Rinky should start respecting herself & act maturely! Loved IshRa

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Rinky itself is responsible for her state as well. Ishita, Mihir and Rinky, all are responsible. Yes, Mihika made wrong decisions but also she did that marriage to save Mihir and was insulted and used like hell by Ashok. She had to go through that force full Marital rape but she was saved on time. But Mihir married Rinky and he did not trusted Mihika's love as well. He thought that she was greedy which she wasn't in any scene.

Rinky was educated and fine that she was shocked by a fraud groom in her marriage but she was saved and she did not even had to go through what Mihika had to suffer from. Still, Rinky did not thought any thing practical and blindly married Mihir and Mihir too married her for saving So called respect which wasn't even gone as she was saved on time from that fraud marriage. Yes, it was huge but since Rinky wasn;t at fault so the damage was not that big. Society people are also humans and sensible ones understand that if groom is fraud then its not a girl's mistake. Pammi and all Bhallas are also responsible for this nonsense.

and now what Rinky did? When Mihir needed her, he was drunk and was not okay, she just left her home like a immature girl which she has become. She do not know what Mihika was suggesting Mihir. Mihika only suggested to go on vacation. but this immature Rinky is not able to understand anything nor is she trusting Mihir anymore and instead she is blaming Mihika for all this. For love of God, Rinky learn something from Sarika!!!! learn to respect yourself. Have you ever respected yourself than you have not married in that hustle with Mihir. It was YOU who was reluctant to NOT Marry anyone but you suddenly got convinced and SUDDENLY OVERNIGHT you started loving Mihir. What a drastic change in such a nice character!😕

Mihir only loves Mihika and its not too late. So better get divorce from Mihir so that you can still save two lifes. When you have chance of repairing things, so why compromise? and how come suddenly you started loving Mihir?

Creatives have made it a mess and hope those who Love each other can be together. Also, loved IshRa scenes. :) Thanks to Gravity for update that is why I can write review for todays episode.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes i agree with you cent percent.
Rinky is behaving quite immaturely. I know we are in minority. But In this case Rinky is at fault.

Mihir married Rinky to save her so called 'izzat' which was in no way Mihir's responsibility but still he did. He loved Mihika and the world knows about it. And love is not something jo aaj hai kal nahi. Yes Mihika is a dumb fool because of what she did.. She destroyed her own heavenly life with her bare hands. But that will not change the love Mihir has for Mihika.
Now when Rinky is married to Mihir she cannot expect him to forget Mihika overnight and fall in love with her. And its not that Mihir and Mihika are meeting and going on dates behind Rinky's back. Its all in Rinky's mind. So she cannot hold Mihika responsible beacause of her own thinking. She should show a little bit of maturity and give Mihir the space and time.



And even i agree when You say its still not late. They must get divorced and Mi-Mi must get back together. It will save 3 lives and probably the forth one if someone comes in Mihika's life. Its better than crying for something which anyway was never yours. Atleast this will save them from lifetime of troubles and jealousy.

And i am speechless about the IshRa scenes. They were just Marvellous. Loved today's episode.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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We cant expect rinki to give space and time to mihir when her mom advices her that getting him to bed will solve all her marital problems
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: appuss

We cant expect rinki to give space and time to mihir when her mom advices her that getting him to bed will solve all her marital problems

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Dev.*

I think Rinky itself is responsible for her state as well. Ishita, Mihir and Rinky, all are responsible. Yes, Mihika made wrong decisions but also she did that marriage to save Mihir and was insulted and used like hell by Ashok. She had to go through that force full Marital rape but she was saved on time. But Mihir married Rinky and he did not trusted Mihika's love as well. He thought that she was greedy which she wasn't in any scene.

