Rinky should start respecting herself & act maturely! Loved IshRa - Page 5

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Aka, Mihir has been busy with work, except for the time he spent with superman and the acting classes. He was not making time for Mihika, she just happened to bump into him, so she took the opportunity to talk to him. She gave him a lecture just like Ishita did. She is Bhalla's neighbour and Ishita's sister. So she is bound to be around.

Mihir wanted Rinki to be at Bhallas coz he did not want her to be alone with Shagun around. Mihir is already sorry for the drunk and whatever episode. Rinki did not wait to hear him out. If Rinki goes to Bhalla house, she is bound to bump into Mihika. At the end of the day she cant wish Mihika away, she needs to talk it out with Mihir only.

And agian Mihika did a lot of stupid things but she did it for Mihir and was unhappy all the while. She has got punished for it. She is not trying to break Mihir's marriage, neither is Mihir thinking about it.

Originally posted by: music24n7

Since sujata helped them...

No one will ever raise questions

Originally posted by: anu rulz

Mihika made the stupidest decisions in the show..her sting operation though "brilliant" was nothing in front of foolishly agreeing to marry Ashok..I dnt know what she was thinking, that he will keep her like a showpiece in his house? After she finally walks out on him, she chooses to hang out with her ex who btw is now married..who does such stupid things? Maybe she has no intentions of being a wrecker but friends with exes is a concept that almost never works..

Mihir is another item..he was treated very badly by Mihika, albeit unintentionally and decides to start a "clean slate" by marrying rinki..what was he expecting again, that she is his roommate? Do these people even understand what marriage as an institution is? Am doubting it..now wen Mihika is back, spending all his free time with her is not only dumb, but highly disrespectful to his wife, who stands like an unwanted piece of furniture while he is chatting and laughing with his ex...any normal person will react the way rinki did..

Rinki on the other hand seems to expect a lot out of Mihir very soon..out of all three, though my support goes thoroughly to her..she shud have a clear convo with Mihir, if nothing else to at least make him know he is being super disrespectful to her with his behavior..if Mihir can't handle being married to anybody other than Mihika, he shud let rinki free so that she can lead a healthy normal life..if he wishes to stay married, he shud stop treating her like a second rate citizen in his life..

Originally posted by: gravity23

I mostly agree with ur comment anjs..

only that, I feel...at the mandap...Toshi and Raman totally rounded up on Ishita (with Shagun getting that NRI's Canadian wife into the picture) and blamed her squarely for everything...as if Ishita Rinki ki Maa hai...aur uski shaadi ki zimmedari uske sar hai..baki exempt hain

Ishita isnt treated like a daughter when things go wrong...she is treated like a typical bahu...and she caved in and had no choice...Toshi ranting and whining is so goddamn irritating ki kisi ko bhi panic attack aa jayega aur woh darr ke maare aise hi decisions lega

rem how BLINDLY Raman signed the papers Shagun gave him? without bothering to go thru it once HIMSELF? Coz he was in a hurry to get Adi home? for Toshi? That wman...she has such regressive thoughts...its coz of her old-fashioned, idiotic mentality that her children are facing so many probs today

am sure she didnt do a bg check on Param...before shipping Simmi off with him..and TILL DATE...In her mind, Param is pati parmeshwar for Simmi...divorce kyun nai le lete yaar?

Romi ko "mera beta" soch soch ke badhawa deti rahi...even when did tht Mihika kaand...and then Sarika pregnancy kaand...

and now Rinki...because she is so worked up in the head ki usko GKC/GKL milega ki nai...ki Rinki se kaun shaadi karega and all...she made Rinki go thru the burner

I abs agree with u when u say for a girl it matters a hell lot if her family stands up for her...yahan toh ganga ulti hi beh rahi thi..woh kehti toh bhi kya kehti...she was shocked and disturbed...and then Mihir came along with his "fresh start, clean slate" promises...

so she saw a glimmer of hope, and on the premise that Mihir put forward, that they're frnds...she gave this marriage a chance...

its not like she jumped with joy at the prospect of getting married to him, as many ppl think...coz she DID look hesitant

All this BS abt him being busy with work, falls flat wen we as an audience see him chatting and laughing with Mihika, and not bothering to even talk t his wife

WHICH husband will tell his wife - ki Im gonna be busy...wat will u do here? go back and stay with ur mayka?

I mean, at that rate, ALL THE HUSBANDS who are busy shud mandatorily ship their wives off to their mayka coz they're busy

that totally indicates he isnt VIEWING this as a marriage only

warna biwi se door rehna kaun chahega??

ulta Rinki ke Bhalla House mein rehne se...Mihir-Mihika HAMESHA aamne saamne aate hain...

why is it so difficult for Mihika to understand that she NEEDS to get out of Mihir's sight and not give this preachy advice to Rinki?

I totally understud when Rinki left the house...uska husband munh be bol raha hai he regrets marrying her...wat shud she have done?

sit at his feet, care for him, shed tears, beg for his love?

