Rinky should start respecting herself & act maturely! Loved IshRa - Page 3

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

Sorry, I beg to differ. Rinky reacted the same way that a typical wife would've reacted in her case. The "Love" you're talking about is a bubbled up thing sold by Bollywood as per its convenience, reality is something very different.

Please note that Rinky-Mihir marriage was neither a contract marriage nor it was a mariage of conveience. When suddenly Ishita brought up the proposal out of nowhere in the shaadi mandaap, Rinki was clearly hesitant. It was Mihir who convinced her by saying that "it will be fresh clean start" from his side. He promised that thier friendship would guide their way of marital life through concern, care and mutual understanding. It might not sound like a "love" story to you as it lacks the exciting color of Bollywood defined "love" but in reaity, it's more than love. It's like two soul mates finally have found each other. Mihir had promised Rinky to be his soulmate.

If I were in Mihir place, I would've been ashamed of myself for marrying a woman when I claerly love someone else. Why would Rinki suffer because of Ishita and Mihir? Mihir clearly gave assurance to Rinky at the time of wedding that he had moved on from his past and wanted to create a new beginning with her.

Rinky's reaction to Mihika's proposal or advice for the vacation/honeymoon was bang on. Any wife would've reacted the same way. Will Ishita take it LIGHTLY if Shagun advices Raman where and when to go for thier (IshRa) pending honeymoon?

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Rinki or rather the CVS should have watched the movie Queen before writing Rinkis story to understand how world and Bollywood has moved on and they are still in the era od Saas bhi kabhie Bahu thi

Originally posted by: --Megha--

I agree with u that Rinki is immature n her decision to be like a wife to Mihir is over night but maybe dhe always liked Mihir or just started liking Mihir when she knew that he supports her education etc.

I think in Miminky problem Mihir is more guilty.

If he married Rinky he shud have thought about it then.

At least for me marriage is not over rated n shud not b broken for heck of it. (Call me old fashioned or whatever).

Rinky shud ask Mihir what he wants does he see a future with Her or he still wants Mihika, if he says latter then divorce is the only option.

But I feel its unfair that they shud not give their marriage a chance, if in case Mihir is ready to move on from his past.

This whole "Love" triangle is so played out...clearly the writers have nothing better to show viewers. If I can make a small suggestion to the writers: How about showing women behaving like mature, sensible and smart creatures that we actually are! But I guess that would be asking for too much. At the end of the day all they are interested in is DRAMA.

Originally posted by: noname10

This whole "Love" triangle is so played out...clearly the writers have nothing better to show viewers. If I can make a small suggestion to the writers: How about showing women behaving like mature, sensible and smart creatures that we actually are! But I guess that would be asking for too much. At the end of the day all they are interested in is DRAMA.

Originally posted by: gravity23

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">But DOES it look like Mihir HAS moved on or is ready to move on?</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Looks like it isnt...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">he is still stuck</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">guilt-trip and all</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">If it persists, then its better Rinki move away..why pine for someone who doesnt feel the same abt u?</font>

Exactly n thats what I wrote that Rinky needs to ask him if he sees any future with her or wants to pine for Mihika all his life n stuck up in this Loveless marriage?

I think majority of the blame (even if he is not able to control his emotions) is Mihir.

As it was mihir who promised Rinky of new life.

Now if he thinks he cant live without mihika then divorce is the only option.

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Exactly n thats what I wrote that Rinky needs to ask him if he sees any future with her or wants to pine for Mihika all his life n stuck up in this Loveless marriage?

I think majority of the blame (even if he is not able to control his emotions) is Mihir.

As it was mihir who promised Rinky of new life.

Now if he thinks he cant live without mihika then divorce is the only option.

I don't think Rinki is being immature, I think she trying hard to be mature but situations are out of hand and she can't handle it.

She didn't tell her family what the problem was, she made it seem normal, nor did she get angry or ignore Mihir when he called, I think that is act of maturity in some what sense...

Mihir was drunk, but she did help to put him into bed. He was off to sleep when she walked out. I wouldn't blame her for her actions either, what Mihir spoke wasn't something easy for any wife digest. She felt unwanted...she did what made her feel better.

The promo might of made Rinki look bad, but I think its one of those frustrated conversations, I'm thinking Mihika must of asked something in regards to their supposed trip ,which naturally would irk Rinki and hence she busted out like that on Mihika...

The circumstances and reasons behind the marriage wasn't ideal for marriage,Rinki's love for Mihir is debatable but I feel Rinki has accepted the marriage, hence the reason she is bothered by her husband's EX being around. Some people are fast in accepting the reality and Rinki was one of them now her reality is being shaked... she needs time to emerge as strong and independent.

Originally posted by: Viji15

I don't think Rinki is being immature, I think she trying hard to be mature but situations are out of hand and she can't handle it.

She didn't tell her family what the problem was, she made it seem normal, nor did she get angry or ignore Mihir when he called, I think that is act of maturity in some what sense...

Mihir was drunk, but she did help to put him into bed. He was off to sleep when she walked out. I wouldn't blame her for her actions either, what Mihir spoke wasn't something easy for any wife digest. She felt unwanted...she did what made her feel better.

The promo might of made Rinki look bad, but I think its one of those frustrated conversations, I'm thinking Mihika must of asked something in regards to their supposed trip ,which naturally would irk Rinki and hence she busted out like that on Mihika...

The circumstances and reasons behind the marriage wasn't ideal for marriage,Rinki's love for Mihir is debatable but I feel Rinki has accepted the marriage, hence the reason she is bothered by her husband's EX being around. Some people are fast in accepting the reality and Rinki was one of them now her reality is being shaked... she needs time to emerge as strong and independent.

Also, WHY cant CVs bring in a plot...that makes Mihika move away from Delhi and Mihir and all this sordid nonsense...?? isnt it the most logical thing to do?