Rinky was educated and fine that she was shocked by a fraud groom in her marriage but she was saved and she did not even had to go through what Mihika had to suffer from. Still, Rinky did not thought any thing practical and blindly married Mihir and Mihir too married her for saving So called respect which wasn't even gone as she was saved on time from that fraud marriage. Yes, it was huge but since Rinky wasn;t at fault so the damage was not that big. Society people are also humans and sensible ones understand that if groom is fraud then its not a girl's mistake. Pammi and all Bhallas are also responsible for this nonsense.

and now what Rinky did? When Mihir needed her, he was drunk and was not okay, she just left her home like a immature girl which she has become. She do not know what Mihika was suggesting Mihir. Mihika only suggested to go on vacation. but this immature Rinky is not able to understand anything nor is she trusting Mihir anymore and instead she is blaming Mihika for all this. For love of God, Rinky learn something from Sarika!!!! learn to respect yourself. Have you ever respected yourself than you have not married in that hustle with Mihir. It was YOU who was reluctant to NOT Marry anyone but you suddenly got convinced and SUDDENLY OVERNIGHT you started loving Mihir. What a drastic change in such a nice character!😕

Mihir only loves Mihika and its not too late. So better get divorce from Mihir so that you can still save two lifes. When you have chance of repairing things, so why compromise? and how come suddenly you started loving Mihir?

Creatives have made it a mess and hope those who Love each other can be together. Also, loved IshRa scenes. :) Thanks to Gravity for update that is why I can write review for todays episode.

Heyaaa...😊
Thanku So much
You just wrote whats is in my mind...👏👏
I mean Mihika had to suffer a lot and now
1st Mrs. Bhalla then shagun n now Rinki...why she has to listen from all these people???
I wish she give an answer to Rinki atleast
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sskazii

Yes i agree with you cent percent.
Rinky is behaving quite immaturely. I know we are in minority. But In this case Rinky is at fault.

Mihir married Rinky to save her so called 'izzat' which was in no way Mihir's responsibility but still he did. He loved Mihika and the world knows about it. And love is not something jo aaj hai kal nahi. Yes Mihika is a dumb fool because of what she did.. She destroyed her own heavenly life with her bare hands. But that will not change the love Mihir has for Mihika.
Now when Rinky is married to Mihir she cannot expect him to forget Mihika overnight and fall in love with her. And its not that Mihir and Mihika are meeting and going on dates behind Rinky's back. Its all in Rinky's mind. So she cannot hold Mihika responsible beacause of her own thinking. She should show a little bit of maturity and give Mihir the space and time.



And even i agree when You say its still not late. They must get divorced and Mi-Mi must get back together. It will save 3 lives and probably the forth one if someone comes in Mihika's life. Its better than crying for something which anyway was never yours. Atleast this will save them from lifetime of troubles and jealousy.

And i am speechless about the IshRa scenes. They were just Marvellous. Loved today's episode.

I agree but this is Ekta Mata's Serial...
Here once you are married then there are very rare chances of divorce even if its a forceful n loveless marriage...
I mean even Simmi didn't divorce parmeet inspite of all that drama
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey..I see u have given me credit for this post...Thanks much!!😛
As per ur post, couldnt resist...posting what I earier wrote on my thread :)

1. I believe Rinki's state is brought about by a lot of factors...majorly Toshi ji, who was HELL-BENT on getting her married...which is why that fiasco hapened right at the mandap...Ishita had NO CHOICE but to ask Mihir to save the situation which he did...because it waS CLEAR to everyone that Mihika has moved on...So Mihir took the step forward...Rinki had NO SAY in this at all...shaadi ke liye bhi raazi nai thi woh toh...I mean, a complete stranger ALMOST fooled her...so she accepted watever was coming her way...and knowing how dramatic and regressive YHM can sometimes be, we couldnt have expected Rinki to NOT marry Mihir...

but right now...the situation is getting worse...coz Mihir, unknowingly is only prioritizing Mihika...wondering abt her..talking to her...its not JUST CARE...and we all knw tht...Rinki cant suddenly go up to Mihir and ask, "Accha sach batao Mihir...tum aur Mihika arking lot mein kya baatein kar rahe the?" WONT IT SOUND INTRUSIVE? Wont it sound like she's spying on him?

And will Mihir ans the qs? NO. he will not.

2. You are ABS right ...Rinki ki haalat mein SABKA equal yogdaan hai...so thats wat Im saying...WY CANT THE ELDERS PITCH IN AND TALK TO RIMI ABOUT IT? Smoothen out the creases...hav a heart to heart with HER? Even Mihir shud be doing a lot of things..and since he;s not...its getting quite messy...its time for IshRa and the Bhallas to step in

Even Amma needs to make things clear to Mihika...its quite strange she doesnt understand how Rinki must be feeling...even that role play for Adi's movie wasnt needed...these are sensitive issues...atleast the elders in the family are expected to know such things...its like Rinki is a douchebag...lying on the side...

