Well I was thinking to make a post on this since the Promo and Picnic day started.Thanks Aadhi for asking to make separate posts unlike commenting 😆 I think this is a post which none have discussed uptill now in the forum.Hope it is not too long to bore.😊
Rakesh Sir has time and again warned Naina to stay away from Sameer and Sameer not to even roam around Naina because according to him..He doesn't deserve Naina.
Don't we find this line coming true in times ahead.I think here is a point where a parent is right and love even if true is completely wrong.
But since we know both the sides of coin,there are points where Rakesh is Wrong and Right.
First coming to the point where he is Wrong
There is no single cause of parental misperceptions, but one place to start looking is in the mirror. As egocentric creatures, we see the world through the perspective we know bestour own. We have far more information about ourselves than we do about other people, and this influences our assumptions and judgments about the people we interact with every day, our offspring most definitely included.
Biology also plays a powerful role in parental bias. From an evolutionary perspective, we are compelled to reproduce to ensure that we pass our genetic line to future generations and avoid extinction. Our offspring represent a biological investment in our own futures, then, and we are driven to engage in strategic behavior to protect that investment.
So he knows Sameer belonging to a family of riches and broken relationships can never deserve Naina who is one of the successful investments of his.
Where He is Right
Indian culture and society places great importance on commitment for life, while youngsters are okay with flitting from one person to the other. This, according to most elders, is uncouth, immature, and undesirable.
Youngsters firmly believe that love can triumph over anything- financial disparities, cultural differences, religious tendencies, educational variations- you name it. Combining that with lack of commitment or adjustment obligations, relationships don't last after the novelty wears off. Parents see this, sometimes correctly, beforehand and hence oppose the short-term attraction.
Yes that's what atlest Sameer is now.Fickle in matters of love and for Naina what started as an attraction is going to land her in a heartbreak and shattered trust and dreams.Its a different thing how they would get back to each other but Rakesh is right in becoming ''Tayab Ali.''Atlest he could have saved his daughter from a heartbreak and perhaps from a solid jolt to Naina's foundation.
Feedbacks and criticism is appreciated for this post.😃
Edited by TereLiyeMINU - 8 years ago