CVs plz note:No truth should be required for Avneil Reconciliation

Hey guys,
This is my very first post on the forum as I have mostly been a silent reader or have stuck to occasionally replying to others' threads. I had posted this as a response to another thread, but was pleasantly surprised by the great response. Thanks everyone for appreciating my post, especially @Chocolatebond for suggesting that I make this into a separate post.

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As much as I loved Neil Khanna, undoubtedly he is no longer the same post leap and logically, nor is the love between Avni and Neil.The person who used to say that he understood Avni best (more than anyone else in the world) and could catch her lies and hidden truths by just looking into her eyes now says that except himself, everyone else can understand Avni's decisions and feelings. Instead of embracing her or at least pulling her into a hug the first time he sees her, he instead pushes her away and refuses to listen to any explanation whatsoever. There is no initial joy or surprise at seeing her alive. It's as if he would have been better off if she were not alive. He doesn't wish to share the new of his impending engagement with his current wife whom he has not yet divorced, and is definitely more of an emotional wreck than ever before (though fortunately no longer suicidal).


Neil Khanna is treading on the wrong path, acting impulsive and irrational without analyzing the circumstances of the issue at hand, and is even willing to play with a girl's feelings while he attempts to take out his anger on Avni by getting married pronto. What's the goal? Does he really wish to spoil Mithali's life along with his own? Suppose they do get married, it's obvious that it will never be a happy one. And honestly, I don't see Avni getting too affected even if he does end up getting married as long as she has Mowgli and the children by her side. If anything, it would maybe lead her to doubt their love and get over him easier.


Avni's Neil would never have behaved this irrationally and I feel that the large disconnect between Avni and Neil is not just because of Avni's stubbornness but also because of Neil's callous behavior. As Neil continues to push Avni away, she just keeps distancing herself even further. The only time that Avni is drawn to Neil at the moment is when the old protective and caring Neil resurfaces during times of need, but as we know, that too is temporary. As much as the MS breaking was painful, it was necessary to bring Neil out of his shell of raging emotions.



I can only hope that Neil should have some sort of self-realization before Mowgli's or Prakash's truth surfaces, hopefully with the bracelet scene, because otherwise, their reunion would be because of external factors and not because of the undying love that they have for each other.


Neil needs to realize that he needs to 'move on', not by marrying Mithali, but by finding a purpose in life again (like Avni has) and, hopefully while he is at it, he is able to come to the realization that he can only move on from Avni to 'move on' with Avni.

Thank you for posting this separately . This is the only way they can make some sense for the soulmate connection they established for a whole month . Neil should realise he only loves and wants Avni in his life before any truth is out. Else it will be for their son if it comes out first and become a gratitude on his part if Prakash truth follows it

i agree that Neil khanna does not need mitali or another girl to move on.

Hey thanks a lot buddy well written post I hope by chance if CVS get to know what we want as avNeil fan who watch the show not just for avni or Neil but also for their true love and soulmate connection which has been strong till the leap happened(a nightmare) hope they keep purity of avNeil relationship intact till the last episode

Originally posted by: delhigirl

i agree that Neil khanna does not need mitali or another girl to move on.

but i disagree that Neil khanna needs to realize that he needs to move on to move on with avni.

neil khanna needs to move on just for himeslf first and find a purpose exclusively for himself just like that police oficer that he was

whether they can move back to each other or not will require both to find a middle ground. Even avni needs to reslize that whether she needs neil or not in her life.

she needs to actively get over her own insecurities and whether she can trust him as a life partner.

I agree both need to work on their relationship hope the writers understand the importance of avneils relationship which was balanced beautifully till the 10year leap happened the biggest strength of avNeil relationship is their communication and understanding which is lacking post leap hope writers realise and buck up before the last episode which is not far away hope they make this 1year journey memorable by giving us lots of good memories of avNeil

soul mate connection, unconditional love and trust is just not neil' responsibility but as much avni's responsibility in this relationship.

Elaborating on what was written above...

Neil is definitely more emotional post leap than ever before. The other thing that I wanted to mention was that I feel that Neil has been pestered to move on by his family because he has not done anything substantial with his life post Avni's death, except mourn. Whether it is reminiscing in her memories as an RJ, getting drunk at bars, or wallowing in sadness privately, it is clear to the family that Neil is unhappy and that makes them unhappy.