3. Rinki ran off because she felt like a piece of shit...unwanted...like SHE is the one who's responsible for this mess..and hence, she PICKED up her self-respect and left...maybe it was immature..but even Mihir came home drunk and wasted and said immature things...so why not let Rinki behave like a normal human being too???

I am totally for RiMi divorce...Rinki shud just STOP crying...feeling bad...and get a divorce...since Mihir still and only loves Mihika...

BTW...How can u dictate who will fall for whom first? Rem how blushy and red-faced Rinki was with that NRI groom...its not Mihir she is particularly in love with...but that doesnt mean she hasnt started falling for him like many women i this country do...even after an arranged marriage...😆

Mihir ki jagah koi aur bhi hota, to Rinki use dil se apna hi maanne lagti...coz a lot of women in this nation ritually fall for their husbands (the arranged-marriage ones too!) coz they accept marriage as a life long commitment and honor their vows...and its totally okay...

I dunno if anybody noticed it or not...but Rinki always had a soft corner for Mihir...and looking at how he wasnt forcing marital responsibilities down her throat but was encouraging her to pursue her dreams and all...upped Mihir's status in her eyes...she started liking him

Mihir ko nai lagta, toh yeh thodi matlab hai Rinki ko bhi nai lagega??

Why do we ONLY give men the space to be hurt and angry and all of that?

Why not, women as well?

Also...Mihika is NOT a victim...however harsh and mean, she IS suffering from the rsults of her past actions...NOBODY forced her to go for this horrendous sacrifice...

forget tht...DOES HER ALLEGIANCE LIE WITH ISHU MORE OR WITH SHAGUN?

She tried explaining it once to Shagun...woh nai samjhi toh bhaad mein jane diya hota...

Apni bewakoofi ki wajah se Ishu and Raman ke life mein itne probs kyun khada kiya?

And now SHE is the victim?

She could have fild a complaint against Ashok MONTHS ago...but she didnt..wat was she thinking? A man liek Ashok wont try things on her?

It totally gives out a wrong message to young girls...nobody shud try THIS kinda choice...

As for Rinki, she shud quit this marriage and concentrate on her career...damn marriage...damn Mmihir..NO MAN IS WORTH THIS TORTURE
Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sometimes i wonder how many times one can make efforts to intentionally defame one character who is loved by all...
one's own post n other's post as well...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: music24n7

Sometimes i wonder how many times one can make efforts to intentionally defame one character who is loved by all...

one's own post n other's post as well...


Im sorry...but I dont think I commented on UR thread...

wat do u mean by "one's own post n other's post as well..."

Just as the creator of this thread freely expressed his/her views on my thread ...i did the same...I have been making the effort of writing reviews since the past six months and expressing my views on the same...so I damn well will do that further on...the creator of this thread and others are free to visit the same and express themselves...

and we have no issues with each other... its good to agree to disagree...

No one said EVERYBODY's got to think like a a herd...I guess that's wat makes India a democratic country no...

so stop getting sarci...plzz

and for the record, NO ONE is defaming the said "one character"

The character's characterization over the past few months has been such that its hard to look at it thru a uni-dimensional lens...

Ishita and Raman...I love to bits...but that doesnt make ALL about them likeable or agreeable...

they have flaws too..and I comment on the same ...

why shud that "one character" be different?

Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with u that Rinki is immature n her decision to be like a wife to Mihir is over night but maybe dhe always liked Mihir or just started liking Mihir when she knew that he supports her education etc.

I think in Miminky problem Mihir is more guilty.

If he married Rinky he shud have thought about it then.

At least for me marriage is not over rated n shud not b broken for heck of it. (Call me old fashioned or whatever).

Rinky shud ask Mihir what he wants does he see a future with Her or he still wants Mihika, if he says latter then divorce is the only option.

But I feel its unfair that they shud not give their marriage a chance, if in case Mihir is ready to move on from his past.

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