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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is hypocrisy that Anandi is fighting bal vivah while taking support of her bal sasra and balak var.
Going back to bal sasra and living there forever was the most regressive step Anandi could take in life. It was neither growth nor empowerment. It was a plain regressive decision combined with hyocrisy.

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Had Anandi learnt anything from her past, she wouldn't have lost Nandini or wouldn't have failed to give her identity back.

Speedy action and nipping the problem in the bud is something Anandi will never learn in life. Earlier Saanchi and Jagya paid for it and now Nimboli and probably Shivam will pay for it

Where has Anandi grown?

Even the grey characters who turned white was not because of Anandi. They changed when their own wrong doing blew up on their face.

Anandi has not learnt much from her past, has not grown and is not empowered. If Jagya n Dsa are taken away from Anandi's life, she will find it hard to survive. She cant make it on her own, neither emotionally nor physically nor financially.

But Dsa and J could all lead their own lives without Anandi in it.

P.s. by physically I mean the day to day running and nothing to do with man woman relationship.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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If Anandi is in BH to make a story for Jagya and family, where is that shown? We are still seeing Nimboli Dsa Mangala Anandi and Anant. The same lot can be shown in SN too.
So it's obvious that Anandi is not in BH to make any story for JaGan. She is there because she likes to be there.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Now even Akheraj and his family story has lost its initial zing. They look like boring repetitions.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Singhs do not have a story right now if Anandi is not there in BH they have to create scenarios where Singhs so that they can be seen even if doing nothing
By keeping Anandi and her kids in BH they can ensure that Singhs get a bit of screen time even if there is no story for them.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi's sasra from her child marriage also learnt lessons from all the child marriages they did and they are by Anandi's side fighting against the custom of child marriage.
Dsa who was so against Anandi when she started her fight is now by her side Jagya who justified his marriage to Gauri by citing his child marriage to Gauri is now fighting against child marriage.

If people can't see that message it is because they don't want to see.


People who followed that tradition and ruined theirs and others lives have come together to fight that tradtion people who ended up hurting others in the name of tradition now learnt their lessons and fighting by the side of the person who started the fight

If that is not a message then don't know what it is




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes i also feel why cant anandi go to shivniketen with mangala and nimboli . Let her handle or win over her daughter alone. Cant she stay alone .
Well even though anandi is staying in Badi Haveli Ganga and Jagya r on holiday , even there children r on holiday.

Only dadisa is there . I think cvs feels anandi cant alone win over her daughter. She has to show nimboli big badi haveli and richness so nimboli will get attracted .

I think Anandi thinks shivniketan will not attract nimboli because its like ashram. Anandi never develop a feeling among her kid shivam that shivniketan is a place where your father lives , same with nimboli. Both the kinds doesnt have any feeling for that place because for mother that place is just a social organisation . And to attract daughter she needs badi haveli and its rich appearance .

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