The Balancing Act - Episode Dissection 28th Sept

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lo Ji..Aa gayi main detailed post on the episode 😳...
Lambi hai lekin padh lo chup chaap bas..πŸ˜†πŸ˜›
Bahut mehnat ki hai...plsss plsss plsss
Jisko sirf ek part padna ho wo select kar le kaunsa part depending on the scene as har part liye maine colour theme rakhi hai..πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
Har part ka colour alagπŸ˜³πŸ˜†
Kuch Rang Pyar Ke aise bhi πŸ˜‰


Roll, Camera, Sound, ACTION !! πŸ˜‰

Do you all know that thin line and big difference between Complete and Finish?
If you don't, watch yesterday's Sangeet episode for it got finished @10.00 pm yesterday and today it just got complete.😳 How many of you felt that? πŸ˜‰

Yes, I was disappointed yesterday with the Direction, never have I ever felt so in these 150 episodes what I felt yesterday 😲. Maybe it was not the makers but my expectations which disappointed me. But anyways, I like being positive and full of smile's so lets start with today's episode. πŸ˜³πŸ˜‰

Scene 1
So it started from where it ended yesterday.
Elena shouting at Vicky for he did something filthy and creepy. 😑

Highlights of the scene for me:
1. Asha telling Bijoy, Dev is going to Elena's rescue and teach Vicky a lesson. Small line but an important one. This lady is sensible. πŸ‘
She knew Bijoy could have done the damage. I say damage because his reaction would have focused on venting out his anger whereas situation demanded tactful handling. 😊
Asha on the other hand showed she trusts Dev and has already accepted him as a son (not just son-in-law). 😳

2. Dev pitching in to handle the situation -
a. Let's give it to Ishwari for once, she's given him a good upbringing, atleast in this
regard. πŸ‘This man is a gentleman and knows how to come to a woman's rescue.
He has a mother and three sisters and so he knows how to treat a woman with
dignity and what to do if someone plays with it. 😳
b. Vicky is his brother, this makes him even more "responsible" to check on his
actions and give him a treatment he requires.
Morals first, relationships..next please !! Am I seeing the future correctly and
smelling him to do the same with other relationships πŸ˜‰. I hope you all got what I
mean. 😳

c. He didn't over do it. We have seen his ugly, impulsive side but today he was
"balanced" knowing how much to do in that situation. πŸ‘
Anything less than that would have been too less and anything more than that at
this moment would have made things go worse. 😳

d. Yes, Vicky has not been taught the right lesson, but he will very soon. Dev has
got an indication. Due to the function, he did the minimum; i.e. making a start
but also avoid overdoing it in front of others looking at the situation. πŸ‘πŸ‘

e. He said sorry to Elena on behalf of Vicky. One more time - "Pata nahi kyu main
baar baar aisi situation mein padh jata hu, mujhe maafi maangni padhti hai".
That sorry was required to tell his family, yes Vicky did wrong and we should be
ashamed and embarrassed of what he did. 😑

f. They all were either statues or like "how dare the ladki wale" did this to our so
till now.

3. Here comes Sona - Yes dear, I liked how you pitched in and asked your sister if she's fine. A girl can understand how important it was to ask this at this moment. πŸ˜ƒ

4. Radha Rani - Today I wanna address her by her name and not as GKB🀒. I always have been taking her lightly. She says lot of indecent and stupid things but she was never harmful. Say whatever you want to say, it doesn't matter.
But today, oh lady..!! I don't want to ask if this is how a mother can be..I just won't coz Dhritrashtra (Mahabharat) has left us a very good example of how blind can a parent be in that "Moh"of their child. For the same reason I have never blamed Ishwari as a mother for her acts (Except forged signature).
But Is this how a woman should be? 😑
a. Wrong words "Ladkiwale", "sabke saamne koi aise baat karta hai kya", "sabke
saamne aise matak matak k naach rahi thi", "mere bete ne aisa kya kar diya"
WoW!!..Sabke saamne aise baat nahi kar sakte, naach nahi sakte, lekin wo kar
sakte hai jo Vicky ne kiya ya jo aap Sona Ke saath karti hai. πŸ‘πŸ‘ And still you
have the audacity to ask "mere bete ne aisa kya kar diya"😑😑
b. Thankfully, Dev addressed and answered to all these.
- She's a human before being a "ladki wale", Ladki wale ho ya ladke wale.. kisi ladki k
saath aise baat karega to mujhse bardaash nahi hoga πŸ‘πŸ‘
- Everyone else too is dancing and its sangeet lekin dance aur batameezi mein farak
hota hai

c. Reactions come in form of expressions - Bua Ji's nod - I agree πŸ‘, Mama ji -
I am ashamed , Radha Rani - You will pay for this 😲, Ishwari - I am not
concerned, all I know is, Dev is right 😲

