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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dear Anandi,

I supported you many times. But I cant ignore your shortcomings.

I think your twin is stupidity. That is why you cannot be separated from her. They say you are too good to see badness in others. So I am and many others who are also good but can see badness for what it is. It is called discretion and common sense. You must be thinking using common sense means becoming a little evil. But are you capable of thinking?

Some say you are cunning. Cunningness requires some smartness and smartness is what you dont have. So you cant be deliciously cunning.

Nowadays you are getting a lot of screenspace and that worries me a lot. Because I have to see stupidity more and more.

Your daughter was smart when she was with Harki and co. She had the honesty and spunk of Kamli and cunningness of Harki. Alas, now she is becoming like you.

It is futile to see some spark in you.

With a heavy heart,
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't know whether it is stupidity or belief in inherent goodness in fellow human beings.
It depends on how people look at it.

Harki's cunningness not doing her any good.

What Kamili is doing with Harki and Kundan is not that different from what Anandi had been doing with Sanchi Anop and DB. It is just that Anandi's methods involved showing lot of patience and kindness.
Kamili ensured that her father got punished saved family property and trying to get Kundan and Harki mend their ways and importantly she had not disowned her father.
Kamili also had dreams of her own but when they crashed she gave in to family pressure and re built her life and gave life a second chance just like Anandi did.

Mangala's ways may come in front of her soon but Anandi is not the type to fix the superficial problem but will go to the root of Mangala's problem and fix it.
By the time Anandi is finished with Mangala Mangala would realise that motherhood is not about being addressed as maa or clinging on to the child and more importantly there is more to life than Nimboli


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes Anandi now behaves like stupid person. She is getting more screen space but there is no spark in her presence. She looks like dumb. And yes when nimboli was in jhalara she was smart but now she is also becoming like her mother.
But after so much stupidity and mistakes Anandi wins the battle.

May be that is why there is saying - Allah Meherban toh Gadha Pehelwan.😉😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi Nandini relationship shouldn't depend on what Mangala does or says to the child.
Their relationship should stand on it's own merit

Dsa and now Anant expressed doubts about Mangala's integrity but even if Anandi confronts Mangala now nothing will come out of it because the child trusts Mangala.

Anandi can only do one thing - work on her relationship with her child and realise the need to take Shivam into confidence.

The child trusts Mangala because she doesn't know any better.The child will believe Mangala's lies over her truths so what will Anandi do if the child decides to believe Mangala and decides to go away with this woman into a future which is uncertain?

If Anandi gets the child to trust her it will be much easier to make her believe her truths so that Mangala'slies do not matter

So schooling is the best way to counter Mangala'sinfluence over the child.
The child herself will start questioning Mangala and that is the only way to go forward.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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well i know one thing this fake mother is biggest blunder made my mangala which will help Anandi in future to break trust of nimboli on mangala.
But that is future. I feel in current scenario - soon Anandi silence will invite one more problem for her that is Shivam. Soon the boy will start thinking nimboli as his competitor and that will create more and more problems for Anandi and more pain for nimboli. And i feel mangala will use Shivam, she has smell yesterday and for nimboli she will go to any extent. She will instigate shivam .

Beti abhi haath mein hai nahi , beta bhi haath se jayega.

Because shivam is not like his father, goody goody boy. He will accept nimboli when he will come to know that nimboli is her sister .

Earlier i use to think shivam will start thinking positively that why my mother is some much concern for nimboli and he will smell that she is my sister. But now i feel shivam is normal human being, he is not like his father Shivraj Shekhar who was completely extraordinary person.





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Posted: 10 years ago
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"Mangala's ways may come in front of her soon but Anandi is not the type to fix the superficial problem but will go to the root of Mangala's problem and fix it.
By the time Anandi is finished with Mangala Mangala would realise that motherhood is not about being addressed as maa or clinging on to the child and more importantly there is more to life than Nimboli "

Nothing can be as wrong as this - if they include such a thing in their track. Anandi comes across real dumb in several tracks, she never introspects, never sees where she went wrong and never tries to correct herself. Such a person "fixing" Mangala's problem is just fairy tale. Mangala is the person who accepts her weaknesses, assess the situation (her introspection before she gathered courage to contact vidhayak sa is best in the serial) , does not impose her decisions on others (her interactions with Kamli before marriage and also after her parents-in-laws death were superb) and had done only good for anyone she could. How such a woman is living in BH is beyond comprehension - and how such a woman (or any person for that matter) can think that they can keep the who is biological mother hidden from the child by living in that house and surrounded by powerful people helping the biological mother is also beyond comprehension. That is why all this negativity has made no impact. I have not seen any person - doing everything to harm their own cause - in real life. Only in TV we see such negative persons - Sanchi did everything to harm herself, so did DB and same to Mangala. Since they are not real persons - the reason is clear. That is how creatives want to show Anandi is good. đŸĨą 👎đŸŧ.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Not really interested in Mangala's supposed greatness which was visible to some people while it wasn't so to others.đŸĨą
Only interested in discussing this current track.

Anandi noticed that something is bothering her child since the time she came back from the temple and she was right in her assessment.She thinks the child is hiding this from Mangala too.

People said that she has not noticed that her child is hurting no she has noticed and she left the child with the person whom the child trusts to do the needful.

So the only way for her to go forward is to get the child trust her enough so that they child will tell her that she met her mother and was told that she was dumped because she was not a boy.

Instead of focusing on what Mangala is upto Anandi should be focusing on finding out bothers her child.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think it's time Anandi should get married for the third time. I agree stupidity is her twin and she can't really handle life on her own.


May be another man in Anandi's life can add some goals and direction by being assertive with her, yet supporting her. At least that way, someone can stop her from making a mess of her own and her children's lives.

On her own she continues to thrive on her limitations. Due to which Nandini's life is ruined big time and before Anandi realises, Shivam too will end up causing hurt to himself, out of jealousy and insecurity.

It's Anandi's problem that she can't connect dots. Atleast her husband would be able to fight and stand up for her (Like Shiv used to do)

Post Shiv's death, Anandi was always under Dadisa and Jagya's support. They did what they could for her, but they too have limitations in how much they can control Anandi's decisions. Besides, Dadisa may not be there forever and J has own life and family to care for.

May be she needs a man in her life for support and guidance, if not love.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ya may be cvs want to show anandi wining confidence of nimboli and one day nimboli will herself tell her that i met my mother in temple.
Ok no problem with this but now as a viewer i m suffocating because cant see this competition between mangala nimboli and anandi . Rather i will say its too much to watch this trio everyday with same story line.

For me now its overdose of mangala nimboli and anandi. Now a days on screen its nimboli nimboli and nimboli. Nimboli is standing in centre and both mothers r hold her from two side like tag of war. and rest other players r doing fielding . Nimboli is surrounded with so much people.

Really nimboli has lot of patience , if i would be at her place i would have shouted please leave me alone. rather i would have eaten heads of both the mothers anandi and mangala. i would have made them dance on my tune.

earlier there was balance in story - some part jagya ganga story, another side anandi and nimboli company story .

But now its really pathetic to watch nimboli continuously. Child Anandi was very interesting character but for me child nimboli is very depressing character.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dr. Anant is already started supporting Anandi in nimboli matter . So now one more person will start roaming around nimboli and its Dr. Anant. May be soon nimboli will start thinking why kanhaji has not given father like Dr. Anant.
And after truth revelation may be cvs will show nimboli becoming jodi maker for Anandi and Anant.😉😛

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