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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -mina-


Pragya sharing the truth or not does not affect Abhi's capacity to think for himself or be a decent human being. He doesn't need to know her inside out. He also doesn't need to misunderstand her when he has evidence to the contrary. There's conflicting evidence - fine. He doesn't need to give her a lot of benefit of the doubt. But neither does he need to act as if doubt does not exist and he's entitled to be awful to her.

And yes, Pragya constantly has to prove herself to Abhi. Because being an emotional person prone to temper trantrums, he never gives her the benefit of believing her on her own merits.


I just explained that KC fasting scenario. He gives her lot of benefit of out. And she does her best to erase it. And it is complained that he is awful. Doesn't make sense to me.

Abhi's first reaction to changed Pragya was that she is pretending/joking. He then showed hurting, begging, tried to seduce, then he started shouting at her... and he has done a lot of this in cycles until now.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-



Abhi's first reaction to changed Pragya was that she is pretending/joking. He then showed hurting, begging, tried to seduce, then he started shouting at her... and he has done a lot of this in cycles until now.


Do you not find that his cycles of believing/begging are way shorter than his cycles of egotistically thinking he is right?
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: frenzyy

Why hurt your loved ones in the name of saving your husband? (Abhi, Dasi, Sarla Ma)

Why involve your little sis? At the risk of putting her life at risk knowing Taliyah can go to any extent to save themselves?
Why trust dadi and obey her words over your love(abhi)? Why not give him the benefit of doubt? Why not tell him after seeing him suffer in front of your eyes? When he is losing the trust on every relationship, why make him go through this? Why not confide in him even after his repeated pleas? What's the plan behind mogambo avatar anyway? I see no purpose here - your ma is in depression, bulbul is well dead (at least assuming she is at the moment), purab lost his wife, you lost your sister, and most of all abhi isn't ever gona forgive you if you do decide to come out clean now (I highly doubt you would) well leave abhi would you be able to forgive yourself for causing this harm to your sis? To add cheesing to the cake you are still doing all this for abhi's benefit in the sake of protecting him from his so called dushman (@ the cost of a life pragya? Seriously?) Even now if you can't come clean in front of him? When will you?

As for your plans - it failed big time - Taliya are still partying, you haven't figured out who the baby's father is? You dont know who is helping Taliya? You havent gone anywhere from where you started and you call this saving your husband? Whoa! U lost your little sis, your mom has called off all her relations of you.. you are in a pretty bad shape from where you started - if this isnt rock bottom what is? By keeepin him in dark you are achieving nothing but landing yourself, him and all your loved ones in trouble..

Why this difference of stand? When was the last time Abhi kept something from Pragya? MMS? Well he could have handled it better but then again - he had his reasons jus like you do.. Agreed but I dont remember you having a clear plan unlike abhi? I dont remember him hurting you or your family for over a couple of days.. you have no plan and still put on the show? Its a few weeks and you are no where close to where you were when you started. Pragya, jus what will make you understand that being fuggy you had more power than mogambo? Huh!

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Visit forum regularly frenzy , love your thoughts.
We share the same agony and plight of seeing our heroine plain stupid.

Let's share some pain and vent out. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -mina-


Do you not find that his cycles of believing/begging are way shorter than his cycles of egotistically thinking he is right?


Nope! Not more than how much he is lied to.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: llQueenMinionll

agree with that^ she never needed to lie but chose to be the martyr cause it was always for someone else.

1) for purbul
2) for abhi and tanu
3) for abhi


not selfish at all...


and whats the point she always ends up heartbroken so..


You need to be strong to be a martyr which she is underrated for. Like Abhi said she lives for others, not herself. The finest quality one of hers which he fell in love with...Knowing this then one needs to think and observe which frankly speaking Abhi was not doing and hopefully will start doing it soon...
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-


Nope! Not more than how much he is lied to.


I actually agree with you on that, the lie cycles are pretty damn long.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Mystery1


You need to be strong to be a martyr which she is underrated for. Like Abhi said she lives for others, not herself. The finest quality one of hers which he fell in love with...Knowing this then one needs to think and observe which frankly speakly Abhi was not doing and hopefully will start doing it soon...


@bold underline - this is where Abhi fails to be the best that he can be.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: harisha_kb



Visit forum regularly frenzy , love your thoughts.
We share the same agony and plight of seeing our heroine plain stupid.

Let's share some pain and vent out. 😆


ok but mostly here I would like to vent out about the hero being inadequate.
Edited by -mina- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Moodyblue


prani, i don't she think she blamed him, her dialogue was aap jante hai kaisa lagta hain jab koi apna apke samne apni jaan de deta hai woh bi apke wajah se" she was referring to herself.



Yes, I just realized she was explaining her point of view to Abhi. She was referring to herself!

I guess it was wishful thinking on my part. That'd she'd blame him and he'll ask why and out the comes whole truth. 😊

Don't want to mislead anyone! Thanks, Neha

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