The Basis Behind Raj's Dad's Rejection? - Page 5

Originally posted by: sunandshine

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Originally posted by: April2007

You got it all wrong it is Rumpa who is low, she jumped in too soon, she makes many of us sick. It is very common for people to break up and get back together again ( I am glad Pooja didn't do this) Rumpa shouldn't have jumped in so soon. Rumpa has no diginity or self respect. She like an hungry idiot thought had she can replace Pooja in minutes..

It is Rumpa with no diginity and self respect that makes me sick. She will be used as a housekeeper by Sudeshrani and Hitty. Grumpa is very deciteful and she makes me sick.

Originally posted by: sweetgal2112

Lets not forget how Rumpa got into this relationship. She did not go out and try to get hooked to Hitesh as soon as Pooja left. It was Hits mum who got them together - by making her win tasks, sending her on dates randomly etc. Rumpa then got to know Hitesh as a person and probably realised he could be considered. This is when she said she wants to think from her head this time, and although it seems like only weeks, she did give it a little time before she fully accepted him.

Regarding getting over Pooja, I think Hitesh and Pooja were growing apart for a couple of weeks before Pooja broke it off. In any case - relationships where you have known a person for a long time, cared for them for long, been close emotionally and perhaps even physically - i can imagine taking a while to get over. For a 'relationship' of 8 weeks, with little emotional and no physical interaction, it will probably not take that long. Consider when you are 'looking' at guys or girls in an arranged marriage. You might not take it forward after 2-3 meetings/chat sessions etc, but you dont spend weeks getting over it. You move on. Quickly.More so in this case, where you are ON a show, obviously with an intention to win, and have now met a guy/girl (both from hitesh and rumpas perspectives) you think might be suitable for you.

Nothing wrong with wanting to win a show.

Nothing wrong with moving on from a previous relationship that didnt work.

And nothing wrong with trying to steer your son in the right direction so he can get over his past quickly.

Lots of things wrong otherwise, but i dont see any issues in these particular decisions taken by Rumpa and Hitesh. Specially now, when they do look like they genuinly care for each other. Alls well that ends well, eh?

Originally posted by: fkbutts

i agree.i dont know why people are so against rumpa i dont think she misbehaved with anyone in all three months .she was sincere to guruve but guruve asked her .its a liking not love and she even ask him that she wants to be focused .it was priyanka who clearly said to rumpa that she eliminated guruv because he was confused and not with rumpa ..so i dont think rumpa should wait for guruve who wants nandtia more than rummpa...then ruumpa never try to go for any other boy untill hitesh called her for a date .i think she is deserving contestent for perfect bride .people say she insluted her mom i dont think she did.because it was her mom fault who eat first sweet and calling sudesh rani as a sumden and then objecting her son in law..so if any girl who is married or getting married would never like her mother to talk with husband like this...there is the way to talk with sumdon and son in law....and i think most of the time rumpa speaks what she feels and in a very nice manners .i like her in all ways ...