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Posted: 9 years ago
We talk as if Pragya has shared her heart with Abhi. Let alone living as his wife in every way, she hasn't once talked her heart out. She lied to him all along. First pretended she is into Purab/money, then she sort of maintained she is not in love with him when she was... and finally in kidnapping she shared a bit of her heart etc. but Abhi went into silent mode at that time and no talk really happened. Again, Tannu pregnancy came up, she started lying... which hasn't ended until now.
And Abhi is supposed to know her inside out.

But it's okay if Pragya who saw him with hardly any pretensions does not even trust him enough to tell him the truth which is just about him.. I mean it's not like she has to prove something about herself.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Mina, 👍🏼 👏 on the post. Could not agree more with you. Abhi's behavior was disgusting, even after being repeatedly told by Pragya to leave her alone, he continued to goad her. The character fell to a new low yesterday. He does not deserve to be her solace and does not deserve her love. Anyone who pokes and prods someone in pain (does not matter whether he believes it to be fake, it is NOT about him or what he thinks), is not a nice person, period. Immature, lovable (to Pragya maybe) but selfish to the core is how I see him. He lives in his own imagined, entitled world of hurt 'cos he believes he deserves Pragya's love AFTER all the crap he has dealt her including getting his live-in girlfriend pregnant. But love is blind and Pragya loves him unselfishly and completely - something he is totally undeserving of and am sure cannot comprehend, at least the "unselfish" bit. He is a spoilt brat that wants his cake and eat it too, always has been and always will be. Lucky tho' for being the object of Pragya's unflinching and unwavering devotion. She is a fool.


Thanks Jhanvi. So agreed @ bold. As for Pragya's "love", not only is it unselfish, it is downright self-destructive and self-abnegating. A fool indeed to value where she is not valued.
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Posted: 9 years ago
agree with that^ she never needed to lie but chose to be the martyr cause it was always for someone else.
1) for purbul
2) for abhi and tanu
3) for abhi


not selfish at all...


and whats the point she always ends up heartbroken so..
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Posted: 9 years ago
No one ever said Abhi does not need to revisit their disastrous suhaag raat etc. But I do not hold a lot against him after that. Because the second day, Pragya knew it all, his plan, his stand, his issue everything.
And after that she let him play the game. Although she might look as a victim, she wasn't really because she had a choice to tell the truth and walk off. Even now, she cries as if she has no choices but ends up listening to Daadi all the time!!
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: llQueenMinionll

agree with that^ she never needed to lie but chose to be the martyr cause it was always for someone else.

1) for purbul
2) for abhi and tanu
3) for abhi


not selfish at all...


and whats the point she always ends up heartbroken so..


It's not Abhi's fault that Pragya lies!! That's all I am trying to say.
Just because she is incapable of standing up for herself and lies and pretends, others who go by her lies as truth do not become faulty of believing her lies.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-

We talk as if Pragya has shared her heart with Abhi. Let alone living as his wife in every way, she hasn't once talked her heart out. She lied to him all along. First pretended she is into Purab/money, then she sort of maintained she is not in love with him when she was... and finally in kidnapping she shared a bit of her heart etc. but Abhi went into silent mode at that time and no talk really happened. Again, Tannu pregnancy came up, she started lying... which hasn't ended until now.

And Abhi is supposed to know her inside out.

But it's okay if Pragya who saw him with hardly any pretensions does not even trust him enough to tell him the truth which is just about him.. I mean it's not like she has to prove something about herself.


Pragya sharing the truth or not does not affect Abhi's capacity to think for himself or be a decent human being. He doesn't need to know her inside out. He also doesn't need to misunderstand her when he has evidence to the contrary. There's conflicting evidence - fine. He doesn't need to give her a lot of benefit of the doubt. But neither does he need to act as if doubt does not exist and he's entitled to be awful to her.

And yes, Pragya constantly has to prove herself to Abhi. Because being an emotional person prone to temper trantrums, he never gives her the benefit of believing her on her own merits.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-


It's not Abhi's fault that Pragya lies!! That's all I am trying to say.
Just because she is incapable of standing up for herself and lies and pretends, others who go by her lies as truth do not become faulty of believing her lies.


And it's not Pragya's fault that Abhi goes by her lies as truth.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -mina-


And it's not Pragya's fault that Abhi goes by her lies as truth.


Lying is not looked as a virtue. And speaking truth is.
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Posted: 9 years ago
I agree twin, she does not need to lie for him.. but sadly she does ofcourse he is not at fault for believing lies
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-


Lying is not looked as a virtue. And speaking truth is.


Pragya is lying to reveal a greater truth...how does that fit in this system of virtue?

And Abhi accusing her of being emotionless and playing on his emotions...how is that speaking truth?

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