Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil
Why Avni gets a free pass when it come to handle relationship and it's all Neil's responsibility? From day1 he's the one holding it together.
Avni is not the only one scarred with past. This guy was madly in love with a girl, saw her dying, mourned her, moved on with another girl who seemed to be out of his reach and had to go through trauma of dead girl being alive, on top of fear that he has fathered a child and might lose his wife. What worst is who he thought was his OTL did the same to him and this time he actually has a child she hid. He lost his job, he lost a mother figure, he lost his wife, literally. It doesn't matter avni is alive, the trust and love is broken. What's worst is avni thinking Neil will take away the baby, who btw till yesterday called her didi. Wow, as if she can't insult Neil enough.
Honestly, the love story is over. The most apt ending would be both sharing custody of the kid and raise him together minus any love relationship cause obviously avni is ok without him. He would be too, and should be. It's time Neil Khanna stop running after mirage which only hurts him. He deserves better, and if love is hurting then move away from her.
Avni always gets free pass due to her past. An excuse that oh, she will be like this so others should compensate. It's her issue if despite being such support system around her she can't get over her childhood. And how can she, she had neela and she never valued her same way Aisha, a mother who never stood up for her did. If she don't want to get out of well then she should stay there and since she's happy, let her be. She's too selfish to care about others so why should others ruin her life.
Neil maybe wrong in ruining Mitalis life by agreeing to marry her but shouldn't he move on? Why should he wait for someone who's happy in her life? And it's not like Mitali is in some bubble like juhi who thinks neil will love her as much as he did for avni. Why should Neil wait for a girl who flip flopped so much- one moment she's crying in pain for Neil, another moment asking if they can patch up, other day asking Mitali to marry Neil cause they will be happy. Who the hell she thinks she is, when she will stop takinf decisions for him? How much more she can insult him?
Just let him be alone or marry whatever but don't unite these two. Avni is dead.
I don't want a custody battle. i want Avni to realize her mistake and telling Neil herself and asking for forgiveness
But why is everyone getting upset with Neil about a custody battle.
Avni has done the unforgivable of hiding his son from him and also with the thought of never letting Neil come to know of his existence. With this she has completely ruined this relationship.
Avni can never be excused for this. It is a no cross line. A hard stop in a relationship.
It was not like they had fought badly and divorced each other 10 years ago. Then i could even understand her hiding his son.
Here she created a drama and left him of her own accord, he suffered for 10 years.
And after reaching Kashid when she learnt of the pregnancy she conveniently chose to remain silent.
Whereas right then and there she should have contacted him secretly and told him.
Even if she had made a phone call to him, the whole world would not have come to know about her secret of being alive.
She conveniently went on living her life with her son in front of her whereas the child lived thinking he is an orphan.
No amount of defense for avni can repair this action of hers.
And again Neil is being victimised for taking a decision for his life, when avni has clearly moved on with the biggest lie and betrayal from her side.
I cannot support Avni until she truthfully goes and tells Neil about his son.
He deserves that much.
And if he comes to know about this from someone else, I support him in the battle to have a life with his son.
This is entirely avni's fault and she needs to fix it, not get a free pass for this action of hers
This action of her has left me so angry.
I am a mother and i have seen my husband telling my daughter that she came out of his tummy.
He so badly wants his daughter to feel that he gave birth to her.
and when she was younger she believed it because she would say to me - No i came out of daddy's tummy.
This can be the depth of a Father's feeling towards their children.
Avni's action is inexcusable
Edited by delhigirl - 7 years ago
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