CVs plz note:No truth should be required for Avneil Reconciliation - Page 3

Originally posted by: AgnesFan

It takes two to tango ! I agree to it . Both had to work out for this relationship . If they can't they can move on from each other but as AvNeil fans we want to see their happy ending . Both of them are at fault for what is happening at present . We can't say only Avni or only Neil is faulty . But whatever Neil is doing is only because of his rage . He is trying to move on as Avni has broken ties . It is definitely for his family but he is not becoming mahan by doing this . He can never be happy with Mitali and can never make his family happy . Did he ever think why she ran away or tried to listen to her . No . Everything he does is only driven by his rage . If he not so cares why should he buy the bracelet gifted to her ?

Has the bracelet scene bn shown yet?

Originally posted by: drbeth

He does care and he loves her. Just because he says he hates her doesn't mean he hates her for real.Sometimes you have to read between d lines.Sometimes you hv to feel d unspoken...which Avni clearly can't.Its like sometimes when you are angry on your siblings or parents you tell dem you hate dem...but do v really mean dt? No.Dts how its with Neil.Ders love hidden behind those 'hate' words.Avni just has to feel dt.

And Y does he get her bracelet back? Y did he go to search fr Mowgli? Because he still cares for Avni more dan anything.You see actions speak louder dan words.The guy just wants to be wanted, to be loved...he has always been dt simple to understand.

yes well Neil should also have read between the lines and tried to see if there is another reason why Avni ran away..she told him it was nit about them but about the family . The fact is Neil has not listened to a word she has told him since she has come back. She has asked for forgiveness many times ..she has told him to listen to get but he chases her away and tells her he will never forgive her and that he hates her . She had given him the choice to stay with her or move on. Because she wants him to live in the present . The truth is that Neil is not thinking rationally and he proposed to Mithali in anger after Avni broke the ms ...it was not to make his family happy or to make Mithali happy.. because then he could have done that a long time ago. Neil is not self sacrificial like Avni. I think people have been so in love with the old Neil Khanna that they want to look for positives with his actions now ...and would rather bash Avni. Therefore Neil needs something to help him see past that anger and acknowledge that he loves Avni and wants to forgive her and take her back. Remember Neil once said to Mowgli ...if we love someone a lot we need to forgive them.. so that line will be used. Because Neil knows and acknowledges that Avni went away to protect his family ...it's not about why she left. Rather it's about all tr hurt he endured. He's Also hurt becuade he felt while he was just existing she was living another new life, and the biggest hurt is that he feels she could actullay live being away from him because he can't be away from her. Even now with this Mithali wedding he can't stay away from Avni..so he has to come to this realization and he probably will when he feels like he's going to lose her again. I think all she has to do is to leave town and when he can't find her he'll go crazy..becuase he would not want to lose her again.

Originally posted by: drbeth

He does care and he loves her. Just because he says he hates her doesn't mean he hates her for real.Sometimes you have to read between d lines.Sometimes you hv to feel d unspoken...which Avni clearly can't.Its like sometimes when you are angry on your siblings or parents you tell dem you hate dem...but do v really mean dt? No.Dts how its with Neil.Ders love hidden behind those 'hate' words.Avni just has to feel dt.