If he had truly found a calling, maybe dedicated himself to causes that Avni believed in, he would have been a lot happier and Shweta may have never found the need to push him towards Mithali. In Wednesday's episode, I believe, Shweta says that Avni has moved on by finding a purpose in life through the orphanage, and she believes that Neil will find his through Mithali. She is blatantly wrong of course. However, we need to notice that everyone has been continuously saying that Avni has a new life and that she has moved on. Here, Avni moving on clearly does not equate to her getting remarried or ever finding another life partner at all. Everyone around her, though unhappy with her separation from Neil, is still happy and proud of what she has done with her life. Even in the MS breaking episode, Avni is clearly asking Neil to move on and live his life instead of wallowing in past memories. She never says that he needs to remarry, though that of course is his family's expectation and what Neil assumes. She just wants him to stop living in darkness and embrace positivity and happiness again for once.

The happiest I have seen Neil post leap, is with the children, and not with Mithali, as Shwetha feels or even Avni as Neil is extremely angry with her at the moment. You can say that he felt Avni's presence in the air of Kashid and that is why he was happy, but I believe that he truly enjoys the company of children (regardless of the fact that Mowgli is his own son) as spending time with them brings a genuine smile to his face, and he instantly becomes a child along with them. I so wish he had done something like Avni in the past ten years, like done some charity work for an NGO, organized philanthropic events for his dad's business, taught women and children self defense, or maybe even adopted a child and named her Avni. How sweet would that have been? I doubt Mithali would have even had a chance to make her way into his family had Neil been able to 'move on' in the true essence of the word with respect to his character. It's not too late either and I don't understand why the Khanna's have not insisted on him doing some sort of work again.

Right now, Neil needs to understand that if Avni has subjected their family to 10 yrs of sorrow, then Neil has contributed to that pain just as much, if not more, by not 'living' and remaining goalless in life. Most importantly, he needs to understand that deep down Avni never has and never will want him to remarry.

She just wants him to have peace and happiness, in whatever form. Let's all just hope that love prevails and that no truth becomes a cause for the reconciliation.


Neil needs to remember that he loved Avni unconditionally with not just all her wonderful qualities (selflessness, courage & fighter spirit, compassion, helping nature, beauty), but her flaws as well, just as she had his. Mithali does not possess the qualities that Neil admired to the core, and Neil should really introspect if he now condones selfishly lying and resurfacing one's childhood trauma to gain someone's love.

Does he even respect or admire Mithali? I highly doubt it. He thanks her for some of things that she has done but I do not see any awe or admiration at all. I also think this is the reason why Neil doesn't hesitate to play with Mithali's feelings. I dont know whether he knows that he's doing that , but if Mithali had even an ounce of self-respect, the impending crash-burn of her dreams would have been avoided.

Whatever Mithali has done has been for her own motive.She truly looks at the best interests of herself, be it supporting Neiland the Khanna family for 10 years, trying to send Avni away by lying, finding Avni a house, or just continuously sticking around. She has never lost the hope that she can gain Neil's love. Otherwise, Mithali would have at least tried to retaliate when Avni says that she is 'no good' for Neil and constantly degrades herself. Despite knowing that Neil can never fall in love again, Mithali is mum when Avni continues her rant about Neil hating her. Instead of constantly guilt-tripping Avni by telling her that she has held Neil back, Mithali could have told her what all Neil has done in the past 10 years to preserve her memories and that hatred is his facade for undying love. But, no! How can she, when she is selfish in her motives. I know that if I were in Mithali's place, I would have tried to get Avni to break free of her misconceptions, and embrace love and life again.

Originally posted by: delhigirl

soul mate connection, unconditional love and trust is just not neil' responsibility but as much avni's responsibility in this relationship.

if both cannot provide these equally it is better that they move on for their own individual purpose in their lives.

show is going to end within few weeks as avNeil fans who have been watching the show for one year deserve to see their happy ending with each other

Originally posted by: delhigirl

i agree that Neil khanna does not need mitali or another girl to move on.

but i disagree that Neil khanna needs to realize that he needs to move on to move on with avni.

neil khanna needs to move on just for himeslf first and find a purpose exclusively for himself just like that police oficer that he was

whether they can move back to each other or not will require both to find a middle ground. Even avni needs to reslize that whether she needs neil or not in her life.

she needs to actively get over her own insecurities and whether she can trust him as a life partner.

Hello I am the silent reader. But I would like to share my views . I have posted my same view on another post also. But would repeat here also