A friend - lover relationship is an interpersonal relationship involving simultaneous or alternating emotions of love and friendshipsomething particularly common when emotions are intense! Such a friend cum spouse relationship has been linked to the occurrence of emotional ambivalence in that relationship! The conflicting responses in different emotional circumstances within the same person, or in the inevitable co-existence of a couple who experiences the conflicts with the object of love, will take a relationship to such a contradictory level where there is only confusion, nothing else !if we call it as cheating or selfishness or immoral in the case of a female [ Pooja ] lust, or a strong desire to prove his ability in lovemaking, to satisfy his ego . or a sort of arrogance in coveting other person's passionate possession! The husband and wife relationship is termed as the most possessive one in all human relationships if something different happens, the action or reaction will be ruthless!
An excellent analysis by Shrithi in a commendable way and I respect all members' worthy opinions.