The Basis Behind Raj's Dad's Rejection? - Page 3

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: KehanT


she didnt misbehave ??

then i think you dont find it rude to talk to your own mom the way she did on tv

i dont think she talk rudely but was a real react to her mother behaviour to create a big drama .bu the way check priyanka who misbehaved sudesh rani and her own sister ,raj and many other girls so i find rumpa better than her
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Anonymous_

i completely disagree..its priyanka whos completely not worthy of the perfect bride title
    superficial amidst controversies all the time accused of being on the show to become an actress accused of being in a live-in relationship disliked by her future FIL..he wouldnt say no so adamantly if there wasnt a reason behind it refuses to communicate with her future husband...which i feel is a HUGE flaw after getting depressed abt raj's father in the beginning..goes to cry on yash's shoulder..like if your sad go talk to your boyfriend abt it..not to another guy in hopes of making raj jealous...a stupid move on her part cries over every little thing...nothing is wrong about being emotional but the way her eyes easily stayed dry over this weekend when vivek and gur left showed she has no trouble turning the tears on or off for the 'sympathy votes'
  • doesnt stick to her word and does PDA

and the list goes on and on..

just cause rumpa got rejected by gaurav and moved on 2 months later cause she wants to be happy isnt an enough of a basis to not feel shes not worth being a perfect bride

how I dislike defending Pri. 😕
The live in relationship is a rumor as you said yourself. You can't crucify someone over a rumor. If they did live together I doubt the media would have such a hard time finding proof.
I don't read minds. I don't know if she cries for sympathy votes. For all I know she is simply an emotional person. I am a cry baby myself. So fogive me if I see nothing wrong with that. Some people tend to be more sensitive. I cry buckets during any sad scene of a movie.
She is not quite disliked by her FIL. It felt like he feels his son deserves better, maybe more attractive + bubbly girl.. It doesn't mean she can't be PB.
I do find her superficial. She tries way too hard and I also find many other small flaws in her.
But I have not found anything major like Rumpa's. Forget the word " perfect" bride. I can't even consider her a good person.
She doesn't know " love"
She doesn't know " loyalty"
She is way too insecure
She is immature
She is insensible
She is naive.
She supports violence and wrong decisions.
To me those seem like major traits a perfect bride must have. The fact that Pri is not as cool or composed as she pretends to be is bad but not as bad.
It's simply my opinion of course. 😊 When Raj's dad came the first time around she cried to Yash. Even though I was really against Pri at that time I didn't find anything wrong with that particular action. Friends are friends be it male or female. If the girls can cry to their female friends then Pri didn't do anything wrong by crying to Yash. I cried to my male friend when I broke up with my ex.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by fkbutts

i agree.i dont know why people are so against rumpa i dont think she misbehaved with anyone in all three months .she was sincere to guruve but guruve asked her .its a liking not love and she even ask him that she wants to be focused .it was priyanka who clearly said to rumpa that she eliminated guruv because he was confused and not with rumpa ..so i dont think rumpa should wait for guruve who wants nandtia more than rummpa...then ruumpa never try to go for any other boy untill hitesh called her for a date .i think she is deserving contestent for perfect bride .people say she insluted her mom i dont think she did.because it was her mom fault who eat first sweet and calling sudesh rani as a sumden and then objecting her son in law..so if any girl who is married or getting married would never like her mother to talk with husband like this...there is the way to talk with sumdon and son in law....and i think most of the time rumpa speaks what she feels and in a very nice manners .i like her in all ways ... TRUE
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: zanish_k

Originally posted by fkbutts

i agree.i dont know why people are so against rumpa i dont think she misbehaved with anyone in all three months .she was sincere to guruve but guruve asked her .its a liking not love and she even ask him that she wants to be focused .it was priyanka who clearly said to rumpa that she eliminated guruv because he was confused and not with rumpa ..so i dont think rumpa should wait for guruve who wants nandtia more than rummpa...then ruumpa never try to go for any other boy untill hitesh called her for a date .i think she is deserving contestent for perfect bride .people say she insluted her mom i dont think she did.because it was her mom fault who eat first sweet and calling sudesh rani as a sumden and then objecting her son in law..so if any girl who is married or getting married would never like her mother to talk with husband like this...there is the way to talk with sumdon and son in law....and i think most of the time rumpa speaks what she feels and in a very nice manners .i like her in all ways ... TRUE

