Sayonara..!!! (Edited) - Page 8

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

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thank you so much people for the beautiful views, counter views, reasoning and perception.🤗
thank you to those who liked and appreciated my views and those too who held opposing views but didn't judge me.

there was a time when the memory loss track was on.
i held lot of harsh views that time too. so did others. we were termed bashers, negative nancies and lot many colourful stuff openly and behind our backs.
it pissed me off then.

but this time.. there is just sadness.
one with the harsh views are... judgemental; not respecting personal lives of actors, can't separate real and fiction, idiots and so on.
one with opposing views are .. blind, delusional, idiots, solo fans and so on.

and the saddest part is.. this coming from people you once called friends.
the ones you truly bonded with.
the ones who were your companion in this journey called swasan.

i checked all the SNS portals now... and that i see is .. Ashes.

since when did celebrities become more important than REAL people you called friends?
opposing views result into tearing each other off.
mocking.
ridicule.
sarcasm.
judgements.

people who call themselves my friends and yet judge me for my views.. i say then you were never a good friend to begin with.
because i will never judge you for yours.
because you are worth more than any celebrity or a fictional character to me.
and this is a general statement meant for everyone judging their friends.
little introspection please.

what truly saddens me is that i am quitting the forum on such a sad note.
i am truly sorry if my views regarding this entire murky issue of Varun and Vahe has hurt any of you.
heartfelt apologies.
Sorry!
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Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

thank you so much people for the beautiful views, counter views, reasoning and perception.🤗
thank you to those who liked and appreciated my views and those too who held opposing views but didn't judge me.

there was a time when the memory loss track was on.
i held lot of harsh views that time too. so did others. we were termed bashers, negative nancies and lot many colourful stuff openly and behind our backs.
it pissed me off then.

but this time.. there is just sadness.
one with the harsh views are... judgemental; not respecting personal lives of actors, can't separate real and fiction, idiots and so on.
one with opposing views are .. blind, delusional, idiots, solo fans and so on.

and the saddest part is.. this coming from people you once called friends.
the ones you truly bonded with.
the ones who were your companion in this journey called swasan.

i checked all the SNS portals now... and that i see is .. Ashes.

since when did celebrities become more important than REAL people you called friends?
opposing views result into tearing each other off.
mocking.
ridicule.
sarcasm.
judgements.

people who call themselves my friends and yet judge me for my views.. i say then you were never a good friend to begin with.
because i will never judge you for yours.
because you are worth more than any celebrity or a fictional character to me.
and this is a general statement meant for everyone judging their friends.
little introspection please.

what truly saddens me is that i am quitting the forum on such a sad note.
i am truly sorry if my views regarding this entire murky issue of Varun and Vahe has hurt any of you.
heartfelt apologies.
Sorry!

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

thank you nupur and shru for putting your points across so beautifully🤗

i don't mind opposing diverse views. infact i love them. gives me a different perspective.
debating, discussing, judging the opinions.
but i hate.. truly hating judging the person for having those opinions.

i am putting my views and doing so only because i feel you won't judge me for those.

here i go:

i do NOT care who Varun is buddies with. i really don't.
but i did not like the way the things have been going since GPA days. i voted only once for that. but have seen beautiful members losing their sleep over it and voting like crazy to make their OTP win. swasan win.
and were so happy when they did. all those people wanted in return was a Vahe interview thanking and appreciating their love and effort.
and the wait continued on and on.

yes we got gift segments and other few segments. am i the only one who thought those segments were terribly unsatisfactory?

and then the birthday segment.. the absolute last straw.
i have not seen his 'teju is my best buddy. stay off her' interview. i saw the birthday one.
people wanted to see vahe interview. if he was uncomfortable giving that one all he had to say is.. no.
but he made a buddy project out of it again. Tejasswi refused to come to it. he again requested her to join him and the entire interview was in your face 'we are best friends in the town' one.
like who the hell cares?
why are you making such a pomp and show out of it. haven't you already told people that before?
you don't want to give vahe say so.
it is heartbreaking to see people still requesting vahe interview.

helly always sells vahe.
tejasswi and namish sells temish.
and varun has been avoiding the fact the he is a half of the product called swasan. and he has some responsibility towards it.
doing a great job on screen is not enough in this era of intense SNS.
he is not asked by the media outlets for interviews because he is a wonderful actor (he is). there are dime a dozen serials around and jodis.
yet media chases him because... people want to hear him.
why?
because he is varun kapoor..
no!
because he is sanskaar for them. half of swasan.
and him being so dismissive towards swasan is frankly speaking.. unprofessional.
even karan patel; the true bad guy of tele land; is not THIS dismissive towards ishra when he doesn't share good vibes with divyanka.

and the fact that his spouse makes mocking and 'i hate swasan' comments on social networking sites doesn't help.
letting your family members talk about your professional equations is.. unprofessional.

we can pick and chose our friends. varun can too.
but what varun can't is .. getting down to the level of the fans and act immature.
you are uncomfortable with certain someone.. say no to the interviews. that is it.
and keep your family out of your professional equations.

fans too are going WAY overboard. give the actors a break.
or take a break yourself.

and for godsakes don't lynch your own friends for the celebrities who don't know you exist.
judge the opinions. NOT the ones who own those opinions.

proofs?
we being in virtual world; drooling over fictional characters, talking about a fictional show, getting attached to the celebrities who are unaware of our existence, spending our time and effort to make them win, write stories, making edits... all these are ..EMOTIONS & FEELS.

do we really need proofs and alibis for those?
then why for this?

varun made sanskaar come alive. NOTHING can take this away from him.
but he has changed from what he was.
doesn't affect me in anyways but was disappointing to see the disappointment all around.

my pov: the entire birthday segment was high school juvenile act.
can't cheer for the one who was part of it.
too bad it happens to be varun.

i am terribly sorry if i am hurting anyone with my views.

i was supposed to check pms but out of habit landed in the forum again.
i guess i need to get off from IF all together to get out of my negative energies.
so taking a complete break.

bigs hugs all around.
and heartfelt apologies for my harsh views.

take care of yourselves.
nothing is worth hurting yourselves and your close ones over.

