If you were pooja....

So i see majority of people bashing pooja for cheating on adi. I AGREE, CHEATING WAS DEFINITELY WRONG but imagine yourself in place of pooja. You are in love with your best friend and husband, whom you find really childish. You are not really happy in your marriage as it is more a relationship of best friends then husband and a wife. Then you met another guy who is more mature, understands you better, keeps you happy, has same interests as you. You fall for that guy. NOW WHAT WOULD YOU DO? Would you leave your husband with whom you arent happy with but he is also your childhood best friend whom you dont want to lose or would you leave the guy whom you love and is more happy with. You might also do the same thing as pooja. Be with your husband and your boyfriend both. I am really not justifying poojas wrong doing. What she did was wrong but maybe she was confused. Keep yourself at her place and think how would have you reacted.

I agree its tough

and pooja is human, humans make mistakes

maybe she didnt want to divorce adi but at the same time didnt want to lose yash

its not right, but it was the easy way

sometimes people choose easy way over the right way.
Pooja did just that

Falling in love outside marriage is not wrong. Love is a feeling that cannot be controlled but hiding it from your spouse is not less than a crime according to me.

Originally posted by: bugsbunny12

I agree its tough

and pooja is human, humans make mistakes

maybe she didnt want to divorce adi but at the same time didnt want to lose yash

its not right, but it was the easy way

sometimes people choose easy way over the right way.
Pooja did just that

did she knew that yash was married during their initial meetings? Did yash knew about her being married?

Once I'm sure that I can't work on my marriage to make it work then I'd tell my husband the truth that it's best to part ways. See, marriages do not necessarily happen between similar people. Monica met her Male version in one of the episodes of friends. She told Chandler that he's th love of her life. It doesn't matter who and what kind of person the other guy is. Monica had attained that kind of stability in her relationship. Aditya Pooja lacked that. As a spouse, both Aditya and Zoya didn't understand their other half much. That doesn't justify the cheating But none of the two even tried seeing the other side of the picture. They lived in a bubble and when that got burst, their world also shattered quite obviously.

relationships are delicate for sure .

I have many people who have openly been in polygamous relationships but the fact is they are OPEN about it. Thus its not cheating. Its natural to be attracted to other people even if you are in a committed relationship. But you have to be honest and know that you cant just sleep with everything that moves. You have made a commitment and vow to someone. Pooja could have done more to communicate her feelings to Adi and what she felt was lacking in the marriage.

Adi is very handsome and kind ,even my dream i don't think any other boy except adi . I will become maya for adi love 😆

I think more than loosing her childhood friend she didn't want to lose the financial support coming from Adi.

Originally posted by: grumpydwarf

I have many people who have openly been in polygamous relationships but the fact is they are OPEN about it. Thus its not cheating. Its natural to be attracted to other people even if you are in a committed relationship. But you have to be honest and know that you cant just sleep with everything that moves. You have made a commitment and vow to someone. Pooja could have done more to communicate her feelings to Adi and what she felt was lacking in the marriage.

Not everybody is monogamous. Monogamy is highly overrated imo. Though, people who are polygamous shall probably not get married or marry someone who agrees with their way or is polygamous too.