Yes you are mother but he is the father

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sorry girl, but yes, you are the mom of this baby
but he is the father
you have no right to kill the baby without letting him know, also it is a sin to do this, you don;t know you will pay high price for it, it might be you won't have a baby again.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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kitni asani se log abortion karate hai apne baby ki, apni mother se itni nafrat karti ho, but at least your mother didn't kill you when you were in her womb, sad thing.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i really dont find any valid reason for ahana to get the child aborted and yeah afterall Anant is the father of the child and she should have consulted him .It shows the heights of immaturity. Infact would have been more acceptable that if she wanted to aborted the child as she doesn't want any additional responsibility for the time being. This type of so called goodness doesn't get me connected with the character as Anant always mentions that Ahana is so matured and she is not like other girls.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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true very true,
i think being alone, being blame every day, being hated by all at home, make her think, this is the best think to do. no guide no support.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanjana

i really dont find any valid reason for ahana to get the child aborted and yeah afterall Anant is the father of the child and she should have consulted him .It shows the heights of immaturity. Infact would have been more acceptable that if she wanted to aborted the child as she doesn't want any additional responsibility for the time being. This type of so called goodness doesn't get me connected with the character as Anant always mentions that Ahana is so matured and she is not like other girls.



Well we all know how well AM knows Ahana - that is, not well at all. In fact, he's only now realizing how little he knows his wife. Shana is very immature, the whole fiasco with her pregnancy attests to that. Totally illogical!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't feel abortion is a sin. Of course people are totally entitled to feel differently as this is a much debated issue. I feel what really is a sin is to give birth to a child and not being able to give him or her a proper environment. Abortion must be a responsible decision and done in a proper way that's all. A woman must have the right to decide if she wants to be a mother given that it is a huge responsibility and yes I feel women have the bigger say in this than men.
Yes, Ahana should have consulted Anant. However given the circumstances I feel sympathetic for her. A child is never the answer to save a marriage.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

I don't feel abortion is a sin. Of course people are totally entitled to feel differently as this is a much debated issue. I feel what really is a sin is to give birth to a child and not being able to give him or her a proper environment. Abortion must be a responsible decision and done in a proper way that's all. A woman must have the right to decide if she wants to be a mother given that it is a huge responsibility and yes I feel women have the bigger say in this than men.

Yes, Ahana should have consulted Anant. However given the circumstances I feel sympathetic for her. A child is never the answer to save a marriage.



I totally agree with what you said. However I do feel that Ahana hurried a bit to get the abortion. She could have waited a bit. It is a matter of a life, the life she thought Devima has given her to save her marriage. Other than that my total sympathy is with Ahana. Considering her age she tried to do everything to have a word with her husband but he always belittled her in front of the whole family. He always made her feel that her mistake is the end of the entire world for her. He couldn't find it in his heart to even give her a chance to even tell her story whatever that might have been. He forgot all those promises he made to her before, during and after the wedding. Anant is the only one who acted super immature here.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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A child is never the answer to a marriage. I will never condemn all abortion because circumstances are different. But I feel if Ahana was so firm on deciding to abort the baby she should have been equally firm on making more of an effort telling Anant about it.
Even after the letter got wet in the rain Anant asked her. It was Anant's carelessness the letter got wet in the rain. But Ahana knew she will abort if Anant did not give her a proper answer. So when he asked her she should have said something not stood there dumb, shaking her head. It's a baby. It's a life. She should have tried harder.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

I don't feel abortion is a sin. Of course people are totally entitled to feel differently as this is a much debated issue. I feel what really is a sin is to give birth to a child and not being able to give him or her a proper environment. Abortion must be a responsible decision and done in a proper way that's all. A woman must have the right to decide if she wants to be a mother given that it is a huge responsibility and yes I feel women have the bigger say in this than men.

Yes, Ahana should have consulted Anant. However given the circumstances I feel sympathetic for her. A child is never the answer to save a marriage.

i dont think abortion is a sin. Its better to abort the child in a loveless marriage than bring him into the world.
It is a common believe that if a couple is not getting along have a child and everything will be fine. Thats really messed up. One day or the other the problems b/w the couples will crop up again and the poor child will have to bare it all.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

I don't feel abortion is a sin. Of course people are totally entitled to feel differently as this is a much debated issue. I feel what really is a sin is to give birth to a child and not being able to give him or her a proper environment. Abortion must be a responsible decision and done in a proper way that's all. A woman must have the right to decide if she wants to be a mother given that it is a huge responsibility and yes I feel women have the bigger say in this than men.

Yes, Ahana should have consulted Anant. However given the circumstances I feel sympathetic for her. A child is never the answer to save a marriage.


Yes child is not an answer to save a marriage but the day he will know she didn't keep his baby he will hate her more and the distance will get more n more
maybe she has more right on this baby but she should have asked him
because if she would know he would care for it and feel hurt, she will feel hurt why i did this actually?

killing a unborn baby is not a sin then what is it?
can a woman kill it after it was born and say i don't want, no she can't because he is there and she can not be a killer but because she can't see it, its ok to end his life? realy

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