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I felt bad for Ishwari while she was making the halwa for Dev with a childlike enthusiasm and I knew that Dev is not going to eat it. But I felt bad only upto the point till Dev refused to eat the halwa. .
It was clear that he so wanted to eat it, he still could sense that Ishwari made the halwa and was tempted enough to stop Bhola bhaiya twice before he asked him to take it away. Ishwari was seeing it all but she chose to stay hidden.
Had it been any other normal mother, she would have come out and said, "Beta I am sure one bowl of halwa won't make you fat and Even your Dr wont mind" or "I am disappointed that you are not eating it" , she chose to stay mum and sit in darkness waiting for him to come.
Even after that she did not say it directly, It was Dev who understood what the problem was.
I understand that every single parent is possessive about their children to an extent and they fear getting distant from their children. My own father has that streak of Ishwari in him, but he is quite vocal about it.. to me and my sister😆 and that helps me diffuse his emotions.😆
But, Ishwari is different. . First she doesn't express and communicate her real issues with Dev, hoping he understands it himself.
Dev is infact being unintentionally punished for being understanding as a child towards his mom. Since he always understood her plight, she expects him to do that always. Better to be blatantly ignorant since the beginning, atleast your mom would have told what exactly her problem is😆 She should seriously talk about it to Dev.
I remember one such conversation between Dev and Ishwari during Natasha track, where he talks about how she will always be the most important person of his life.
Second, Ishwari does not feel the same possessiveness towards Neha, Rhea or Nikki. Even when Neha went away, one mention of Dev and Ishwari forgot her.
There maybe two reasons from hiding the truth from Ishwari apart from giving his relationship some time,
Either he is blissfully unaware of how his mother would have a problem with Sonakshi for she has always liked her, even before Dev did and that she has always said that she is with him, in all his decisions.
Or he is subconsciously aware of her insecure tendencies and therefore avoiding the talk altogether till the right time comes.
Anyway, I can't sympathize much with Ishwari here but with Dev who will be placed in an unnecessary painful dilemma to chose between someone he worships and someone he loves.
But all my heart goes out to Sona, who will suffer great emotional pain with no fault of her own.
Ishwari has way too many unreal expectations from Dev, hence she is bound to be let down...even when Dev tries his best.
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