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What I like about this fight between the sisters is to some extent both are right in their own places. First of all Vani can argue that from her POV Saami is her son first before he is Rani's husband a mother has a right to discipline her son and no one will dispute that Saami is an ass sometimes. Rani will argue that despite the mother and son bond you cannot strike a married man in front of his wife it is very insulting for her. But at the same time if Gowtham or Surya do something terrible both Vani and Rani can strike them no one will dispute it because they are their mothers. That is the difference here and I would like to see Vani argue this point she is not upset that Rani called her names and shouted allegations she devalued her importance in Saami's life and what she means to him. I want both Vani and Rani to feel bad about their behavior they are both right and wrong. Vani is wrong to have not listened to Saami she should have respected his words the same way he listened to her words when Selvi got married respect works both ways, she is right to have struck Saami because no man should talk to his wife like that as his mother she has this right. Rani is right to have been upset about the slap because it was humiliating for her and Saami, but she is wrong to state that Vaani has no right to do that if Vani is truly Saami mother then she has ever right just like Rani and Vani have right to discipline their children and Rani is also wrong in accusing Vani of the same crime she is guilty of, saying something and actually meaning it are two different things just like she believes that Vani favors her children Rani is guilty of the same crime too and there is nothing wrong with that but don't be hypocritical about it.

I think in all this mess the person whose character that has stood out and whose convictions that should be admired is Gautham. Gautham treats all his siblings equally and not to mention he treats his four parents equally. Vani and Rani should appreciate him more as their son. If any of the siblings are in trouble Gowtham is their go to guy and he really steps up to the plate.

Before anything else can we see Sami have a private conversation with his anni apologize for his nasty tongue and Vani should apologize for doubting him. I have appreciated these two characters bond, but ever since Saami moved out he has looked down on Vani and only says she is like his mother but doesn't seem to respect her as one. I don't mean he needs to be a slave to her will but there was a beautiful bond at the start where you can genuinely feel the warmth in Vaani and Saami interactions like between a good mother and son, that warmth and sincerity doesn't exist anymore. I would like to see them reestablish that connect as it was admirable to see. I also felt Saami admiration for Vaani as his mother comes from the fact that he never got a real mother's love from his step mother so he really used to look up to Vaani as his mother which I thought was beautiful something never said out loud between them but it was understood as Vani organized Rani Saami marriage like she was getting her children married. I would like to see Saami acknowledge that Vaani is not just his brother wife and his complains that both the families are different also state that he doesn't see Vaani as his mother because if he did he wouldn't think of himself being different from his mother's family.

Yeah they need to go back to the strengths of Vani Rani which is human relations. Sisters bond, bond between siblings they might be cousins but they have a unity rarely seen on TV, well written characters it was great how close they were at the start despite their unique personalities Surya is the shy weak one, gautham is the rowdy, sarvanan is the principled disillusioned one, selvi is the dotted sister, thenu the spoiled one, saami bhoomi bond, strength of love and marriage and forgiveness and second chances.

Future prediction Surya is all trouble. He is the weakest link and he is married into a lousy family. The rest of the siblings lucked out with their in laws not to mention they have stronger personalities. Surya will spell doom for Vani and and that is how the sisters will reconcile. But I don't want to see Surya being the reason for Vani to go running to Rani, the sisters should solve their own problem separately in a dignified way with an open and honest conversation.

I have to also add I am quite surprised why the director chose this type of family as Vani In laws I wish more sophisticated looking couple who are really devilish were cast for this role. Because it makes Vani look like an idiot to not see through them especially the way they talk and act it is very crass, Kathir looks more polished compared to these clowns. I would have preferred more sophisticated villain family who are very rich in their own right and are posh looking wanted their daughter married off to a lame duck husband to hide her bad past. And Vani doesn't see through it at all and makes Surya marry this girl who is not nice at all which leads for him to split from the family. That would have been very interesting story to see, if you see both Selvi and yes Gautham too married partners of their choice and will be happy, but Surya listened to his parents and got screwed. It would have been different to see Surya turn against his parents because they ruined his life, that would be a far more interesting reason to split from parents than the usual overdone tried out I want all the money formula which all evil DILs pull. I would have preferred to see a clash in ideology. If the writers are looking for drama and want the children to leave parents they could find more creative reasons without making Surya the bad guy. This happens in reality all the time where parents think they know what is best and decide on a marriage that can go horribly wrong. I wish the writers gave the Surya story more thought and made it more interesting instead of regurgitating what has been seen millions of times.