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

thank you nupur and shru for putting your points across so beautifully🤗

i don't mind opposing diverse views. infact i love them. gives me a different perspective.
debating, discussing, judging the opinions.
but i hate.. truly hating judging the person for having those opinions.

i am putting my views and doing so only because i feel you won't judge me for those.

here i go:

i do NOT care who Varun is buddies with. i really don't.
but i did not like the way the things have been going since GPA days. i voted only once for that. but have seen beautiful members losing their sleep over it and voting like crazy to make their OTP win. swasan win.
and were so happy when they did. all those people wanted in return was a Vahe interview thanking and appreciating their love and effort.
and the wait continued on and on.

yes we got gift segments and other few segments. am i the only one who thought those segments were terribly unsatisfactory?

and then the birthday segment.. the absolute last straw.
i have not seen his 'teju is my best buddy. stay off her' interview. i saw the birthday one.
people wanted to see vahe interview. if he was uncomfortable giving that one all he had to say is.. no.
but he made a buddy project out of it again. Tejasswi refused to come to it. he again requested her to join him and the entire interview was in your face 'we are best friends in the town' one.
like who the hell cares?
why are you making such a pomp and show out of it. haven't you already told people that before?
you don't want to give vahe say so.
it is heartbreaking to see people still requesting vahe interview.

helly always sells vahe.
tejasswi and namish sells temish.
and varun has been avoiding the fact the he is a half of the product called swasan. and he has some responsibility towards it.
doing a great job on screen is not enough in this era of intense SNS.
he is not asked by the media outlets for interviews because he is a wonderful actor (he is). there are dime a dozen serials around and jodis.
yet media chases him because... people want to hear him.
why?
because he is varun kapoor..
no!
because he is sanskaar for them. half of swasan.
and him being so dismissive towards swasan is frankly speaking.. unprofessional.
even karan patel; the true bad guy of tele land; is not THIS dismissive towards ishra when he doesn't share good vibes with divyanka.

and the fact that his spouse makes mocking and 'i hate swasan' comments on social networking sites doesn't help.
letting your family members talk about your professional equations is.. unprofessional.

we can pick and chose our friends. varun can too.
but what varun can't is .. getting down to the level of the fans and act immature.
you are uncomfortable with certain someone.. say no to the interviews. that is it.
and keep your family out of your professional equations.

fans too are going WAY overboard. give the actors a break.
or take a break yourself.

and for godsakes don't lynch your own friends for the celebrities who don't know you exist.
judge the opinions. NOT the ones who own those opinions.

proofs?
we being in virtual world; drooling over fictional characters, talking about a fictional show, getting attached to the celebrities who are unaware of our existence, spending our time and effort to make them win, write stories, making edits... all these are ..EMOTIONS & FEELS.

do we really need proofs and alibis for those?
then why for this?

varun made sanskaar come alive. NOTHING can take this away from him.
but he has changed from what he was.
doesn't affect me in anyways but was disappointing to see the disappointment all around.

my pov: the entire birthday segment was high school juvenile act.
can't cheer for the one who was part of it.
too bad it happens to be varun.

i am terribly sorry if i am hurting anyone with my views.

i was supposed to check pms but out of habit landed in the forum again.
i guess i need to get off from IF all together to get out of my negative energies.
so taking a complete break.

bigs hugs all around.
and heartfelt apologies for my harsh views.

take care of yourselves.
nothing is worth hurting yourselves and your close ones over.

Originally posted by: tiny15

nimmi nice post

btw i m also not judging my fellow swasanains or frnds just bcoz they disagree wid me on this issue.

i'd liked urs posts & oders posts who r disagreeing wid u bcoz i really agree wid sum of the part & liked the way u r putting ur views.i'd liked ur post & also said that wat i think i disagree abt & why.same goes wid shruti or viji or oders post.

thank god i din't open any oder SNS portal apart from FB where i din't see any suhc thing where frnds r judging each oder.

btw from it 1 thing gets clear that sum1 wanted swasan FD 2 fight wid each oder 4 their own selfish purpose .so did this drama & spread such rumours & we gave them that happiness.

i don't mind off-screen bonding wid any1 actors want but it shudn't b fake or luk forced.but yes actors r answerable 2 fans also & shud handle things properly.here ppl only wanted VaHe IV .like sum1 said we don't want VK 2 ditch dhanya & hitch wid helly. so itna toh rite banta hai fans ka.

we mite not paying them but the name & fame they r earning is bcoz of fans only. no need 2 bring ur prsnl eqns here or let ur spouse 2 affect ur career. its going 2 cost them.and questions will b raised bcoz earlier same prsn says he was close 2 sum1else but now sum1else & its not theres fight btn them.

here i m not blaming VK 4 it.as i know why it happened & whos responsible 4 it. its so obvious & he got caught in it & its obvious he won't soil his prsnl life tho i wish he realizes hes wrong in handling it & shud ask his spouse 2 keep away from his prfsnl life & prsnl as wid whom he wants 2 b frnds not bcoz shes comfy wid or wants wid . bcoz such relations don't last longer how much u try 2 make it work. i've many such e.g in this TV land itself. wish whole of this mess sort out soon & ppl see the true faces of their so-called closest frnds & face the reality also.

PS -hopefully no1 start jumping on me i just said wat i came 2 know not from sum reporter or half baked info but reliable info & my own observn & experience.