And Y does he get her bracelet back? Y did he go to search fr Mowgli? Because he still cares for Avni more dan anything.You see actions speak louder dan words.The guy just wants to be wanted, to be loved...he has always been dt simple to understand.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes well Neil should also have read between the lines and tried to see if there is another reason why Avni ran away..she told him it was nit about them but about the family . The fact is Neil has not listened to a word she has told him since she has come back. She has asked for forgiveness many times ..she has told him to listen to get but he chases her away and tells her he will never forgive her and that he hates her . She had given him the choice to stay with her or move on. Because she wants him to live in the present . The truth is that Neil is not thinking rationally and he proposed to Mithali in anger after Avni broke the ms ...it was not to make his family happy or to make Mithali happy.. because then he could have done that a long time ago. Neil is not self sacrificial like Avni. I think people have been so in love with the old Neil Khanna that they want to look for positives with his actions now ...and would rather bash Avni. Therefore Neil needs something to help him see past that anger and acknowledge that he loves Avni and wants to forgive her and take her back. Remember Neil once said to Mowgli ...if we love someone a lot we need to forgive them.. so that line will be used. Because Neil knows and acknowledges that Avni went away to protect his family ...it's not about why she left. Rather it's about all tr hurt he endured. He's Also hurt becuade he felt while he was just existing she was living another new life, and the biggest hurt is that he feels she could actullay live being away from him because he can't be away from her. Even now with this Mithali wedding he can't stay away from Avni..so he has to come to this realization and he probably will when he feels like he's going to lose her again. I think all she has to do is to leave town and when he can't find her he'll go crazy..becuase he would not want to lose her again.

@Tapasi do you think Avni will try . Avni has never tried to get back to Neil at any point in this show . So this time too the case will be the same . She wants to keep Mowgli with her irrespective of whether Neil is ready to listen to her or not . So expecting something from her is like writing in water . It will be Neil taking the first step even this time . I wonder for what choti Avni has come . But we can't ignore that Neil is driven by mad rage and he has to realise that only he can love Avni even if he is unable to forgive her .

Originally posted by: drbeth

I hv d exact same opinion abt people justifying Avni's actions.They have been so in love wid d character dt they can't see her faults.

I accept Neil's decision to marry Mitali is rushed and irrational and is unjust to Mitali.But nobody seems to accept Avni's fault.

Only people who hv lost someone they love would understand what Neil went through those 10 painful years dt was Avni's gift to him.I remember a lady wrote to SP how she could relate to Neil's pain.Only people like her can feel it.Now imagine the person you have mourned for 10 long years comes back and tells you she faked it all.How devastating it must be to know dt one you loved intentionally made you suffer.She was alive and yet let him believe dt she was dead.Imagine how much betrayed one feels that your love didn't trust you enough.

And in Avni's own wise words to Mitali...if you try hard enough...Neil's anger will melt away.Y doesn't dis apply to Avni??

And isn't Neil worth Avni? Y should it always be d guy who chases d girl.

If both belong to each other and if both love each other...they should both try to get back to each other.

Avni has a lot of faults ...she's impulsive makes rash decisions with disregards for the law and most of all she does nit fight for the man she loves because she's always sacrificing her happiness for others and she's a tubelight when it comes to love ...but remember Neil loves her for what she is ...faults and all. So unless Avni goes through the some remarkable self realization...we are not going to see her run after Neil or do more than what she's done already. Becuase that's how her character has been written,.So their reunion is going to depend on the involvement of other side characters or Neil .

Originally posted by: AgnesFan

@Tapasi do you think Avni will try . Avni has never tried to get back to Neil at any point in this show . So this time too the case will be the same . She wants to keep Mowgli with her irrespective of whether Neil is ready to listen to her or not . So expecting something from her is like writing in water . It will be Neil taking the first step even this time . I wonder for what choti Avni has come . But we can't ignore that Neil is driven by mad rage and he has to realise that only he can love Avni even if he is unable to forgive her .

Originally posted by: drbeth

Exactly Sri.

I hv no hopes frm Avni.Neil is a great guy.Yes he may not be perfect like we thought...but still...he deserves to be loved and wanted .But alas its never going to happen.I know he will have to be d one to go after Avni yet again.He will have to chase her.He will have to be d one to say sorry. He will be d one to beg Avni to stay back.How sad is dt.

I dnt watch d show anymore but I came across dt scene of Avni and Mowgli.Avni again lied to him about his father.Lying to an innocent child.Dnt knw wht to say.

Shocking. In youtube, videos are shown and in some other site that is said that Neil will fight for Mowgli in court. If it happens, it will totally spoil Neil's character..