Not every male is Hrithik or Adhyayan. Don't hate us all.

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TheBoss

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Posted: 9 years ago

I don't know statistics of this forum but I would go out on a limb and guess that it's mostly female based? The recent event surrounding Kangana and Hrithik has brought some very interesting discussion. It was refreshing to see this forum is not always about fan wars but some logical discussion can be expected and I enjoyed reading different opinions of people and their view points. I got to learn all kinds of theories, explanations, justifications and colorful characters. Regardless of how you feel about this issue it has become a voice for many and at times men have been brutally bashed in, resented, despised.

But I also felt that there has been strong rise of passions and inflammations particularly against men in general. And I get it guys that not all men are good. I'm sure all of you had to face some grade A assholes in your life. And there is a lot of pent up frustration and emotions and finally you guys are being vocal and speak out against it. Though I know most of you know that not all men are same but still I implore you to have a positive outlook for some of us. We are really not that bad. We also get mad when we see or hear what's going on in the news lately.

But still please dont let this consume you and turn you bitter than who you really are. As a guy I've seen a number of posts and though I'm not defending all men it does suck a little to see us at your receiving end. 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago

I have a wonderful boyfriend and I don't hate guys at all. I have come across many bad guys but that doesn't change the fact that I see many charming, sweet guys also. I see people as good or bad by the way they behave, not because of their gender. I have come across rude girls and nice girls both also.

The forum though... I was discussing about this issue with a friend of mine who told me that this forum's guys always gives the guy a benefit of doubt no matter how grey-shaded his case looks like whenever some male vs female thing goes on in bollywood. Again and again that has happened and it's just very annoying.

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TheBoss

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -cuteee.tigress
I have a wonderful boyfriend and I don't hate guys at all. I have come across many bad guys but that doesn't change the fact that I see many charming, sweet guys also.
The forum though... I was discussing about this issue with a friend of mine who told me that this forum's guys always gives the guy a benefit of doubt whenever some male vs female thing goes on in bollywood. Again and again that has happened and it's just very annoying.

I can see that. There has to be something that has ticked off so many people. Not everyone of them is supporting Kangana particularly but they are supporting the notion and speaking in unison because it seems theyve had it and they are somehow relating some of it. This is totally understandable. But few posts lately we are just being slaughtered. 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago

IA . I wanted be hated for being a jerk not for being a guy

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TheBoss

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Maroon5.0
IA . I wanted be hated for being a jerk not for being a guy

I can smell the tension a mile away bro. It is like something has lit up a fire here. Hate her or love her Kangana was able to strike up a chord with many and I will give her that. Sometimes they are also seen as Kangana supporter when they arey trying to address the bigger issue. This has become very tensed. Hope folks are able to see what is happening because if this was happening on some other place like reddit or 4chan where some guys spend their whole day bashing and mocking women. Just hope they turn it down a notch. We really shouldn't have to answer for what Hrithik or Adhyayan did. They can go to hell for all I care.

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Posted: 9 years ago

And how are you sure, members writing essays are not Zarina Wahab in real life?

LOL. Don't take internet seriously. Men and Women, will bash each other here and then get ready to impress each other outside. 😆😆

Such is life. 😛

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blue-ice.

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Posted: 9 years ago

I hate people for their bad deeds...not their gender...u are safe from my side😆

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rimi2983

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Posted: 9 years ago

Boss jee - Don't take virtual world too seriously.
This forum has shown meanest and most ugly side during fan wars .
But anyone's SOS call brings sweetest personalities here. One post on depression got so many hero stories of fellow members .
Bday posts always brings good wishes from across the fan groups.
When we know rivals well, we don't mind dogs and leg pulling across fan groups and healthy rivalries are maintained.
On topic , we do not hate all men or all boys of this forum. We may disagree very strongly on someone 's POV, but we try not to hate any person unless he/she shows serious obnoxious behaviour

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TheBoss

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

And how are you sure, members writing essays are not Zarina Wahab in real life?

LOL. Don't take internet seriously. Men and Women, will bash each other here and then get ready to impress each other outside. 😆😆

Such is life. 😛

Yeah but lets say suddenly 50 new guys join IF and start doing the stupid guy things guys do and some could be construed as sexist or female bashing. Personally Im enjoying all the varied opinions because I have no dog in this race. I honestly feel none are doodh ka dhula. Tomorrow they wouldnt even recognise us on the street for sticking up for them or writing essays. We are mostly doing this for time pass and that is fine. As a girl you may not see it but lately particuarly today we are all being lumped together and having a field day. 😆

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Justmoi

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Posted: 9 years ago

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I know, my father is wonderful man and I judge men by those standards. Those tell me there is a difference between Hrithik and the Suman father son duo So I won't even lump them together. So no worries. 😆