Note: Pls mamaji..Pls pls..Not just ashamed..Do something..I want that action from you ...plsss

d. Sona again pitching in - Yes, I wanted that. For I wanted you to tell that even in future if you do this to me or my family, Dev will support me but I will not sit
in the corner. I was observing from start, it went out of hands and I know ho
not to be a batameez but still get my point across.

e. Dev makes that closing statement - Lets continue for now and continue
with the main event

Dear Dev, I always loved you...Today I wanna say...
I love you as a woman loves a man
❀️

5. Shameful woman again - This time to instigate her son even more and tell him your silence is not good, Do something and do something dreadful for which there cannot be any sorry later.😑


Scene 2 -
Dev and Sona --Aahhh...Here comes the moment that made Sangeet complete

Dev baby...Your last day of dropping Sona to her house. I'll miss your meetings outside the house😭 but pls do something inside the bedroom πŸ˜†πŸ˜† and most importantly, show us what you do πŸ˜‰πŸ€£πŸ€£
That will make up for everything πŸ˜†

I loved Sona's attitude. Generally she gets upset at such things, today too she did. But we could see that changing later. I could see excitement and glow on a bride's face. She took the entire scene in a light manner for now. Border pe ladai literally it was πŸ˜†

Reminds me of one of my favourite songs: Panchii Nadiya pawan ke jhonke, Koi Sarhad Na inhe Roke, Sarhade Insaano K liye hai, Socho tumne aur maine kya paaya insaan ho k.😲😭

Since we know SR details, I was like baby leave bore, Ishu mom has done all arrangements to not even give you time to think that you are bored or what your are feeling...Sewa mein lag jao bas πŸ˜†πŸ˜†.

Border ke dono taraf not just Interesting but Complex Characters ..
All The Best Girl 😳
And Dev, again back to being a son - Time will soon show u you your mom's hidden talent. 😲
And Sona telling him.equality ka zamana hai πŸ˜‰ if your family is perfect..mine too is. 😳
I say - "Koi bhi Family perfect nahi hoti, Usse perfect banana padta hai"😳
Chori kiya dialgue πŸ˜†

Finally she made Dev smile. 😳
Observant she is, her own mood and her efforts got Dev to smile.

And Dev...he got the point..Hum saath hai, Isse badi koi baat nahi hai
Chalo sab jo jo Dev ko suna rahe the ...Chalo abhi k abhi maafi maango. πŸ˜†πŸ˜† Kitti baar bola hai bacha slow hai, ya fir hum fast hai πŸ˜‰..He does it a lil late but before the time is gone. ☺️
He's like that kid who does his holiday homework just 1 day before the teacher asks for it 🀣

The Dance - I will call it the Chhapri dance 🀣
Sadak pe apni hi duniya mein...no tension no worries..sab gaya tel lene, how does it matter if I am wearing Saurabh dada's size sherwani and you are wearing ordinary pink dress.
Humko to bas humara wala gaana chahiye..hum ussi mein khush hai 🀣
We are Devakshi - "Hum wo karenge jo humein pasand ho"πŸ˜‰πŸ˜³β˜ΊοΈ

aur wo jo Devakshians ko pagal kar de πŸ˜†

Dev asked for the dance, she couldn't say no music and so she gave her hands 😳
Tu mujh mein mujhse zyada hai ...the lyrics just go with them all the time and I got lost in that moment

Lekin uske baad
Main to ji apna gaana b add karugi - πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
Dev hai chocolate Boy,😳
Har kudiyo ka joy☺️
Meethi meethi baatein kar k puchhii le gaya
Dev tumhari bachelorhood the end ho gayi πŸ˜‰
Teri saari deewani pagal friend ban gayi πŸ˜†
Twitter pe hai trending saade Devakshi di wedding hai πŸ₯³
Long time se pending Devakshi ki wedding hai πŸ˜³πŸ˜†

That Last line from Sona just did another magic "We'll always stay Lovers first"



Scene 3 - Ishwari Niwas
Bua ji just doing her job..She knows she has been called for this only. And hitting with the right words. Her Words will make that impact more than content.😲
I won't talk about her much coz I trust her. She will give me more opportunities. πŸ˜‰πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

For now, she just proved people like her made that statement:
Bahu kabhi beti nahi ban sakti and just blamed Srishti for this niyam.
So easy to say and walk away..