I totally get Rinki's point

And Mihika is NO victim

CVs shud just stop painting her as one...that ludicrous track where she married Ashok to "save" Shagun and MIHIR...ruined it all

Originally posted by: gravity23

Exactly

Am not saying Mihika intends to be home-wrecker...but then her intentions dont matte here..coz wat is visible are her actions

I dont understand...frndship between exes do happen..but not immediately...not so soon

after thngs have totally cooled down, then maybe at a later stage

so why is Mihir hung on that frndship idealism with MIHIKA RIGHT NOW?

I think its the time to secure and strengthen his relationship with his WIFE first!1

Mihir is busy...but not busy ENUFF for Mihika...and that REALLY hurts Rinki

she is abs justified to react tht way

any wife would

and love doesnt have anything to do with it

just because its an arranged marriage and I am not head over in heels with my husband, does it mean Im okay with him chit-chatting with his ex, cheerin her up, lending her support and wait till we fall in love?

Ridiculous!

Seriously...if Mihir breaks up with Rinki...then also Im fine...but please just end this torture...stop disrespecting ur wife so much

she is an individual too and deserves the best she can in this marriage!

Originally posted by: noname10

This whole story line among other things is the reason I have major problem when it comes to the writing of this show. I stopped watching way back in late Oct. of 2014 because real life called and the writing and execution of the show in my opinion became utterly unbearable. I mean there was no consistency, little to no logic, and nonstop drama. I know a lot viewers feel bad for the predicament these characters are in but the rushed/poor writing has me numb to the situation.

Here are some cold hard truths:1. Mihir is/or was deeply in love with mihika and vice versa

2. Marrying someone out of obligation never leads to a happy home life

3. Having a foundation of friendship in a marriage does not make up for the lack of love,true intimacy, and attraction for your partner(married or not)

4. Mihir and Mihika had relationship based on friendship, love, intimacy, and mutual attraction until the writers wanted to throw all that out for the sake of unnecessary drama

5. Rinky "missing in action Bhalla " was a care free student with no interst in marriage or her (brother) mihir

For the sake of the story lets forget all of the above truths...What is exactly are the writers trying to show? Is rinky in love with mihir? If so how and when did she fall in love? What happened between her and the ex-boyfriend in australia? What happened in her last relationship that makes her so insecure in this one? As a viewer I know absolutely nothing about this character and what makes her behave they way she does...so how can sympathize with said character. There has been a lot to interesting discussion about who's wrong or at fault ( mihir,mihika,or rinky) but there are so many gaps in the story telling I can't seem to deiced nor care for that matter. The saying "It's not what you say but how you say it" comes to mind but in this case it's not what the creators

show but how they show it that makes an impact on the viewers.

P.S. Is shagun of all people taking about breaking marriages really...No seriously shagun is now the champion and defender of marriages? The women that slept with and had an affair with her husband's boss while stilled married with no shame or remorse. This is the same women that showed no respect or regard for institution of marriage...or is this the twilight zone. Seriously the writers need to get grip and get it fast!

Originally posted by: noname10

This whole story line among other things is the reason I have major problem when it comes to the writing of this show. I stopped watching way back in late Oct. of 2014 because real life called and the writing and execution of the show in my opinion became utterly unbearable. I mean there was no consistency, little to no logic, and nonstop drama. I know a lot viewers feel bad for the predicament these characters are in but the rushed/poor writing has me numb to the situation.

Here are some cold hard truths:1. Mihir is/or was deeply in love with mihika and vice versa

2. Marrying someone out of obligation never leads to a happy home life

3. Having a foundation of friendship in a marriage does not make up for the lack of love,true intimacy, and attraction for your partner(married or not)

4. Mihir and Mihika had relationship based on friendship, love, intimacy, and mutual attraction until the writers wanted to throw all that out for the sake of unnecessary drama

5. Rinky "missing in action Bhalla " was a care free student with no interst in marriage or her (brother) mihir

For the sake of the story lets forget all of the above truths...What is exactly are the writers trying to show? Is rinky in love with mihir? If so how and when did she fall in love? What happened between her and the ex-boyfriend in australia? What happened in her last relationship that makes her so insecure in this one? As a viewer I know absolutely nothing about this character and what makes her behave they way she does...so how can sympathize with said character. There has been a lot to interesting discussion about who's wrong or at fault ( mihir,mihika,or rinky) but there are so many gaps in the story telling I can't seem to deiced nor care for that matter. The saying "It's not what you say but how you say it" comes to mind but in this case it's not what the creators

show but how they show it that makes an impact on the viewers.

P.S. Is shagun of all people taking about breaking marriages really...No seriously shagun is now the champion and defender of marriages? The women that slept with and had an affair with her husband's boss while stilled married with no shame or remorse. This is the same women that showed no respect or regard for institution of marriage...or is this the twilight zone. Seriously the writers need to get grip and get it fast!