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Originally posted by: pallavi25
Ovi has a PRIOR HISTORY of snatching Arjun from Purvi, so ArMaan readily believed that she had done it again!
Yeah right! And the way to do it was to insist on using illegal means to obtain a divorce when everyone around her was asking her to give another chance to her marriage and not even being in the same country as arjun or the rest of her family. Totally effective way to snatch someone. What were arjun and Ovi having? An air-borne spiritual affair where he impregnated her from a physically different location and she conceived a-la Kunti?
ArMaan were furious with Ovi, and felt guilty on Purvi's behalf that everytime Ovi snatches her happiness. So they didnt call Ovi as they thought she had settled down with Arjun and her baby in India.They called purvi and onir for the party when they knew she had committed an even worse mistake and she was apparently disowned, why couldn't they call Ovi? That was immediate (probably shown in the next episode from when archana "disowned"purvi), surely they could have cooled down their anger at some point in the 20 years and made sure Pia if not Ovi was a part of the family at important occasions, at the very least?If Ovi could call Arjun frequently in last 20 yrs, why couldnt she call her parents or sister?If Ovi can forgive Arjun for being callous and uncaring abt Pia, why cant she forgive her parents who didnt even know abt Pia as she had not informed them abt Pia's premature birth or illness?If ARMAN could forgive purvi for not only hiding the fact that she was an unwed mom, pari was her and arjun's child and swapping babies with Ovi's without consulting either of the parents, why couldn't they forgive Ovi? If they could call purvi and onir for a family gathering even when purvi was apparently disowned, why couldn't they keep tabs on Ovi or at least Pia even if they were cold to her and didn't talk to her directly? And like I mentioned in my previous post, even when they learnt the ghastly truth they didn't disown purvi completely and archana and manav both expressed worry for her; whereas they only expressed hatred for Ovi.Just one call from Ovi to Manav or Savita could have cleared up all misunderstandings. Archana may be biased in Purvi's favor but Manav and Savita have always favored Ovi and supported or forgiven her every time!Neither Manav or savita were bothered about Ovi even after they learnt that Ovi had, in fact, not been having an affair with arjun or living with him. It was only after they came to India to reunite arjun and purvi, and attended a complete stranger's marriage that they remembered they had another daughter that was wronged. And that after archana reminded them. And anyways, we don't know if Ovi called and tried to clear the misunderstanding. We know arjun did and was not even allowed to speak. We also know that Ovi was hated for 20 years (both archana and teju mentioned this) and none of them were concerned about Ovi or Pia. How do we know that Ovi tried and failed or didn't try at all? Nothing has been shown to say one way or the other, and based on the family's reaction towards arjun's attempts and their hatred for arjun and Ovi, it is highly possible that if Ovi had tried, she would have failed.
And again, the topic is about who has a greater responsibility towards reaching out. And the parents have the greater responsibility because parents are supposed to love and support their children unconditionally even while punishing them, and they are also wiser, more experienced and more mature than their children (whatever maybe the age of the parents or the children). Parents are supposed to never take sides in fights between children, to never show bias and definitely never ever disown to cut off ties so completely. That is what parents do, that's how parents are. Doesn't mean children don't have responsibility, but parents definitely have the greater share of burden in this relationship. Especially in this case where due to no fault of the children, the children that they willingly brought into the world were deprived of a parent's love and a normal childhood (and possibly their adult lives as well) because of the mistakes of the parents.
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Tum Se Tum Tak
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