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Posted: 7 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: ronshaan

husband has full rights on his wife n her body, if she does this abortion without even asking him she is wrong. maybe her body but after marriage, it belongs to her husband and she can not go and end her pregnancy


Well I'm not trying to disrespect you u r elder than me u know more than me but I don't understand it.I know it's wrong to abort a baby without your husband's consent but""her body belongs to him""...he has right over her body but is it belongs to him???
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ronshaan

husband has full rights on his wife n her body, if she does this abortion without even asking him she is wrong. maybe her body but after marriage, it belongs to her husband and she can not go and end her pregnancy

a woman's body belongs to herself and nobody else. This thinking of 'husban has full right on wife's body' is the reason why marital rape is not considered a rape in indian society.
The husband has the right to know about the baby and yes ahana made a blunder by not letting him know but anant has no right over her body unless she gives him her consent.
Wife is not a property owned by husband. She is an individual who has the capability to think and make a decision of her own whether it is right or wrong.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: eufara_naghm


Well I'm not trying to disrespect you u r elder than me u know more than me but I don't understand it.I know it's wrong to abort a baby without your husband's consent but""her body belongs to him""...he has right over her body but is it belongs to him???


im saying, after marriage, wife is belong to husband isn't she?
so decisions made on her should b discussed with her husband too

why people marry tell me?

marriage means she is his he is hers, if she doesnt ask him or just decide for herself.
then why she MARRIED him?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

a woman's body belongs to herself and nobody else. This thinking of 'husban has full right on wife's body' is the reason why marital rape is not considered a rape in indian society.
The husband has the right to know about the baby and yes ahana made a blunder by not letting him know but anant has no right over her body unless she gives him her consent.
Wife is not a property owned by husband. She is an individual who has the capability to think and make a decision of her own whether it is right or wrong.


who agreed to marital rape? in india maybe this is allowed but other places it is not.
when a girl marries a man, her father gives her to her husband , what does it mean? means he is her husband the one who is taking care of her, she is not orphan she has husband, if a kid does something without asking his parents, just goes and does it, why parents get angry why u did this without asking us, same she can not decide for this pregnancy on her own, im sorry to say this but it belongs to her husband too, this is not only what she created alone, he was part of it, at least tell him
im not saying she is an object and husband must play with her but im saying she is not alone either, people think oh this is my body ill do whatever i want with it, who cares about husbadn, ill go have tatoo ill go donate my kidney ill go do this and do that, who is the husband, its not his why would he mind anyway?

point here is not her pregnancy and rights, it is why husband is needed if woman can make this decisions on her own, go have baby from some Donner and it will be hers only, no one else will have right to decide for that baby, but she got married and she must ask what she does.

ill take the most simple thing person can do.
she can not just go somewhere without asking isn't she?
marriage is a joke now a days that's why people think that woman can do whatever she wants with the baby, keep it, abort it. its her choice,
why man is needed?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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marital rape is not accepted here, man who rape his wife is wrong, man who beat his wife is wrong, woman must be respected, but today im talking about man rights, his wife wasn't orphan
Yes
they fight, they argue he is angry, everyone against her,
what if it was progressing pregnancy like 6-8 months and she wasn;t living with her husband, sometimes happens na, people fight, stay away and she is pregnant, shoudl this baby die? and pay for this?

after 9 months she might think, Oh... i could be mother now ,
ofcorse after 9 months story will be different, he might love her he might be better husband, kids might love her, so regret would have been, I wish i didn't kill my baby, or else, he would have been born and would have been here with us.

woman do regret,
they might act like they didn't care but regret does come.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ronshaan

many of you think it is fine to abort unwanted baby, Ok i get it.

but tomorow when she will want her own kids. she will suffer and try again n again
there is a saying, the one who gets, kills it, the one who doesnt, wants it.
sad fact but i bet, when she thinks she is ready or she thinks he think she is ready
they will try many times and suffer, she will realize, killer her 1st baby was her biggest mistake ever.

what maturity is in this abortion, i take it as rush decision, why when she went to hospital, none checked her to see if she can go thru it, nor anyone asked husband approve for this abortion.
she wanted to end this pregnancy she came she did, what was the point telling him if she couldn't tell him the 1st place. but she told and now what, beg for his love and again stay alone in her own room praying for him to accept her back.

her being alone, will open doors for new man in her life.



Who told u she can't have a baby later lol she can



LAW says only mother has the right to abort , father has no right
Why ? Well coz she's the one who's going to carry the child for 9 months and some mothers are not mentally prepared for it !!!

Contraceptive measures ? Well again failure rate is high !!! They do not give 100% protection
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Peeps don't even know about abortion and law and muh utha ke bol rahe hai
According to LAW , Father's permission is not needed for abortion
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Posted: 7 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: MeDhakkanHu

Peeps don't even know about abortion and law and muh utha ke bol rahe hai

According to LAW , Father's permission is not needed for abortion

Well I like your bluntness
Kisine toh kuch keh hi diya
Are karne do unhe jo karna hay
Kuch dino me ye show band ho jayega
Star plus can't handle these types of shows
So MOVE ON!!
Edited by eufara_naghm - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: MeDhakkanHu



Who told u she can't have a baby later lol she can



LAW says only mother has the right to abort , father has no right
Why ? Well coz she's the one who's going to carry the child for 9 months and some mothers are not mentally prepared for it !!!

Contraceptive measures ? Well again failure rate is high !!! They do not give 100% protection


she got married to a man, he has right to decide for this baby future, she stole that right by saying im the mother ill carry it 9 months, if all decisions she has to make, why she married in trhe 1st place, if husband is not even considered or ask for it.

can't have a baby or not.. that's only luck or GOD will decide.
sometimes punishment mil jati ha and people stuggle for a baby and then regret this action

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