Next scene between them
Wo ye lehnga pehnegi na?
Giving us indications she won't but I say be positive. Abhi nahi to Riya ki shaadi pe legi πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜‰




Scene at Bose House
My favourite family giving family goals πŸ€—
Cute family moments filled with just the right ingredients in the right matra😳

I remember when my sister was about to get married - my mom and dad said..she may leave the house but it will always be her first home. Her room will always be knows as "(her name) room". And they still continue to do that..πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜³

I can't say much what parents feel when daughters get married, for my mom tells me 100 times a day "jab khud maa banegi tab pata chalega". My current reaction is..dekhenge. But I know she's right. I have seen that with all girls 😳
Asha could have participated in that fun, but she did't for the same reason. She's a mother, a wonderful one πŸ€—

Coming to Bijoy.
Now when my sister got married, my dad cried for the first time. I had never seen him like that before. 😭
Remember?
My daddy strongest and tears make you weak.πŸ˜‰
For the first few minutes I thought e mere papa nahi ho sakte πŸ˜†
But then it grew. For one full year, every emotional scene he used to watch on tv or in real, he cried 😭. I was surprised, but life taught me another lesson. Father's might pretend to be very strong, but when their daughter leaves for the new house, their princess who will remain cute lil one for a lifetime, that strong man will cry his heart out. 😳

I will call Bijoy baba from now on... πŸ€—
All he's concerned about is his daughter..he can't help but just see her and what matters the most is her happiness.😳
And every father wants that promise from her daughter, any problem I am the solution for I will find one πŸ€—

Yes Sona, maaf kar diya hai Dev ko, batana nahi chahteπŸ˜†..Par kar diya hai specially after today 😳

Sweet cake moment ...I waited for another family hug but no worries, I am still smiling πŸ˜ƒ

The last conversation between Bijoy and Asha...
Awww...baba.πŸ€— Your daughter is looking the best bride. 😳
Trust me I have seen πŸ€—
Her pics are going viral 🀣
And I being a girl am also going crazy about her πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
But less then DevπŸ˜‰
Aap to bas Dev ko bachao hum sabse🀣 πŸ˜‰



Scene between Dev and Ishwari
Dev has decided he will be Happy for Sonakshi and will think about problems later. He doesn't disclose the real problem to her. We discussed this in our posts yesterday and I made a post why I support Dev in this.
Ishwari's concern was genuine. Her dialogues were just what mother-in-laws say. I never find her having an issue with Sonakshi. I have always said her problem is she herself.


The Rasam
You can't meet till the wedding 😳
They will ..I know πŸ˜‰πŸ˜† Maybe not meet but guess what? They have fones and they have Skype. Tina had put all apps in Sona's fone πŸ˜‰ and later Dev's fone too πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
That dialogue was said for that purpose only πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
And even more important dialogue by Riya...The most important she got till date 🀣
Apshagun or to not see and meet Sona..what will Dev Choose? πŸ˜‰
yes yes...we know...Go Dev GO πŸ˜†πŸ˜†




Precap -
Beautiful. One of the best precap till date ☺️
1. The song, the lyrics, the music - Just Perfect !! ☺️
Pyaar Mein Lipte kitne rang mile ...Yes yes we are seeing so many colors of love 😳
Dekhe kabhi wo rang jo kabhi na mile - And some which do not blend
2. Happy faces, haldi ka rang chad gaya 😳 and
Dev..Dhondu man!! Just Chill!!πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
3. Yellow colour (my favourite) - today being thursday, I too will wear yellow πŸ˜‰πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

