When love is a drag ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: lighthouse

It means you need to get away from that person as soon as you drive them to a psych...

more later..

Originally posted by: raj5000

All rosy rosy when fallen in love fresh, slowly things unfold weakneses come out, compatibility takes it toll and disagreement occurs.

Fine kich pich once in a while is fine, but turns out to be every hour event, still there is some force that makes the bond tight.Neither one is ready to understand and realizes there is some major issue, still continues...for years and years...Some just understands and make adjustments, atleast they enjoy days of fun time and essence of love.

I agree nok jhok adds to value to relationship, but in the as mentioned above I mean there is no end to it still people continue...

Questions is (most cases) : at first moment of understanding(not realizing) that there is problem why cann't guy or the gal make a tough call and say it's over when neither party is gonna step down on uncompatibility issues?[/quote]

They're masochist's, that's why. 🤡

On a more serious note, some people like the security of having someone. Feeling obligated when they've been together for so long. If children are involved there's that "I can't leave him/her because of the kids. What would the impact be on the kids?"

There are various reasons why a person stays with someone. Not all of them makes even the ounce of sense to anyone but that person.

Do you mean:

"I love you but I'm not in love with you?"

It means I like you and I'm very fond of you, you're my best friend but that's all you're gonna be i.e. there is not going to be a relationship of the romance variety.

(when I say I or you I don't mean me or you, I mean persons in general that go through this exchange.)

This type of situation usually comes up when one confesses that they are in love with someone they are very close with and the person who gets confessed to says that they just don't feel the same way.

Originally posted by: *Jane*

They're masochist's, that's why. 🤡

On a more serious note, some people like the security of having someone. Feeling obligated when they've been together for so long. If children are involved there's that "I can't leave him/her because of the kids. What would the impact be on the kids?"

There are various reasons why a person stays with someone. Not all of them makes even the ounce of sense to anyone but that person.

i typed up a long post but somehow managed to lose. accidentally hit "clear form" instead of "post reply"😭

Originally posted by: rockstallion

i thought about that 'i love u but i dont love u.... thing soo much, i dont' get it why someone would say that, 😕

In a similar angle, also hanging on 'line of control in love' is when a lover says, 'i hate you' when he/she is madly in love.
now that's said to show flowing out love...and blah blah....
i hate you ..i hate you.. i hate you, and follows an intense song in movies..... 😛
so if someone ever said that love you don't love you thing, why not apply the rule of positivity, and go with the former part of sentence....than taking the jillebi attitude. 😊

i think raj meant....i love u but i'm not in love with u😊

read RTH and Jane's views. they explained it beautifully😊

...on i hate u, i hate u, i hate u.....well, one more reason not have sharia law😛 kabhi "hate u" ki bajaye "talaaq" bol diya gussey mein toh gayee bhains pani mein😆😆....j/k here. folks, please take it as a joke😊

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

i think raj meant....i love u but i'm not in love with u😊

read RTH and Jane's views. they explained it beautifully😊

...on i hate u, i hate u, i hate u.....well, one more reason not have sharia law😛 kabhi "hate u" ki bajaye "talaaq" bol diya gussey mein toh gayee bhains pani mein😆😆....j/k here. folks, please take it as a joke😊

i thought he said "i love you but i dont love you , what this means"

I felt, first concentrate on the actual line, 😕

now for the meaning of "I love you but i am not in love with you,"

i liked everyones post.. Jane and RTH's also.

my comments on the line - Its like u love your guy friends if you are a girl, and like loving girl friends if you are a guy. u love all ur girl friends, but are hooked up on just one.

like the line now would be -, 'i love u but i am in love with her"

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

couldn't have said it better lighty! 👏👏👏
oh.. and responding to the title, it also is a drag when you are in love with a man who dresses like a Queen 😉

😆 To some people, maybe, but personally I prefer it.😊 There's just something about a guy in a dress.😳