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Spnfan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: ronshaan

Yes child is not an answer to save a marriage but the day he will know she didn't keep his baby he will hate her more and the distance will get more n more
maybe she has more right on this baby but she should have asked him
because if she would know he would care for it and feel hurt, she will feel hurt why i did this actually?

killing a unborn baby is not a sin then what is it?
can a woman kill it after it was born and say i don't want, no she can't because he is there and she can not be a killer but because she can't see it, its ok to end his life? realy

there is a huge difference b/w a fetus and a baby. There is a reason why abortion is a legal procedure in most of the countries.

Like laila said one day or the other ahana is gonna realize the blunder she did by getting married to anant. So either they will get divorced or like mother sge will also cheat on anant. The one who is gonna suffer in b/w all these is the child. Both anant and ahana dont understand each other and till now all ahana does is adjust to anant's need and life style. They both are no way in a position ro have a child in this relationship.

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Ron

@ronshaan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Sorry to say but if this baby was born and both husband wife fight

will she / he kill him / her just because of stupid fights?

sorry to say i feel it wrong, this baby is innocent and was killed with no crime

she wasn't raped nor wasnt forced into having kids, nor her husband is bad.

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Ron

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

i felt sad seeing her decision, yes you fight with your husband, in anger he said whatever he said, what you did? took rush decisions, oh come on, wanted to deliver msg? what happened to whatsup msgs what happened to sms what happened to say it out.

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sahira kabir

@eufara_naghm

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Well it's not like it is a completely right or a completely wrong decision

Ahana did what she thought was good Anant is doing what he's thinking is right...

But I think in the relationship Anant should be the matured one he should understand things like a mature person but he's not acting logically

Ahana is in depression...she's not in her right frame of mind so can't totally blame her...

But she should've tried more to tell Anant about it...

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Spnfan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: ronshaan
Sorry to say but if this baby was born and both husband wife fight
will she / he kill him / her just because of stupid fights?
sorry to say i feel it wrong, this baby is innocent and was killed with no crime
she wasn't raped nor wasnt forced into having kids, nor her husband is bad.

these are not the only reason for abortion. Many couples opt for abortion because they are not ready for a family and some does it because they are not financially stable to look after a child and many more reason. Even in india abortion is a legal procedure.

Like everything else decision for abortion is also not black and white.

Aborting the child shows the maturity level of ahana which anant clearly never saw. She was always impulsive. He is a 50+ year old guy and should stop having high expectation and maturity from a 23-24 year old wife. He already saw the consequences of not giving her a chance. He is doing that again. He never gives her a chance to talk and explain herself. He just directly goes into blaming everything on ahana.

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Shreya

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Posted: 7 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ronshaan
Yes child is not an answer to save a marriage but the day he will know she didn't keep his baby he will hate her more and the distance will get more n more
maybe she has more right on this baby but she should have asked him
because if she would know he would care for it and feel hurt, she will feel hurt why i did this actually?

killing a unborn baby is not a sin then what is it?
can a woman kill it after it was born and say i don't want, no she can't because he is there and she can not be a killer but because she can't see it, its ok to end his life? realy

Once again your stand is a personal stand based on your principles. It's not right I feel to impose this on others.

In a world where the growing population is more of a problem than we can imagine, this doesn't really help. There are people who even believe contraception is a sin.

Ahana didn't kill a baby. What she did was legal and safe. Out of context perhaps, but are you aware that illegal abortions are one of the leading causes of maternal deaths in India?

So coming to the point, it's okay if you are personally against abortion but abortion is not equivalent to killing a child. Like spnfan said, there are many reasons for it. It may simply be because the person isn't ready or because they got pregnant by mistake and that is completely fine. It is not a sin. Thats why there is the MTP act. So that people make responsible decisions.

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Ron

@ronshaan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#17

many of you think it is fine to abort unwanted baby, Ok i get it.

but tomorow when she will want her own kids. she will suffer and try again n again

there is a saying, the one who gets, kills it, the one who doesnt, wants it.

sad fact but i bet, when she thinks she is ready or she thinks he think she is ready

they will try many times and suffer, she will realize, killer her 1st baby was her biggest mistake ever.

what maturity is in this abortion, i take it as rush decision, why when she went to hospital, none checked her to see if she can go thru it, nor anyone asked husband approve for this abortion.

she wanted to end this pregnancy she came she did, what was the point telling him if she couldn't tell him the 1st place. but she told and now what, beg for his love and again stay alone in her own room praying for him to accept her back.

her being alone, will open doors for new man in her life.

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Spnfan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: ronshaan
many of you think it is fine to abort unwanted baby, Ok i get it.
but tomorow when she will want her own kids. she will suffer and try again n again
there is a saying, the one who gets, kills it, the one who doesnt, wants it.
sad fact but i bet, when she thinks she is ready or she thinks he think she is ready
they will try many times and suffer, she will realize, killer her 1st baby was her biggest mistake ever.

what maturity is in this abortion, i take it as rush decision, why when she went to hospital, none checked her to see if she can go thru it, nor anyone asked husband approve for this abortion.
she wanted to end this pregnancy she came she did, what was the point telling him if she couldn't tell him the 1st place. but she told and now what, beg for his love and again stay alone in her own room praying for him to accept her back.

her being alone, will open doors for new man in her life.

its a myth that if a woman aborts a child she will have difficulties having another. getting pregnant or not getting pregnant mainly depends on the woman and her partner's health. also if abortion was such a damage to a woman's body then abortion wont be a legal procedure and there won't be abortion pills freely available in the market. there are people who will get pregnant after an abortion and there are people who are having difficulties having a baby. it all depends on their mental and physical health.

my grandmother had an abortion but ended up having 5 kids and that too at a time when medical field wasn't even half as advanced as now. my aunt had an abortion due to health issue and now she has 2 children.

ahana's biggest mistake ever is getting married to anant and not the abortion. also in the original storyline, she will get pregnant again with rehaan's child so she has no difficulties getting pregnant again.

what i meant in my last post about ahana's maturity is she is not matured enough for marriage to an older guy or to have children. both her decision to marry anant and to abort was impulsive. the entire story is based on her impulsive decisions and actions without thinking of the consequences and how its gonna destroy her and people around her.

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Ron

@ronshaan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#19

you know i was discussing this topic with a friend. she was supporting this as you all did

but i ask, what rights has the husband on his wife, if it is her body then what is husband for in this marriage? they have rights on this baby that's why husband should have agreed to go thru it but he never knew.

now i understand why people cheat, because even they get marry

they think and believe,

this is my body, ill do with it whatever i want.

why need husband anyway if he has no right on his wife's body?

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Ron

@ronshaan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#20

husband has full rights on his wife n her body, if she does this abortion without even asking him she is wrong. maybe her body but after marriage, it belongs to her husband and she can not go and end her pregnancy

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