maybe not Hate but a hesitant marriage

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ahil, who was shown as a bad bad boy has suddenly transformed into an introvert hesitant person.
Initially we saw that he masked his loneliness and issues under a crazy loud obnoxious cloud. But as he fell in love with Sanam, he stopped pretending.

We saw him take of his mask and show himself as he is - a sad troubled kid who is completely lost. Who wants to love and be loved back but does not believe that it can happen. We saw him looking at Sanam with yearning in his eyes but he never voiced it. He has a complete shut down when it came to Sanam. He feels for her we see it in his eyes but he never voices it - be it to make her understand his love or to stand up to nida when she is insulting Sanam.

Initially he used to push Sanam around because she could not see what he felt, but what I have noticed is that as he sees rehan and Sanam get close he is getting more silent. He is not abusive to her anymore in normal circumstances. He saw Rehan with Sanam talking and having fun and later instead of sulking about it, he had a conversation with Rehan - a meaningful and intelligent conversation. He saw Rehan and Sanam hugging after he saved her and did not run away - he got them back home. He saw Rehan confess his love and remained quite when he saw Sanam later.

He wants her but he is not fighting with anyone for it. I think he loves Rehan a lot and just because he thinks that Rehan loves Sanam and she reciprocates it he would stay away from her. I don't think it would be a hate marriage, I think it would be a marriage full of love which would start with Ahil's loveand end with Sanam's

What do u guys think

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post..I guess so... unless he thinks that though she loves Rehan, she married him for money
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yup. I, too, noticed that ARI is being more of the silent-sufferer type right now.
The point to remember is that he only assumes that S reciprocates R's love.
And you know what they say about 'assume'...😆

So, yes, I do like the 'hesitant' marriage.
S is not the type of girl who would take any kind of man-handling or mental torture lying down, and in any case, ARI is not depicted as the Angry Young Man...merely one unsure of his worthiness to be loved by anyone in his life.

His deep-seated psychological scars have never been addressed though therapy and counseling. He has sought 'love' (girlfriends and s*x) outside his home, even knowing that it is superficial.
He is possessive of his mother's love as if afraid it may be snatched from him.
His sisters - perhaps, because of the age-difference, he has never allowed himself to accept their caring.

So S's love will be definitely something he will not allow himself to accept at first.
He will be suspicious of it. (Is she in love with R and just pretending?)
He will be disbelieving. (Is it me or my money?)
He will be unsure. (Is it a mirage that will be taken away?)
He will be protective and possessive of it once he understands. (Don't want to lose it.)
He will be scornful of it. (Once he realizes she is destroying his castle-in-the-air of his mommy-love.)
He will miss it. (Once both are fighting over the mommy-issue.)
And he will slowly come to accept it. (After all revelations.)
Lots of regrets, tears, etc. later.

So jounoon love. Yes.
Would definitely prefer this over hatred, revenge, contract, etc. weddings.

Jayne




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agreed with TM and Jayne.
This will be no hate marriage. It will be a suffering, tormented Aahil.
Edited by KhatamKahani - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post! I too think this is gonna be a lil hesitant marraige, nmay be possible a lil misundersandinG too! Whenever he will feel some relief then again he'll witness Sanam n Regan together, he will be shattered again! N will stay away from Sanam! On the other hand Sanam might not understand his love too, for quiet a few time!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post and totally agree with you.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If this marriage going towards the way u said i m more than happy. I simply hate Hate Marriage track and woman abuse in the name of abuse. In almost every show we see that the husband shown as a jerk and abuser and the wife try to change them by their love. Which is a bullshit IMO. Can i expect here ahil try to win sanam's heart and love. I dont mind for MU's but pls no hate track.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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One more thing pls dont show that ahil thinks sanam loves rehan but married him for money
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think the misunderstanding would be that she is after his money. I think she has clarified enough time that she doesn't care about money. I think the main factor keeping them apart would be Rehan.

I really want it to be not a hate marriage. I hope CV's are listening
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: wreeti

I don't think the misunderstanding would be that she is after his money. I think she has clarified enough time that she doesn't care about money. I think the main factor keeping them apart would be Rehan.

I really want it to be not a hate marriage. I hope CV's are listening


exactly. Hope gul dont get inspired by watching KV and made sanam like pragya

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