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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Anandi needs a solid anchor like a husband. Otherwise she looks like a directionless kati patang. Right now she is in BH involving everyone in her problems though unintentionally. Once she marries, the husband will take some burden off her and off BH too.. But the husband should not be too much henpecked like Shiv who Anandi manipulated easily during DB and other episodes. The husband should be assertive like Akheraj, soft like Shiv. Will Anant fit the bill? I hope dadisa will not poke her nose too much once Anandi gets married for the third time.

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Nimbuli already wants her Chokhi Chudail to dress like a suhagan.

Now with Dr Anant being close to Nimbuli, she can persue her CC to marry him.

Already Anant has fallen in love with Anandi and Anandi will say yes for the sake of her daughter and finally reveal she also loved Anant ji the day she met her. Becuase as the men in her changes she finds that the earlier ones were not true love.😉

Only person who may not like this is Shivam becuase of his possessivenes..

That will open another story line like Mohan Megha story.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Anandi needs a solid anchor like a husband. Otherwise she looks like a directionless kati patang. Right now she is in BH involving everyone in her problems though unintentionally. Once she marries, the husband will take some burden off her and off BH too.. But the husband should not be too much henpecked like Shiv who Anandi manipulated easily during DB and other episodes. The husband should be assertive like Akheraj, soft like Shiv. Will Anant fit the bill? I hope dadisa will not poke her nose too much once Anandi gets married for the third time.

So far Anant seems to be fitting the bill. But he is already awestruck by Anandi. Will he ever be assertive with her?

He may give her directions and take some burden off too, but will he be assertive? May be when he is within his husband rights, he could get assertive.

Nevertheless, Anandi own her own is not able to manage through. A new man in her life will do her good.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

If Shiv is henpecked husband where was the need to remove him from the story?😛

He obviously was removed to make Anandi's problems look bigger and make her helpless and find her way of doing things.

If Shiv been around Anandi's daughter lost for eleven years would not have looked like such a huge problem because Anandi and Shiv would have coped with the loss together.

It is not like the actor wanted to quit or any such thing.It is obviously they wanted to make Anandi a single woman.

Just because Jagya has married thrice that is no reason to show Anandi married thrice too.

Writers CVs channel everyone clearly said it is the story of mother and children.

Even at the celebration of 2000 episodes the channel said it is the story of mother and daughter so the question of third marriage is out😛

They already got Gehna married second time saying children need father

So obviously that is not going to be there for Anandi

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tellygeek

@tellygeek

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Because Anandi refused to believe Ananth's words, she is being termed stupid and in need of a third man!

CVs want to show the depth of Anandi's trust on Mangala. She believes Mangala is a mother to her kid and will never ever do anything to harm Nimboli. She trusts Mangala more than Anant, which is quite normal I would say. Anant is a nobody to her whereas Mangala is her daughter's saviour.

On one hand, we say Anandi wants to win over Nandini with her riches. And when Anandi can't forcefully separate Nandini from Mangala without a solid proof as the kid is deeply attached to Mangala, she is called as stupid and selfish. Encouraging the girl to go to school is a step ahead.

But Anandi needs to take Shivam into confidence and tell him everything.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Who said Anandi should marry bse jagya has married thrice? Anandi can marry even 4 times if she wants, there is no competition

Anandi should marry because she has proved that has failed to live as a single woman for past 11 / 12 years.

If Shiv was removed to show that Anandi's problems were bigger than that hasn't come that way. Rather she has made everybody else's life difficult, (be it her own children or ex-husband.)

By the way its not wrong or demeaning if a woman marries to take that extra support from a man. Everybody needs support, even Anandi needs, that's why she is always taking help from Jagya or Dsa (post Shiv).

Anandi taking support from her husband would be much more dignified than Anandi living off her Ex.

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1013962

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Dr Anant s charecter has some purpose - Patidev or not time will tell.

Assumptions are going on.

- But Anant who got into his FILs business to make her wife happy is not the guy who will draw a line between Anandi and BH.

- It was not Anant, Pushpa insisted for a divorce. So Anant will not be exercising his husband's rights and keep Anandi and DS apart.

- Moreover, Anant works in Dadisa ka hospital and at jaitser. So there is no way, he can say no in Anandis involvement in BH and vice versa.

And I think Channel is more on a MOM and daughter story. They are more on Nimbuli so they are tying her up with Chakor. May be once Nimbuli s transformation is over, another leap with grown up Nimbuli.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Shiv wasn't henpecked as such. He was rather a gentleman who did a lot for his ladylove, and at times because of this love he also lost his marbles like giving into Anandi's emotional pressure, agreeing to her kasam etc.

Anyways, AnSh relationship was more like damsel in distress marrying a prince, where he offered the world to her post marriage. Anandi's third marriage can be a marriage between equals where both have something to give and take. Where he could be Anandi's support and she could be his.

Anant is ok for now. Cvs can introduce someone else too. We don't want a grand heroic entry or hyped up romantic love story. A simple mature understanding between two single parents wanting to come together will work

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1013962

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Marriage is not the ultimate goal of every one's life.

Single parents do raise kids up well. Just because one is a single parent it is not necessary to find a father/ mother for your child.

As of now, Anandi has not shown any feeling towards anyone. I feel she is still in memories of her dead husband and believes Shiv is the father to be carried forward for her children.

Story of companionship - will it carry the so called ESSENCE of Balika Vadhu.

Barring a few, who is interested in Anandi s third patidev,

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

They removed Shiv Shekhars and Anandi's family to make Singhs as her sole family so why will they get her married off again😛

What burden that BH is bearing? BH people themselves want to take care of Anandi and her children.

They are the ones who are not letting them get away from BH.

It is also obvious for now they don't have any story left for BH so they are involving them in Anandi's story.

Anandi is brought back to BH because they wanted to juxtapose her relationship with Singhs and Nandini's sasural and her child marriage.

Don't understand this pressing need to see Anandi with a third husband. I wonder if people suggest third marriage as an alternative to single widowed mothers in real life🤢

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