked Kunal to go back to Mauli. "Tujge jaaanaa hi parega...tu jah Kunal ...jaaah" 😆

After coming back he made his face like a "dead body" even after knowing that Mauli is pregnant. I think you missed it or forgot. It was karwachaut. Mauli who was pregnant was starving for his "lambeee umar." She came to room and there was Kunal standing in front of wardrobe with a manhoos shakal. Didn't notice Mauli is there and trying to fix her hair...after a long time noticed her for a long time. Then after a long time he fixed her hair without looking at her face. If I was Mauli , forget about pregnancy, EMA etc. I was fasting for him...and he is with that face , ...I would kick him out only for making that face. 😆 I am starving here for you, and you are showing me attitude? 😡😡 .

@Charu

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Charu

So we have established -

1 Kunal went to Mauli for the child

2 We can't say whether it would have been good for Mishti or not... That's a different thing

But my point is not from perspective of a father or a child, I am talking about that woman Mauli, even if Kunal wanted to come back for the child, isn't that insulting to Mauli as a woman?

After all the humiliation and accusations that kunal meted out to her, she should have accepted him because he would be a good father?

In a marital relationship respect of both partners is important, here Mauli is accepting Kunal with all his wrongdoings but Kunal won't ever accept Mauli with all her goodness, he is accepting her for the child she is carrying in her womb... Do you see that?

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Charu

So we have established -

1 Kunal went to Mauli for the child

2 We can't say whether it would have been good for Mishti or not... That's a different thing

But my point is not from perspective of a father or a child, I am talking about that woman Mauli, even if Kunal wanted to come back for the child, isn't that insulting to Mauli as a woman?

After all the humiliation and accusations that kunal meted out to her, she should have accepted him because he would be a good father?

In a marital relationship respect of both partners is important, here Mauli is accepting Kunal with all his wrongdoings but Kunal won't ever accept Mauli with all her goodness, he is accepting her for the child she is carrying in her womb... Do you see that?