It is hypocrisy that Anandi is fighting bal vivah while taking support of her bal sasra and balak var.
Going back to bal sasra and living there forever was the most regressive step Anandi could take in life. It was neither growth nor empowerment. It was a plain regressive decision combined with hyocrisy.
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Had Anandi learnt anything from her past, she wouldn't have lost Nandini or wouldn't have failed to give her identity back.
Speedy action and nipping the problem in the bud is something Anandi will never learn in life. Earlier Saanchi and Jagya paid for it and now Nimboli and probably Shivam will pay for it
Where has Anandi grown?
Even the grey characters who turned white was not because of Anandi. They changed when their own wrong doing blew up on their face.
Anandi has not learnt much from her past, has not grown and is not empowered. If Jagya n Dsa are taken away from Anandi's life, she will find it hard to survive. She cant make it on her own, neither emotionally nor physically nor financially.
But Dsa and J could all lead their own lives without Anandi in it.
P.s. by physically I mean the day to day running and nothing to do with man woman relationship.