The reason Rumpa is not liked it that she stepped in the Pooja's shoes minute she vacated. She had no sense to realize that Hitesh loved Pooja and if Pooja would have said yes, Hitesh wouldn't have cared for her at all. She is fooling herself by saying she was always in the picture. She believes whatever Hitesh and his mom tell her. She is not liked because she is acting very immature fashion. She is far deservering of a better groom than Hitesh and she went for Hitesh. She should have taken her chance with Gaurav instead of going with Hitesh. Hitesh is not very educated and he is not very cultured. Rumpa made a very bad judgement and she will pay for it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunandshine

yes both have flaws...i have NEVER said rumpa was perfect...i know she is flawed...but shes definitely no priyanka whos definitely in it to win it at all costs
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

But I have not found anything major like Rumpa's. Forget the word " perfect" bride. I can't even consider her a good person.
She doesn't know " love"
what makes you say that?? isnt she in love with hitesh right now and is even engaged?
She doesn't know " loyalty"
She was REJECTED by gaurav...so who is she supposed to be "loyal" to
she was actually loyal to guarav but he broke her heart when he started shifting towards nandita
(She is way too insecure
She is immature
She is insensible
She is naive)
I have no idea what your talking about in these 4 points...give examples to back this stuff up because these are just words without any base
She supports violence and wrong decisions.
i dont think she supports "violence"..like who would actually support violence?? I think she felt hitesh shouldnt have been provoked but i do agree that what hitesh did was not right at all
It's simply my opinion of course. 😊 When Raj's dad came the first time around she cried to Yash. Even though I was really against Pri at that time I didn't find anything wrong with that particular action. Friends are friends be it male or female. If the girls can cry to their female friends then Pri didn't do anything wrong by crying to Yash. I cried to my male friend when I broke up with my ex.

And I find it completely ridiculous that she went to yash...i explained in my post to sunandshine😊
Edited by _Anonymous_ - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I just wanted to make one point. Rumpa said ILU to Gaurav on the day of his elimination, but she never waited for an answer. At least Hitesh moved on after rejection. That was not the case with Rumpa. If I loved someone and said ILU to her at least I would wait for an answer after that and then move on. One more point you say ILU to a person and dont expect an answer within next morning.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007

The reason Rumpa is not liked it that she stepped in the Pooja's shoes minute she vacated. She had no sense to realize that Hitesh loved Pooja and if Pooja would have said yes, Hitesh wouldn't have cared for her at all. She is fooling herself by saying she was always in the picture. She believes whatever Hitesh and his mom tell her. She is not liked because she is acting very immature fashion. She is far deservering of a better groom than Hitesh and she went for Hitesh. She should have taken her chance with Gaurav instead of going with Hitesh. Hitesh is not very educated and he is not very cultured. Rumpa made a very bad judgement and she will pay for it.

Quite the contrary, I had always noticed that Hitesh nursed a soft spot for rumpa in his heart even when he was with pooja...because i always remembered hittu commenting on how sweet rumpa is..how perfect rumpa is...how from the beginning theres not a bad bone in her body...how out of all the girls rumpa is the most sincerest
He never mentioned anything negative about rumpa from the beginning
Hitesh is a lawyer..so how is he not educated 😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

I just wanted to make one point. Rumpa said ILU to Gaurav on the day of his elimination, but she never waited for an answer. At least Hitesh moved on after rejection. That was not the case with Rumpa. If I loved someone and said ILU to her at least I would wait for an answer after that and then move on. One more point you say ILU to a person and dont expect an answer within next morning.

She didnt get the answer though..she hoped that if she said it first, and if he reciprocated then she'd be willing to wait for him but he didnt...not even the morning afterwards
Hitesh moved on with the help of his mother
Rumpa had noone really so she took her time
Besides she even stated after she and hitesh were in the early stages of their relationship that before she acted without using her head and used only her heart and this time she'd be more cautious before moving forward
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Anonymous_

Quite the contrary, I had always noticed that Hitesh nursed a soft spot for rumpa in his heart even when he was with pooja...because i always remembered hittu commenting on how sweet rumpa is..how perfect rumpa is...how from the beginning theres not a bad bone in her body...how out of all the girls rumpa is the most sincerest
He never mentioned anything negative about rumpa from the beginning
Hitesh is a lawyer..so how is he not educated 😕

Hitesh was crying when Pooja left him. In real life I have not seen people move on in two or three days. People do move on but it takes months.
Vivek didn't move on when Nanadita rejected him.
I don't want to argu..but to me and many others it is too fickle and Rumpa attached herself with this very fickle Hitesh, that had a very negative reflection on Rumpa. Also Rumpa along with Gur made fun of Pooja looks and were gleefully laughing about the slap, only very cheap people talk that way...you will not be able to change my mind on this.in my world only low people talk about others in this way. Rumpa had no animosity with Pooja all of sudden after replacing Pooja she made out Pooja to be her enemy...totally sick attitude..Pooja has done nothing wrong to her..Rumpa aligned herself with Hitesh and became Pooja's enemy..I can never like a bully and Rumpa is a bully.

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