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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ianoconic.

I think more than loosing her childhood friend she didn't want to lose the financial support coming from Adi.

She was cheating not only her husband but her childhood friend as well so there is hardly anything that could justify that she was concerned for the friendship.
Not able to love her husband or falling for someone can be understood but she started having affair with someone else.
Those are actually weak humans who invented this human weakness stuff so that they can cover up their fault, their weak character strength in the name of human weakness.
She was a gutless coward who opted to keep her BF for love and husband for money.
If I were pooja I would rather walk out of such relationship which is not working than cheating on my husband who also happens to be my best friend. There are many couples who get divorce and still stay friends.
Loosing a friend is better than loosing your respect.


What? Financial supprt? Such buzzare assumptions 😆 Good God! Why do people always think women are mooching money off men. Aditya was a Pilot, not a Business man who was earning in billions. His Dad may be very rich but he is not. As for Pooja, she was a professional painter if I am not wrong and if she was a succesful one she might be earning as much as Aditya or more. Nowhere in the show have they shown Pooja as a materialistic person. It's just so easy to assume ki Ladki hai toh hogi Gold digger.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -BebaakBegum-


Not everybody is monogamous. Monogamy is highly overrated imo. Though, people who are polygamous shall probably not get married or marry someone who agrees with their way or is polygamous too.


As I said I have known many people in polygamous relationships who were openly polygamous! It wrong because Pooja hid it.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Pooja was not a professional painter, infact she told ADI that she only paints for him not 4 world which turned out a lie.
Pooja very well knew yash's financial condition

Yes ADI may not be rich as his father but still was d heir of his property along with Arjun. Financially ADI was more stable than Yash who was bankrupt
Edited by deepikagupta9 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -BebaakBegum-


What? Financial supprt? Such buzzare assumptions 😆 Good God! Why do people always think women are mooching money off men. Aditya was a Pilot, not a Business man who was earning in billions. His Dad may be very rich but he is not. As for Pooja, she was a professional painter if I am not wrong and if she was a succesful one she might be earning as much as Aditya or more. Nowhere in the show have they shown Pooja as a materialistic person. It's just so easy to assume ki Ladki hai toh hogi Gold digger.

What else was her for greater good reason to stay with her husband when she was so unhappy with her husband. She took adi's money to give to her BF and you say it was not about money.
Just for you to understand, here I am talking about Pooja. I am not generalizing I am myself a girl but I'm not one of those silly feminist who get their blood boiling the moment they here ladki. No one is perfect be it girl or boy. I'm neither gender biased nor one of those who weights everything with respect to gender. But then I don't hold high expectations from you to understand that so its ok. You stated your views and I'm stating mine. I don't agree to yours and you don't have to agree to mine either.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Pooja was not a professional painter, infact she told ADI that she only paints for him not 4 world which turned out a lie.

Pooja very well knew yash's financial condition

Yes ADI may not be rich as his father but still was d heir of his property along with Arjun. Financially ADI was more stable than Yash who was bankrupt

Agree with you here totally.
Seems like you follow show closely and you are good on your memory too.😊

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ianoconic.


What else was her for greater good reason to stay with her husband when she was so unhappy with her husband. She took adi's money to give to her BF and you say it was not about money.
Just for you to understand, here I am talking about Pooja. I am not generalizing I am myself a girl but I'm not one of those silly feminist who get their blood boiling the moment they here ladki. No one is perfect be it girl or boy. I'm neither gender biased nor one of those who weights everything with respect to gender. But then I don't hold high expectations from you to understand that so its ok. You stated your views and I'm stating mine. I don't agree to yours and you don't have to agree to mine either.


Firstly, It doesn't matter whether the POV comes from a Girl or a Boy. Rationality matters, not the sex.
Secondly, Financial support and Love are not the only two reasons for anyone to stay married. There can be many reasons. We don't even know as yet if she cheated or not. Very premature to start the blame game. Falling in love with someone else whilst being married is not wrong, acting upon it is certainly wrong. Many people stay married simply coz the families wouldn't like the family to break, many due to kids and many coz they don't know if divorce is even the right answer. There are partners who separate but never take divorce. If only Relationships were simple mathematical equation.

Thirdly and most importantly, Like I said It is easier to put it on a woman(since there are plenty women who don't work) that she's after someone's money. If she really wanted money that she'd have gone for a guy wealtheir than the Hoodas. Also, the dig you took about the feminist thing- Not untrue since I do see many women and men doing that but rationality supersedes all.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Things in real life are not as easy as tv shows there are too many people's emotions are involved.people continue their relationship thinking that eventually everything will be fine with time but only few people take strong desician
Edited by ERA. - 7 years ago

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