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Neha used to a more comfortable lifestyle is feeling the discomfort in her in laws. And asks Dev to send her AC and stuff creating difference of opinion between Ranbeer and Neha.
What is the moral of the story? You marry poor you get used to discomfort. You have no right to gifts from your parent's house.
This happend to Kinjal is Saath Nibhana Saathiya now to Neha.
As far as self respect goes the girls do not have one to speak of . No identity no right over their parent's house. No right to feel discomfort when compared to their parent's house.
And make her husband Ranveer to be more sensitive to her needs than full of self respect.
And Sonakshi the good samaritan cum counsellor stops Dev from sending gifts to Neha.
What is the moral of the story? You marry poor you get used to discomfort. You have no right to gifts from your parent's house.
Once you walk out of your house you are on your own. You married poor now bear with it.
This is the story repeated in serial after serial. Often these girls are shown as spoilt used to comfort and not able to adjust in their lifestyle.
This happend to Kinjal is Saath Nibhana Saathiya now to Neha.
The girls are stereotyped as vamps bad people who want the comforts of life They need to be taught a lesson. On being how to accept being poor and middle class for the sake of their pyaar. And how they lack the ability to be poor just because they are born rich
That is the "moral" of the story.
Neha could be problem kid. Dev is her brother . She cannot demand things of Dev like she would of her own father. It is about her husband's "self respect" She has a right to things from her parent's house. What has that got to do with her husband's self respect? She is no one to demand and receive stuff from her parent's house. If she does she is considered spoilt she should be "taught" a lesson "shown" the right path as to how she is now poor as per her husband' s status.
Yeh hain na ? Moral of the story? stereotyped moral of the story?
Now Dev is the only son let his mom be possessive. What is Sona? She is comparing Neha to a doll that "needs to be dressed up" in the way her sasural people choose to to make her feel their "apna"
Now she Neha has no right to miss the comforts of her maike. Has no right to ask and get things from her brother. Just because she is Ranveer's wife and his self respect needs to be considered.
As far as self respect goes the girls do not have one to speak of . No identity no right over their parent's house. No right to feel discomfort when compared to their parent's house.
If they do they are spoilt problematic, bad tempered, and they needed to be shown the "right path" by the likes of Sona.
Sona with her stereotyped example stories of gudiya and stuff will enlighten Dev.
I am not going into how much right has Neha to demand things of her bhaiyya. Here he represents her parent's house.
Dev is too much into Sona and he has not owned up to the relationship yet. Why? And Sona interferes in all their house matters. why?
Who asks for her free advice? Old fashioned people will also say that the new girls comes and changes her husband/boyfriend's mind . Won't they?
Dev got a new doll sorry sorry new girlfriend. Eswari and others do not know it. They expect Dev to tell them. But he did not . So naturally they feel cheated. On top of that presents are being stopped at her saying. Is she saving money for her to be husband from now on?
Do not make Sona so much "too good to be true" and full of advice. Just be more natural. and show some goodness in Neha.
And make her husband Ranveer to be more sensitive to her needs than full of self respect.
Do not stereotype the story.
Anupamaa
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