My Reaction: Dev's dance before Sona's accident + Sona's dance after I need to know everything (episode 77)
Khud yaad kar lo πŸ˜†πŸ˜† coz Sorry I don't know how to attach GIF's



PS:
I tried to make a "Balanced" post, kuch serious kuch light. This word (Balance) is gonna be the most important and crucial one after friday for DevπŸ˜‰ ..aur main thehri #DevKiDeewani

2. Have you noticed again today, how we humans are?
When Dev was himself in the situation (Break-up track), he could not disassociate himself with the circumstances and reacted impulsively. He emotions overpowered his ability to think in right direction. Damage!!
And today, in Vicky Elena scene, because it happened with someone else, he knew what was right, was stable and kept emotions aside. Damage Control!
Thought of the Day: You either control the situation or it controls you.
Disclaimer: Conditions Apply!! 😳


Chalo ab batao...Kaisi lagi?? πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
Jo achha lag aur jo improve karna hai dono 😳
Balance you see πŸ˜‰πŸ˜†


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Posted: 8 years ago
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A beautiful take on a beautiful episode.πŸ‘
My personal favorite the Bose family scenes

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Posted: 8 years ago
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When someone start the post with a gem like
Do you all know that thin line and big difference between Complete and Finish?
If you don't, watch yesterday's Sangeet episode for it got finished @10.00 pm yesterday and today it just got complete.😳 How many of you felt that? πŸ˜‰

We know we are in for a treat. Amazing post and what die hard fans are we. One episode left us incomplete we were all over town and the CVs balance it out with the every next. When we watch the episodes back to back. The episodes are all pretty good. Problem I think is many started watching post confession and then watched the previous episodes back to back on youtube.

I started watching from the first episode and I feel the episodes still have their magic touch. if you can watch any scene twice , any episode more than once then I think we all know we got what we signed up for.

Amazing Post Diksha... Post wedding sequences also we need to trust Dev.
Edited by fanktlk - 8 years ago
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Brilliant post πŸ‘
Well written πŸ‘πŸΌ
Thanks for the beautiful post πŸ€—
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh Teri 😲😲

Diksha you are a wonder writer Girl πŸ‘ Morning I read your "Elena " post and now this!!😲😲

I felt like watching the episode all over again..such fine details of course laced with your fangirling πŸ˜† a delight to readπŸ‘πŸΌ. Straight from the heart post yaπŸ˜‰ The very beginning caught my attention when you mentioned about "Complete and Finish" πŸ‘πŸ‘

Ye lo no gif but attaching the "tu mujhme " video to increase your fangirl mode onπŸ˜†

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eaKiELDqVzw[/YOUTUBE]


Brilliant post dearπŸ‘ Keep them comingπŸ˜ƒ
Edited by deepsel - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thought of the Day: You either control the situation or it controls you.
Disclaimer: Conditions Apply!!


Fantastic lines. Truer words have never been spoken.

Fabulous post Diksha. Loved and thoroughly enjoyed every word.

On the run today so just taking a peek into the forum and posting one-liners.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You episode analysis is dissection, cross section, everything.>Wonderful analysis and post..
Yes, Loved Dev even more..today and everyday...

Sona's family is very much like mine..two sisters and a brother...It was hard to let go of the place I had called home for 22 years..But there comes a time when you can trust someone equally and move with them.

I am glad that Sona already knows the house and everyone in the family..

Its time to pack up the GKB family to their own house..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yaar... Main to tera jabra Fan hu geyi... πŸ˜† πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

What a beautiful post dear!!!!!!!
Truly amazing
Perfect balance analysis of the episode πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰
Just perfect post...
Not only this ur each n every r always very entertaining yet beautiful...
Ache hi post Hume Roz Roz dete rahu dear ji πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

Lastly on a serious note, mind blowing post πŸ‘ πŸ‘ πŸ‘
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Arey waah!

Yeh post amazing hai!

Aapne saare chotey chotey details ko yaad rakha!

Brilliant! πŸ‘

Aapke posts Ki baat hi Kuch aur hai!

And I agree with everything you said!

I can't wait to see Our #Devakshikishaadi !

And Mein Bhi aapke saath #DevkiDeewani team me hoon! πŸ˜†
Edited by Deepsikha_94 - 8 years ago
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How can i miss this one 😲
Beautiful analysis of the episode. Loved it 😊

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