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Originally posted by: gravity23
Hey..I see u have given me credit for this post...Thanks much!!😛
Since I haven't seen the episode as of yet that is why I gave you credit as I have imagined the episode by reading your review. 😆⭐️ Here are your replies to your thoughts in Bold.As per ur post, couldnt resist...posting what I earier wrote on my thread :)1. I believe Rinki's state is brought about by a lot of factors...majorly Toshi ji, who was HELL-BENT on getting her married...which is why that fiasco hapened right at the mandap...Ishita had NO CHOICE but to ask Mihir to save the situation which he did...because it waS CLEAR to everyone that Mihika has moved on...So Mihir took the step forward...Rinki had NO SAY in this at all...shaadi ke liye bhi raazi nai thi woh toh...I mean, a complete stranger ALMOST fooled her...so she accepted watever was coming her way...and knowing how dramatic and regressive YHM can sometimes be, we couldnt have expected Rinki to NOT marry Mihir...Toshi is still orthodox lady, no matter how much she rants all day about being so cool and modern, she has proved that when it comes to really becoming modern, she gets dumb.🤪 She forced Rinky to marry as if she was getting old the next day!!!!😕 She and her husband did not cared much about checking the groom's background because it came from their Pammi's side.🐷 Marriage is NOT the solution for solving all problems. Ishita HAD SO MANY Choices, but marriage. And well bhallas asked Rinky if she is ready for marriage but she did not denied. She had chance to give to her own life, but she got ready just because Mihir agreed. Where was her self respect then? has she considered herself as some object?but right now...the situation is getting worse...coz Mihir, unknowingly is only prioritizing Mihika...wondering abt her..talking to her...its not JUST CARE...and we all knw tht...Rinki cant suddenly go up to Mihir and ask, "Accha sach batao Mihir...tum aur Mihika arking lot mein kya baatein kar rahe the?" WONT IT SOUND INTRUSIVE? Wont it sound like she's spying on him?And will Mihir ans the qs? NO. he will not.Mihir is prioritizing Mihika sometimes so to help her come out from shock of attempt to marital rape. I'm sure Miir had answered Rinky's questions if she had asked him.2. You are ABS right ...Rinki ki haalat mein SABKA equal yogdaan hai...so thats wat Im saying...WY CANT THE ELDERS PITCH IN AND TALK TO RIMI ABOUT IT? Smoothen out the creases...hav a heart Y HER? Even Mihir shud be doing a lot of things..and since he;s not...its getting quite messy...its time for IshRa and the Bhallas to step inEven Amma needs to make things clear to Mihika...Mihir has married to her but if you expect him to Love her overnight, then thats not possible. He Loves Mihika from YEARS. Yup, elders should come and separate Rinky - Mihir's compromise full marriage.3. Rinki ran off because she felt like a piece of shit...unwanted...like SHE is the one who's responsible for this mess..and hence, she PICKED up her self-respect and left...maybe it was immature..but even Mihir came home drunk and wasted and said immature things...so why not let Rinki behave like a normal human being too???Okay, that can be observed as well. But where was her self respect when she was getting married to him suddenly?😕I am totally for RiMi divorce...Rinki shud just STOP crying...feeling bad...and get a divorce...since Mihir still and only loves Mihika...Great!!!! same thoughts!⭐️BTW...How can u dictate who will fall for whom first? Rem how blushy and red-faced Rinki was with that NRI groom...its not Mihir she is particularly in love with...but that doesnt mean she hasnt started falling for him like many women i this country do...even after an arranged marriage...😆Well, as seen Rinky started feeling for him, so SUDDENLY. 😕 Yup, maybe. So educated girl can behave like this, unbelievable to me.😕 But agree on your last line.Mihir ki jagah koi aur bhi hota, to Rinki use dil se apna hi maanne lagti...Mihir ko nai lagta, toh yeh thodi matlab hai Rinki ko bhi nai lagega??LOL True, typical.Why do we ONLY give men the space to be hurt and angry and all of that?Why not, women as well?No, it goes same for both, man and woman. :)Also...Mihika is NOT a victim...however harsh and mean, she IS suffering from the rsults of her past actions...NOBODY forced her to go for this horrendous sacrifice...forget tht...DOES HER ALLEGIANCE LIE WITH ISHU MORE OR WITH SHAGUN?She tried explaining it once to Shagun...woh nai samjhi toh bhaad mein jane diya hota...Apni bewakoofi ki wajah se Ishu and Raman ke life mein itne probs kyun khada kiya?And now SHE is the victim?She could have fild a complaint against Ashok MONTHS ago...but she didnt..wat was she thinking? A man liek Ashok wont try things on her?It totally gives out a wrong message to young girls...nobody shud try THIS kinda choice...Mihika is a victim, somehow. She was blackmailed by Ashok. She had no choice but to keep quiet for Mihir and others. Ashok forced her to marry him as he was behind Mihir's life.As for Rinki, she shud quit this marriage and concentrate on her career...damn marriage...damn Mmihir..NO MAN IS WORTH THIS TORTURE
Yup, Rinky should move on, get a life and divorce Mihir.
I have replied in bold and its to nice to discuss things of YHM with you. 😃 I have written my thoughts, about where I agree and where I don't. Looking forward to your replies.😊😊
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